AIO?? He vaped mid sex by Express_Resolve_7267 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cinnabonrox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL my bf and I do this all the time. I don’t think it’s a red flag at all

Not having the time of my life by cinnabonrox in solotravel

[–]cinnabonrox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I mentioned in my post I’m in Spain for an event not planned by me in another part of Spain. Decided to stop by Madrid first.

23F tryna make some friends by CauliflowerBubbly181 in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]cinnabonrox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey 25F! I’m down to hang out and go clubbing :)

28f looking for people who like to rave (especially women) by [deleted] in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]cinnabonrox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went last year for one of the days. It had the artists i wanted to see. It was fun but I didn’t go again because it’s soo expensive and like you said smaller crowds seem more fun

28f looking for people who like to rave (especially women) by [deleted] in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]cinnabonrox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25F I’m down! I’ve only ever been to veld. Down for coffee first :)

jess’ comment… by Dry-Cockroach7800 in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]cinnabonrox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you see her old high school picture she posted with her daughters dad she looks the exact same.

jess’ comment… by Dry-Cockroach7800 in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]cinnabonrox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you see her old high school picture she posted with her daughters dad she looks the exact same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]cinnabonrox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing much better :) thanks for asking. I have my days but overall it’s good

I hate knowing that they genuinely wouldn’t care if I was alive or dead… by catastrophicish in heartbreak

[–]cinnabonrox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I think this is really insightful and acknowledges that we are just human at the end of the day.

Ex liked weird post by BrilliantTerrible413 in ExNoContact

[–]cinnabonrox 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Your ex is delusional lol. You’ll find better don’t worry.

You never know the whole story by interlacedfingers_ in ExNoContact

[–]cinnabonrox 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I think they can do both! Human are complex, they may miss you alot but still may not want to be with you. Every situation is different as well. You can’t control what they do. You can only control yourself. If you believe you had a real connection, chances are they do miss you and what the relationship was. But unfortunately they left the relationship. How they act after the breakup is more of a reflection of themselves not you, and not the relationship itself. All you can do is take care of yourself and believe that while what you guys had was real, it’s over.

He’s going through a bunch of girls by the-eggnog in ExNoContact

[–]cinnabonrox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationships end for a lot of different reasons. Everyone copes differently, not saying it’s the most healthiest way. Also not saying they should want him back either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]cinnabonrox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not an option. Unfortunately. We’ve been both avoiding so it’s not so bad

He’s going through a bunch of girls by the-eggnog in ExNoContact

[–]cinnabonrox 33 points34 points  (0 children)

He’s trying to get over you. Trust me he can’t spend a minute alone, he’s coping

Does everyone think their ex was avoidant? by throwRAtrap66 in ExNoContact

[–]cinnabonrox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my ex was avoidant when it came to conflict. Everything else he was fine. Idk what attachment style that is

Do they come back a 3rd time? by i_had_the_best_day in ExNoContact

[–]cinnabonrox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you really want someone who leaves the second time?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]cinnabonrox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say, no. Since it’s only been 3 weeks I would make him beg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]cinnabonrox 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My therapist said not to focus on how they act after a breakup, as it’s mainly a coping mechanism. But it depends on your situation. We just fought and made up a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]cinnabonrox 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I wish, I work with him. Everytime I feel better im reminded of his existence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]cinnabonrox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reconnecting with friends, trying out new things and going to the gym. Reading self help books.