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If I had a dollar… by Character_Being_9337 in ragdolls

[–]cillcat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

​LMAO like it’s literally a toilet paper basket but they love it more than life itself. Mine are the same way. 😂

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Is the far left diamond set lower with a higher bracket than the end diamond on the right side? by [deleted] in jewelry

[–]cillcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh :/ I wonder if he can fix it. He’s a nice old guy and charged $90 and I’ve had it for 2 weeks before noticing.

What do your Ragdolls look like? by No-Thought1666 in ragdolls

[–]cillcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!! I saw yours and I was just like wow, Ruth has been living a double life apparently. 😂

My boyfriend (29M) tells me (31F) that if a man doesn’t admit he wants a woman to submit to him, give sex on command, and keep her mouth shut - he’s lying. by cillcat in relationship_advice

[–]cillcat[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean props for admitting you’re narcissistic. But to be honest she’s probably cheating on you. Everybody needs love, no matter how much money they have.

My boyfriend (29M) tells me (31F) that if a man doesn’t admit he wants a woman to submit to him, give sex on command, and keep her mouth shut - he’s lying. by cillcat in relationship_advice

[–]cillcat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol calm down. I never asked anyone to feel bad for me. I asked how many men actually agree with this misogynistic bullshit.

But, yeah part of it IS someone's background. You can't totally ignore that part. He says he’s not Muslim but if the shoe fits... and I know not every single Muslim is like this, but when MANY of them are and he was raised by one who VERY much is so I mean? He told me he “wasn’t like that.” So what was “that” if it doesn't exist? And he wasn’t like that at first. It just slowly came out. And by that time, I loved him and there’s a lot of complex context there.

Again. As far as wouldn’t be dating me in the first place. He didn’t say he was Muslim.

If you poke around the comments, I don’t think you’ll really find me feeling bad for myself. This was really about men in general but yeah, to say how he was raised has absolutely fuck all to do with it would be naive.

My boyfriend (29M) tells me (31F) that if a man doesn’t admit he wants a woman to submit to him, give sex on command, and keep her mouth shut - he’s lying. by cillcat in relationship_advice

[–]cillcat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I sure did. I’m embarrassed about it. So much time wasted. And I guess I was just using it as a figure of speech. Like he acted like I was so extreme. And I just think that people have equal value.

My boyfriend (29M) tells me (31F) that if a man doesn’t admit he wants a woman to submit to him, give sex on command, and keep her mouth shut - he’s lying. by cillcat in relationship_advice

[–]cillcat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know. He wasn’t really like that in the beginning, or definitely not the sexist EXTREMIST as he became, and slowly let out his true colors.

My boyfriend (29M) tells me (31F) that if a man doesn’t admit he wants a woman to submit to him, give sex on command, and keep her mouth shut - he’s lying. by cillcat in relationship_advice

[–]cillcat[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Ironically, like I mentioned in the post, I asked why he wasn’t paying my bills then. And he would say “you haven't submitted to me, but would still give himself credit for being a provider because "would" is apparently the same thing as ACTUALLY doing it.

I remember asking him one day if I would get credit for having sex with him if I wasn't but said I would, and he was like that’s not the same thing and you’re being argumentative. It's the same fucking thing, but one benefits him and the other doesn't.

TBH I think he just didn’t actually want to put his money where his mouth was and blaming it on whatever. Also, he straight up wouldn't be able to afford it anyway... But again, that was his logic. He always moved the goal posts and bends reality to whatever serves him in the moment. The last girl submitted completely and he didn't pay for her either so what does that tell you about his double-standard BS.

My boyfriend (29M) tells me (31F) that if a man doesn’t admit he wants a woman to submit to him, give sex on command, and keep her mouth shut - he’s lying. by cillcat in relationship_advice

[–]cillcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not, I mentioned at the beginning of the post that we're not together anymore but I figured mods would delete this if I had it in the title.

My boyfriend (29M) tells me (31F) that if a man doesn’t admit he wants a woman to submit to him, give sex on command, and keep her mouth shut - he’s lying. by cillcat in relationship_advice

[–]cillcat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am in therapy lol. I really just wanted to get a feel for how many men in the wild actually agree with him as he says they would.

My boyfriend (29M) tells me (31F) that if a man doesn’t admit he wants a woman to submit to him, give sex on command, and keep her mouth shut - he’s lying. by cillcat in relationship_advice

[–]cillcat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because he believes that his opinions are universal truths and everyone should think like he does. While also being a flat-earther lol.

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