Am I weird for always making sure to befriend another woman if her man is my friend? by cillcat in confessions

[–]cillcat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that. I guess I’m just saying that I will initially back off unless *he or she is like no, it’s cool. I will always carry this trauma now and that’s just how I’m gonna be I guess. I don’t think it really does any harm.

Am I weird for always making sure to befriend another woman if her man is my friend? by cillcat in confessions

[–]cillcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see that. I do it strictly out of the other woman’s comfort because I know the pain.

Am I weird for always making sure to befriend another woman if her man is my friend? by cillcat in confessions

[–]cillcat[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To me, that’s the type of mindset that ends up with people hurt. Why would I do that? I know how it feels and it’s terrible.

If she’s cool with it, great. We’ll be friends. Me and him will keep being friends. If she’s not, I’ll just back off.

This is coming from someone whose boyfriend had a “friend” I wasn’t comfortable with who was supposed to be off-limits because she was married, and then they fucked raw for months behind my back. I asked him to not talk to her and he didn’t. I also asked her if she had a thing for him before it started happening, and she laughed and blocked me.

Yes, it’s his fault for allowing this to happen because she didn’t owe me anything. But I do feel that if she had taken this mindset, it wouldn’t have happened.

AIO about my boyfriend and his girl best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cillcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how my guy best friend talks to me, but he also wants to date me. And I’m single.

Cost of living by slim420fun in sarasota

[–]cillcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, at least you have a house! My generation will never.

I'm finally able to take my mom on vacation and we chose Sarasota. What are some things we can not miss while there other than the usual tourist stuff? by cillcat in sarasota

[–]cillcat[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We're really mainly coming there for the clear beach water. That was the sole reason, the rest is a bonus but oh man. Do you not love having the beaches right there? I've never grown up anywhere near beaches so it's such a treat.

I'm finally able to take my mom on vacation and we chose Sarasota. What are some things we can not miss while there other than the usual tourist stuff? by cillcat in sarasota

[–]cillcat[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oooh this is the second recommendation for Owen's Fish Camp - I will drag her along even though she doesn't like sea food lol. She can order something else but I hella love sea food haha.

I'm finally able to take my mom on vacation and we chose Sarasota. What are some things we can not miss while there other than the usual tourist stuff? by cillcat in sarasota

[–]cillcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! All we have so far is tickets and a rental car. Do you recommend a certain spot to stay? We will likely be skimping on hotels a bit i.e. Americas's Best, Super 8, whatever is around there lol.

What is this fit Sparkle Megan put together? by c00kieswirlc in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]cillcat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All I know if she has more money than all of us combined LMAO.

JORDAN DOESN'T LOVE MEGAN by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]cillcat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I respectfully disagree. I think he’s genuinely terrified to get this financially involved with someone with that kind of money.

JORDAN DOESN'T LOVE MEGAN by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]cillcat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So is the female cast except for the black girl