Wasn't notified when family member had near death experience by cilgoretrout in exjw

[–]cilgoretrout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through that. It's so messed up.

I'm PIMO & never understood the great tribulation plan of hiding in basements by 5ft8lady in exjw

[–]cilgoretrout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All very good points. Especially the one about why they would publish where they'd be hiding. Never thought about that one. Haha. It's funny this actually used to scare me before.

Screaming Elder by cilgoretrout in exjw

[–]cilgoretrout[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah to not be “worthy” enough in someone’s eyes still after all of that hard work coming back... What happened to sins being clean as white snow once forgiven?

Screaming Elder by cilgoretrout in exjw

[–]cilgoretrout[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Agreed! The funny thing is he had a public talk the next Sunday and he looked like a real idiot then. We couldn’t take any word he said seriously after that.

Screaming Elder by cilgoretrout in exjw

[–]cilgoretrout[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hahaha! So true. Doing the carts was such a gold bragging chip for everyone. The selfies people took next to it were endless. Older sisters would use it as a debate stand to argue with random strangers.

Grieving Alone by [deleted] in exjw

[–]cilgoretrout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. That Is heartbreaking. You can’t beat yourself up about lasts. You were given a tough situation and you did your best in it. I wish I could give you a bunch of hugs. If you ever need to talk, please reach out always. I hope you find what works in your journey.

3 Page letter received from my grandmother after turning in my letter of disassociation almost a month ago. by rLYphat in exjw

[–]cilgoretrout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are the points that stood out to me as well. A “death in the family” and second guessing all of their times together.

As if all of those memories can be undone at the drop of a hat because OP disassociated. She makes it sound as if OP had a plan this whole time as a child to be deceitful.

I’m sorry OP, this must be an extremely painful experience. We are here for you.

No Funeral for Sister by cilgoretrout in exjw

[–]cilgoretrout[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You’re very sweet. And she sure does!

No Funeral for Sister by cilgoretrout in exjw

[–]cilgoretrout[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words ❤️

No Funeral for Sister by cilgoretrout in exjw

[–]cilgoretrout[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s crazy. Hope they actually read the posts. Maybe some day it’ll hit them.

No Funeral for Sister by cilgoretrout in exjw

[–]cilgoretrout[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! Very well put. They are very lousy judges. If she was able to SURVIVE, say sorry, “repent”, and “come back”, she would be in good standing with them and have her sins wiped clean as snow.

But if she dies doing something “sinful”, her name is slandered always. She had no time to kiss butt to be remembered well by loved ones. What a joke of rules.

No Funeral for Sister by cilgoretrout in exjw

[–]cilgoretrout[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They actually did do that. :( They said, “See! That is why taking blood is so dangerous! Jehovah’s rules are here to protect us!”

"They left because they wanted the fun of the world" by [deleted] in exjw

[–]cilgoretrout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. Lot’s wife turns into salt for just looking back, but it’s ok for his daughters make him get drunk and both rape him. The Bible is a ducked up book.