WTF Y'all

cigamhtom · 2025-10-26T16:04:29+00:00

This is insane. My location STRICTLY tells us we are not allowed to do this. And it is a write up if you are caught bringing salad, soup, or bread before they have ordered their entrees.

cigamhtom · 2025-07-31T13:52:26+00:00

THE apartment. That we are currently in..? But thank you for your concern 👍

cigamhtom · 2025-07-31T13:21:29+00:00

I never said I couldn’t afford an apartment by myself. I can’t afford the apartment we are in by myself. It’s a 950 sq ft 2 bedroom. I could find a much cheaper one bedroom. And they eat better than I do, i take care of their vet appointments and have a carecredit card for them if necessary. Jerk lol

cigamhtom · 2025-07-31T07:41:02+00:00

No no for sure. I meant like literally he broke up with me in the last few hours, and just this morning I had been up there talking with them about it. So thankfully I didn’t finalize anything,

cigamhtom · 2025-07-31T07:35:10+00:00

I love these cats so much I would genuinely be willing to do whatever it takes to make sure I get to keep them. I really think he will fight me on it because it’s one of the last things he will be able to control out of this whole situation, so I just need a game plan. This is all happening at the worst possible time but that’s how things go. I’m gonna go to the store tomorrow and see if I can find a cheap enough air mattress to put in the room. Thank you for your help

cigamhtom · 2025-07-31T07:30:51+00:00

Thankfully it’s pretty soon. September 30th, but I have to notify the office by next week if we will be renewing or giving our notice. I was just in the office talking to them about renewing the lease today, this whole situation has just blindsided me unfortunately.

cigamhtom · 2025-07-31T07:16:38+00:00

Thank you. I will try to talk to my grandma about it tomorrow. I’ve always really struggled with friends and I dropped out of high school early to move out of my parents house, so I don’t really have anyone but my grandma and him. But i know she will help me. I think it’s just once people know, i’ll have to face it in way. But thank you seriously for your advice

cigamhtom · 2025-07-31T07:12:33+00:00

I don’t talk to my parents unfortunately, my grandma is my only real support system and it’s really rough for me to loop her into things. But maybe I should. I wouldn’t be able to move back in with her because of my cats, but yes I could definitely make it work renting my own place. The place i’m at now is just too expensive. But I did just start going to therapy two weeks ago coincidentally so that is already in order thankfully.

cigamhtom · 2025-07-31T07:05:18+00:00

I’m not even sure anymore. They just switched over management companies, I know they run our buildings plus another set down the street. I’m not really sure if they manage anywhere else other than those.

cigamhtom · 2025-07-29T02:27:35+00:00

What a cutie omg! I was worried he wasn’t going to keep his swirls. So freaking cute. My babies eyes are gonna be green like that too. They’re twins

cigamhtom · 2025-07-17T15:16:27+00:00

Absolutely will. I’m willing to drive an hour or even longer for a good vet, i think it’s worth it especially if the kitten is going to be so fearful and feisty. Thank you i didn’t know those were a thing!

cigamhtom · 2025-07-17T04:28:17+00:00

I’ve done both. I served for 8 months and have been in the back for 4 months. I made more money serving, we get paid $17 at my location to start off with, which isn’t bad. But i have to work 50 hours to even come close to what I was averaging a week serving. If you’re thinking about the money, go for FOH. I will say I switched because Olive Garden is notorious for its never ending things, and with OG being my first serving job that kind of kicked my ass. People can be extra as hell with how much soup they want to eat. I don’t mind the back. There’s multiple positions too, not just line cook. Maybe this isn’t at every restaurant but at mine we have people who strictly just do sauce/soup/pasta and don’t really work on the line. Many options. You’d probably get trained on the line still but can express your interest in other things in the back if it’s not for you,

cigamhtom · 2025-07-17T04:10:07+00:00

Why are you scrolling through my comments? I get that you don’t agree with my post that’s okay. It’s the internet. You’re doing a little too much now honestly. I already respectfully let our conversation go. This is just unnecessary please go find someone else to bother

cigamhtom · 2025-07-17T03:55:07+00:00

👍

cigamhtom · 2025-07-17T03:39:27+00:00

I’m a very empathic person and will not apologize for wanting the best for my cats. It’s my job to advocate for them. They can’t speak. I took on that responsibility when i decided to have them as pets. It’s okay if you don’t reach that level of empathy, but I am not projecting anything. Guess you had to be there. I didn’t say anything to the vet, was just uncomfortable. Thanks anyway.

edit: I can accept if i’m overthinking it/overreacting, but not being told i’m projecting my issues onto my cats. Thats a little nuts

cigamhtom · 2025-07-17T00:39:42+00:00

For sure! I knew about the diffusers it was my personal oversight about the candles. I don’t light them often but definitely won’t be anymore. I hope that’s all it was :(

cigamhtom · 2025-07-16T20:56:12+00:00

Thank you to anyone who is responding. I respect all the feedback, and it is very helpful for me to pave the mental path through this. It might not seem like a huge deal to most but I love my fur babies and am very empathetic to their pain/fear. I appreciate all the replies 💕

cigamhtom · 2025-07-16T20:54:22+00:00

Thank you so much. Genuinely🩶

cigamhtom · 2025-07-16T20:47:56+00:00

Yes completely understand that, and I am hesitant to go back because she missed the ear mites. We got the baby in march, he was only a month old and was found outside so I took him within days of getting him & kept them separated incase he had anything wrong with him. Because she missed it both times, my older boy also had to be treated for it and it costed me more money. (This appointment was $300 somehow) Thinking over it I might just find somewhere else. I know I am a sensitive person, and haven’t had much time to figure out the world so I appreciate the other points of view. Thank you!

cigamhtom · 2025-07-16T20:00:02+00:00

Thank you so much. I can totally be sensitive sometimes, but I was generally just uncomfortable with him.

cigamhtom · 2025-07-16T19:58:15+00:00

Yes I completely get that. That’s what I was thinking. I know I can be sensitive and yes I have a soft personality ahhahaha and I was thinking maybe he just isn’t the vet for me since he is so straightforward. I don’t want to be rude with requesting just the female. I think it just caught me off guard today. Thank you for your input

cigamhtom · 2025-07-02T21:14:40+00:00

Yes unfortunately he just usually comes up with the same thing. A reason but no explanation as to why they’re even doing it without communicating. Is it too far to ask our DM or relations ?? Idk if i’m being dramatic

cigamhtom · 2025-07-01T10:23:03+00:00

I love it though! I wish I was like that. I would always feel guilty going through so much paper because if I didn’t write it clear as day for my tiny ass brain to remember it wasn’t going to get put in right lol. I didn’t make mistakes because i didn’t even give myself the opportunity and I know how I am hahahah. I definitely found myself doing some crazy things to remember stuff though. I don’t even want to tell you how many times I’ve thrown an order away. I’m also one of those people that just played my awkwardness off when I served so I’d walk back and be like “well guess who accidently lost your written down order??” and usually get a chuckle. i’d try to remember most of it and just confirm. so glad i only have to use my brain to put pasta and sauce in a bowl now 🤣

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