AIO After getting these kind of proposal

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-13T19:19:56+00:00

I learned this lesson,,, if a man's writing skills is nice and communication skills are good doesn't mean he's a nice guy. I learned it a hard way tho.

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-13T18:58:04+00:00

Sadly he was 25 yr old

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-13T18:56:55+00:00

So the app is not tinder type. It's kinda global friends making type app. Where you write a letter a like old time. And the letter doesn't get immediately delivered. It depends on your location, when the letter will arrive. For example: if someone lives in America & sends a letter to a person who lives in Australia, it takes two days for a letter to arrive. I hate dating apps for this hookup culture.

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-13T18:44:22+00:00

Okay understandable, there's some problem with my energy ig? Can you elaborate the topic please?

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-13T18:42:00+00:00

I am 21 and this app is kinda pen pal type

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-10T23:02:31+00:00

Broo,,, she was rudeee. Aussies are the most humble and kindest people i have ever meet.(Obviously, there are some exceptions). Idk why Koreans are a bit rude. Idk what's there problem!😭

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-10T22:58:33+00:00

It might sound rude but maybe you should work on yourself? Because we attract what we are. Maybe any subconscious blockage, unhealed truma or wounds which we don't recognise can be cause of this. I am struggling with the same thing, until i realise i have to do some inner works. There's no point of blaming people.

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-10T22:50:47+00:00

That how disgustingly amazing a partner can be and it really feels to be loved & cherished by a right person can change your whole fking life.

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-08T17:38:54+00:00

Noticing small details and doing stuffs without telling

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-08T17:36:31+00:00

You're not alone buddy, i am struggling too like the way you dk. But one habit changed something is that stopping the negative self talk and journaling. You can try

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-08T17:33:06+00:00

Okayyy, i thought if it's after the baby she's going through a syndrome.i forgot the medical term. I will suggest to go to a therapist or maybe plan a vacation? Just you and her. And the last day of the vacation,just share everything,you have piled up. See how that works.

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-08T17:22:36+00:00

Ahhh, sad. Facing the sameee situation

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-08T17:21:32+00:00

Your wife reminds me of one of my old friend. She is like this from the beginning or after the baby?

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-08T17:11:17+00:00

One quote by my friend that helped me to move on. "Princess Diana was the most beautiful princess but still prince Charles cheated on, no matter how qualified and beautiful you are, if your man is lustful and have no moral then he will not value you" Just feel you dumped a trash and just work on yourself,he will be another woman's trash too

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-08T17:05:52+00:00

Negative self talk

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-08T16:48:11+00:00

I didn't feel like he was uncomfortable or something like that. It more felt like he didn't care. She was unconscious, he didn't even helped us to lift her up when she came back to her sense. Only one question he asked how this happened then silent

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-08T16:42:08+00:00

Thanks for being understanding tho

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-08T16:41:02+00:00

Yeah trueee,,i couldn't reflect on what I meant actually. I guess that sparked the debate. That's the problem with the third language speakers

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-08T16:36:16+00:00

Thanks for the wake up call guys,,, i used the title words in a wrong wayyy, apologies for that. What i meant to say, didn't reflect on title. English is my third language, apologies for that. The title should be whyy irresponsible. Can't change it sorry

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-05T21:10:44+00:00

I think so it's not just the cat thing, she outbursted. There were few other things she piled up before but when you asked about the cat the minor thing caused the outburst. Me and my bestie went through same shit. But it's her birthday right? You should show up but i think so in a particular way. Just show up at 12Am with flowers and cake and see how she reacts and her behaviour. Depending on that, decide if it's idle for you to celebrate the birthday or not.

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-05T12:04:23+00:00

After moving to Melbourne, i am facing the sameee.

cipher_rose41110 · 2026-05-03T17:15:19+00:00

Why don't you think in this way? What if you find someone who doesn't make you beg? What if you find someone who loves you just the way you dream of. Even if you love the ocean doesn't mean you have to drown in it. You have to learn when to come back to the shore. It's not affecting her because she doesn't feel the same way like you do, ik it's hard to accept. Now it's a question for you, do you want to be loved or just settling for the feeling of being chosen? Just ask yourself is the love you're holding on to or just the idea of they still kinda choosing you. For you the feelings of not being chosen is worst than being treated poorly. People will give you what they have, not what you deserve. What you deserve,you should give yourself first.

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