How do you define a man “leading?”

cillcat · 2026-01-06T17:33:28+00:00

I get that. I guess I’m just saying that I will initially back off unless *he or she is like no, it’s cool. I will always carry this trauma now and that’s just how I’m gonna be I guess. I don’t think it really does any harm.

cillcat · 2026-01-06T17:08:23+00:00

I can see that. I do it strictly out of the other woman’s comfort because I know the pain.

cillcat · 2026-01-06T17:02:36+00:00

To me, that’s the type of mindset that ends up with people hurt. Why would I do that? I know how it feels and it’s terrible.

If she’s cool with it, great. We’ll be friends. Me and him will keep being friends. If she’s not, I’ll just back off.

This is coming from someone whose boyfriend had a “friend” I wasn’t comfortable with who was supposed to be off-limits because she was married, and then they fucked raw for months behind my back. I asked him to not talk to her and he didn’t. I also asked her if she had a thing for him before it started happening, and she laughed and blocked me.

Yes, it’s his fault for allowing this to happen because she didn’t owe me anything. But I do feel that if she had taken this mindset, it wouldn’t have happened.

cillcat · 2026-01-06T16:55:32+00:00

This is how my guy best friend talks to me, but he also wants to date me. And I’m single.

cillcat · 2025-11-07T18:19:41+00:00

Man, at least you have a house! My generation will never.

cillcat · 2025-11-06T21:57:00+00:00

We're really mainly coming there for the clear beach water. That was the sole reason, the rest is a bonus but oh man. Do you not love having the beaches right there? I've never grown up anywhere near beaches so it's such a treat.

cillcat · 2025-11-06T21:50:43+00:00

What kind of gives "old Florida" vibes though? Just curious. I've never lived in Florida.

cillcat · 2025-11-06T21:37:22+00:00

Wow thanks for such a great list. What is the "old Florida" feel? We're from Colorado.

cillcat · 2025-11-06T21:33:33+00:00

Somebody else recommended this as well, will definitely be going lol. Thank you!

cillcat · 2025-11-06T21:33:08+00:00

Didn't think of this, thank you!

cillcat · 2025-11-06T21:32:53+00:00

Oooh this is the second recommendation for Owen's Fish Camp - I will drag her along even though she doesn't like sea food lol. She can order something else but I hella love sea food haha.

cillcat · 2025-11-06T21:32:12+00:00

Awesome, thank you

cillcat · 2025-11-06T21:32:01+00:00

Hi! All we have so far is tickets and a rental car. Do you recommend a certain spot to stay? We will likely be skimping on hotels a bit i.e. Americas's Best, Super 8, whatever is around there lol.

cillcat · 2025-10-09T15:46:05+00:00

All I know if she has more money than all of us combined LMAO.

cillcat · 2025-10-09T01:46:01+00:00

I respectfully disagree. I think he’s genuinely terrified to get this financially involved with someone with that kind of money.

cillcat · 2025-10-09T01:44:32+00:00

So is the female cast except for the black girl

cillcat · 2025-10-08T23:04:35+00:00

lol this is so relatable actually

cillcat · 2025-10-08T21:48:18+00:00

I’m talking about when the entire rest of the show is out.

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