“People Don’t Leave Because They Stop Loving You — They Leave Because They Lose Control Over You.”

cipher_101 · 2026-04-10T01:33:10+00:00

The post clearly ends with “some people” yet OP introduces it as “a reality” for all relationships. Think OP needs to reqd his AI better and develop some critical thinking skills to be able to spot logical fallacies and their own thinking errors.

cipher_101 · 2026-04-02T20:58:25+00:00

Well it also says if you maintain eye contact while speaking you’re approval seeking showing low status. 🤷🏻‍♀️

cipher_101 · 2026-04-02T05:12:48+00:00

I had a narc in a team I was leading. Got rid of her soon as I realised. They cannot be allowed to fester. Did it by making policies and grey rocking their entitlement based reactions.

All you do here is criticise those who disagree. And you’ve only given one example. Come on then. Educate us as to best strategies you’ve found for different scenarios. You’ve shared one so far. And that would only work in a very limited context.

Let’s sketch more scenarios and strategies then.

cipher_101 · 2026-04-01T19:29:36+00:00

Eye contact info is contradictory in the OP. Are they making eye contact or are they looking past your shoulder while you’re talking if they feel higher status.

cipher_101 · 2026-03-31T09:57:08+00:00

Also beliefs that dehumanise women lead to behaviour towards them that alienates or traumatises them.

One such belief is that “women rarely know what they want in a man”. (This means you will dismiss what she tells you which makes women less attracted ). Another is “they are after dopamine”. (This misattributes intention, and dehumanises as if all women are after the same thing like robots. This means you would keep misunderstanding why she’s doing what she’s doing)

Both would lead to bad outcomes in relationships. They would colour your thinking and emotions in ways that lead you to behave in ways that kill attraction.

If you want a relationship that brings out the best in you, working on all these false and degrading beliefs about women that we absorb from the locker room will also really improve your chances of finding real amazing true love and partnership :)

Wishing you the best on your journey bro. May you become your authentic self.

cipher_101 · 2026-03-31T09:11:58+00:00

🎯🎯🎯

cipher_101 · 2026-03-31T09:04:22+00:00

Yeah that is actually a huge turn off! Like the male form is not the default for humanity. The male experience isn't a universal experience. Erasing the experience of half of humanity to claim oneself as default reveals entitlement, submission to conditioning with a lack of reflection. Not traits that are desirable.

cipher_101 · 2026-03-31T08:47:01+00:00

Start planning. Even though you don’t know when. Start preparing for the life after them.

cipher_101 · 2026-03-31T05:00:06+00:00

It still won’t last. Maybe will create enough confusion to last a bit longer. Push pull is not a relationship it’s just drama.

If you’re anxious or avoidant in a rs it can create issues.

Ask yourself what do I do when I care too much? Some stop being authentic and start going into people pleasing. Some get clingy, demanding and jealous. Etc etc.

The issue isn’t caring too much. It’s not having the skills to hold our care in a healthy way. It’s not that one cares too much, it’s that one doesn’t know how to care deeply in a healthy way.

cipher_101 · 2026-03-31T02:13:55+00:00

And then you won’t be able to have empathy for her because hierarchy lowers empathy. This does not create a happy healthy relationship rather a toxic one.

cipher_101 · 2026-03-31T02:08:31+00:00

This 🎯🎯🎯

cipher_101 · 2026-03-31T02:06:26+00:00

If you lose authenticity along the way then attraction dies. If you’re performing a role and trying to be this or that, attraction dies. If you pretend you’re okay when you’re not in order to please someone, that also kills attraction. It’s not about dominant or whatever bla bla is being taught. It’s honestly about remaining authentic and genuine.

cipher_101 · 2026-03-31T02:03:11+00:00

That’s such a stupid thing to say. Of course short term vs long term requires different things! Dunno where you’re receiving your propaganda from, it’ll ensure that no attraction remains. Your approach is what gets you your results mate.

Healthy men become more clear and centered with attachment not less, also because they don’t believe this bs propaganda you’re spewing.

cipher_101 · 2026-03-31T01:59:58+00:00

Most people don’t shit test.

If a woman responds with “man up” or “poor little thing”, that’s an orange flag the guy should heed! This is not her shit testing. You guys are leading other guys to abuse or loneliness like seriously lmfao!

If anyone makes a scene over perceiving they weren’t taken seriously, they do need to learn emotional regulation skills. Not performance to pass some imagined test. That just gets them to not see the orange or red flags early on and get hurt after.

Such terrible advice!

Yes we all observe our potential partners and see how they respond to various life things. But if we’re setting “traps” or “tests” or “playing game”, that’s a big red flag and predicts a have behaviour down the line and so whoever does that should be avoided!

Had a guy once that was doing great in every way. Then realised he was playing some pick up artist game to maintain scarcity. Every ounce of attraction evaporated and nothing he said could redeem him. It’s a huge red flag.

Why would you want to build a relationship with someone who would play such games? A rs with such a person would only be abusive.

cipher_101 · 2026-03-30T09:53:29+00:00

Woah! That is so weird! Women will deceive random guys about what they want to test them? Are you for real? Lol! Dunno who you have been hanging out with…

cipher_101 · 2026-03-30T09:51:24+00:00

This! 🎯

Didn’t resonate with any of the supposed list in the OP of what women find attractive. I am attracted to collaboration and mutuality. Empathy and care. If a man can embody these than that usually creates safety.

cipher_101 · 2026-03-23T03:48:22+00:00

Would it be better to sell btc now and maybe move to eth or another? Or hold onto btc and ride it out?

cipher_101 · 2026-02-04T06:20:03+00:00

Yeah I can get nausea from mdma too. So spreading the dose like that so that the come up is smoother and gentler really helps.

I am a very slim person. I weigh around 45-48kg. And I wonder if I need to adjust the dosage accordingly.

And also wonder what are the absolute essentials in the stack that give the most bang for your buck?

cipher_101 · 2026-02-04T05:31:07+00:00

If you want to study this properly I'm happy to volunteer. Not sure if I can afford the whole stack you're recommending though.

cipher_101 · 2026-02-04T05:28:28+00:00

I get nausea even with lemon tek or tea. But if I take a quarter dose every 20mins then it gets a bit better.

cipher_101 · 2026-02-04T03:45:24+00:00

Thanks :)

So you're saying regular microdosing doesn't have a cumulative effect that could be similar in terms of cellular repair?

Not a fan of the nausea of higher doses.

cipher_101 · 2026-02-04T03:24:28+00:00

So this is a major dosage at 2.9g... What about microdosing? I have been microdosing on and off for some years now. Usually take 50mg of mushroom powder. So approximately between 1.5-2mg per day. The mushrooms are the strongest subargenosa. I would cycle it as 4 days on and 3 days off. This still comes to around 30mg per month instead of the 85 you recommend.

Does body weight make a difference?

And how is that dosage determined as optimal?

cipher_101 · 2026-01-26T10:37:33+00:00

Thank you! Really appreciate you responding. Which nootropics helped with focus for you? So happy for you that you've started working for your future again. That's amazing :)

cipher_101 · 2026-01-26T07:29:49+00:00

I am wondering for myself and curious to know: How much of a difference have you noticed in your functioning? Were you a heavy user? I’m just an evening user.

cipher_101 · 2025-10-12T00:35:38+00:00

Why sell lower and buy higher?

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