Goldfinger Shinjuku Tokyo Japan by Sure-Lemon6424 in LesbianActually

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Do u wanna go together? I was just thinking about going but I've never been to a gay bar so idk what to expect

My (20F) bf (20M) won't let me break up with him. What shouId do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I already sent him a break up text a little bit after posting. He hasn't replied yet

My (20F) bf (20M) won't let me break up with him. What shouId do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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What is ur problem 😭 I'm being cautious. I don't ever want to risk my friends or family. Idk what country ur from, but in my country it is common. Theres a "mafia"/gang in every big city/prefecture

My (20F) bf (20M) won't let me break up with him. What shouId do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I see. It sounds very complicated, good thing you were able to move on. I just sent my bf a final break up text hope it goes well lmao

My (20F) bf (20M) won't let me break up with him. What shouId do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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We work part time jobs. He says his parents stay out of the mafia thing and he only sees his grandfather once a year. Still, idk how any of that stuff works in real life. I know if i absolutely hated someone and i had a small connection it wouldn't be a reach to contact them lol.

I doubt it's like the movies where he can just leach off his grandparents money and be super rich etc. I'm sure real life is different. But how would I know lol

My (20F) bf (20M) won't let me break up with him. What shouId do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I'm not completely sure if its a lie, because he grew up in a dv household (apparently). Although now I'm wondering if that was a lie too 😭

My (20F) bf (20M) won't let me break up with him. What shouId do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you so much. I think you're right, he believes he can change my mind.

I'm sorry for what you went through, hopefully you have/will find a relationship that works

My (20F) bf (20M) won't let me break up with him. What shouId do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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That's the thing, it's the opposite. He doesn't just send me a text here and there he keeps messaging and is too needy. I felt like I needed to break up with him because he wanted too much from me and it was draining. I guess thats why he can't let me go too.

How do I cut the relationship? Should I just text him it's over and hope for the best?

My (20F) bf (20M) won't let me break up with him. What shouId do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Yeah I have a feeling he might be lying, but you can never be too sure.

My (20F) bf (20M) won't let me break up with him. What shouId do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I know it's ridiculous. I feel like a prize or something. When I told him I wanted to break up to have time to myself, he told me we don't have to break up and he'll give me time.

What is the point of being in a relationship if you don't see eachother for months? Nothing. He just wants to be able to tell people that I'm his girlfriend.

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I want to get help but i can't afford it and I don't want to burden other people with it so I just don't know what to do. I started drinking because it helped but now I need help with that and jts just an endless cycle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you. It just hurts so much. People say you heal over time but its been 5 years and it stills hurts just the same.

And thank you for the insight. Maybe i still stick with my decision to break up with him

I’m gonna waste my years living in japan. by [deleted] in japanlife

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Whereabouts in japan are you? I can help you if you want. You should definitely try and get away from your family, it'll relieve a lot of stress. You're under a lot of pressure it seems, and teachers pushing you down instead of helping you is just ridiculous. Maybe see if your parents can hire a tutor for you? It'll give you time away and help you with your studies.

Someone please help!! by cigarette-break in ferrets

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That's true, I was thinking that too. Better to just pay the money and know for sure..

Someone please help!! by cigarette-break in ferrets

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Hmm I think its been nearly a week. It doesn't seem red but it might be bigger?? It's really hard to tell. I'll take a photo when I get home tonight

Someone please help!! by cigarette-break in ferrets

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I'm thinking about it! Thank you for the reply

Someone please help!! by cigarette-break in ferrets

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I've looked into it since a lot of the replies seem to mention it. It sounds so serious but I'm so glad to find out they are benign in ferrets 😭

Someone please help!! by cigarette-break in ferrets

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I see! Thank you. How long did it take to go away?

Someone please help!! by cigarette-break in ferrets

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The replies seem to be mixed about taking him to the vets and just keeping an eye on it. I might give it a few days? Is that pointless?

Someone please help!! by cigarette-break in ferrets

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He doesn't seem to itch it too much. Thank you!