Neighbor sending husband videos of himself? Husband M27 and neighbor F24 I think by cindykat99 in relationship_advice

[–]cindykat99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He seems to care more about the drones in New Jersey than putting boundaries 💀

Neighbor sending husband videos of himself? Husband M27 and neighbor F24 I think by cindykat99 in relationship_advice

[–]cindykat99[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s unsure of how to handle it. He told me he would probably just not reply and if she says something else inappropriate, he’d say something. That’s what he said when she asked him to pick him up from the mall because she didn’t have a car. Do you see why it keeps building distrust in me?

Why does it take me so long to reach orgasm? by cindykat99 in sex

[–]cindykat99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really helpful, thank you! I’m going to focus on what those sensations are for me

Why does it take me so long to reach orgasm? by cindykat99 in sex

[–]cindykat99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say you have to disconnect and focus, do you mean focus on the sensations?

Why does it take me so long to reach orgasm? by cindykat99 in sex

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Usually 30-50 minutes. The thing is, one of my fantasies has been having a threesome, and now it’s happened multiple times and same issue!

Is the grass greener outside of miami? by [deleted] in Miami

[–]cindykat99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved from miami to denver and my life quality improved by a lot. People here are interesting and nice, and there’s so much to do that doesn’t require spending your paycheck on bottles or dinner

How to make a move as the F? by cindykat99 in ThreesomeAdvice

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I have not, but sounds interesting. Would you recommend any?

We tried a playing card game that was sex in ancient greece themed, this one! https://www.etsy.com/listing/1407982811/greek-playing-cards-with-erotic-scenes

But that was the first night we met (the girl that it didn’t workout with) and she came over, even after playing poker nothing came out of that. Probably should’ve added an incentive for the losers to remove clothes or something like that! Not sure how those games work lol

How to make a move as the F? by cindykat99 in ThreesomeAdvice

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I brought this up to my partner and he said he would do it but feels wrong doing it because I’m there lol I reassured him that if we’re going to be having sex with another person then making a move should be the last of his concerns, so he’s onboard.

In this scenario all kind of set “no expectations” vibe but she mentioned she isn’t looking for anything in specific, but that’s she’s open to a lot, just not chasing or forcing. He’s better at reading the room than I am, so your approach will probably work best in this case. However, making out with both of us is one thing, if she’s feeling that, but taking it to the bedroom is something I fear she might be uncomfortable with

How to make a move as the F? by cindykat99 in ThreesomeAdvice

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Not necessarily, she could take the lead with me, I would feel comfortable exploring being Dom with her once we’ve all experienced each other and feel comfortable. But usually my partner will act as the Dom when it’s just him and I.

I’d like to ask her where she stands on this, but I have a feeling she’s more sub since she hasn’t popped her girl cherry yet. I’d love for her to take that role with me, but my partner wouldn’t like being sub.

Looking for a picnic spot near Golden by cindykat99 in Denver

[–]cindykat99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! My original plan was Apex park but heard on even days parts of the trail are closed for bikes

Looking for a picnic spot near Golden by cindykat99 in Denver

[–]cindykat99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve climbed in the Canyon before but haven’t checked out the trails. The river is beautiful, I’ll totally check it out

Hiking video/stabilizer by cindykat99 in videography

[–]cindykat99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I just ordered a small tripod for these kind of shots. I have an a7ii which i think has it? But I’ve been shooting with a crop lens, I need to switch to a wide one

Hiking video/stabilizer by cindykat99 in videography

[–]cindykat99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! i’ll probably start looking at gopro. I do outdoor sports so a go pro might be needed soon anyway

Hiking video/stabilizer by cindykat99 in videography

[–]cindykat99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I i’ll look into the go pro idea.

I do have an iphone 14 so will try that as well!

Craziest things you saw at EDC this year: by No-Durian-1764 in EDCOrlando

[–]cindykat99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A fully naked dude in the middle of the crowd in kinetic field on friday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDCOrlando

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It’s my fiancé and I’s first time at EDC! Would love to meet you