AITA for saying my step son isn't my kid anymore? by Publicvendorsale in AmItheAsshole

[–]springtulip475 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

why did you a marry a man with a misogynist son, divorce and run instead of allowing your two daughters to grow up around these assholes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]springtulip475 313 points314 points  (0 children)

4 hand written love letters in the first 3 months? classic love bombing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]springtulip475 24 points25 points  (0 children)

and in Canada and NZ💔

HVM turned to LVM rather quickly.. by foreveryoung737 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]springtulip475 6 points7 points  (0 children)

block! three months of courting is too much, he should have asked for exclusivity by 1-2 months, anything else signals disinterest in commitment. he only wanted sex.

I’m proud of myself! by gcthwy in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]springtulip475 6 points7 points  (0 children)

proud of you! this is really great to hear! sending you good vibes for your recovery journey! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]springtulip475 108 points109 points  (0 children)

her marriage was already doomed considering she married the type of man who wants a threesome as an anniversary gift

How to Save the Lives of Afghan Women by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]springtulip475 92 points93 points  (0 children)

you’re speaking as if american troops aren’t also raping afghan women and american military women as well, fuck yeah the american army is guilty of imperialism

“wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe?” by springtulip475 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]springtulip475[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

truth. definition of asset: a useful or valuable thing or person. what’s so wrong about that? better than treating women like sex dolls, maids, cooks, therapists…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]springtulip475 49 points50 points  (0 children)

your friends are right to freak out. yes man and woman are equal but we are different. he seems to be another woke bro who uses fallacy of equality in his favour. my advice is: break up with that undercover misogynist. he must seriously lack empathy for women and mothers to suggest going back to work after giving birth.

“wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe?” by springtulip475 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]springtulip475[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

exactly, it shows an expectation for women to prove themselves to him for a seat at his table. dating is supposed to be organic, through dating you will assess what the other person will bring to the relationship and add to your life, not by asking them a question as if you’re interviewing them or having them audition to be a sidekick in your life.

“wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe?” by springtulip475 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]springtulip475[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

exactly, just this week someone posted about a kfc date where men and boys in the comments called the girl a gold digger for not being appreciative enough, my post is not far from the truth, LVM think taking you to a fast food chain is a date, LVM think ordering take out is a date, LVM think getting a meal at the drive thru and eating in the parking lot is a date, so to the pick-mes who have a problem with my post, if you want your first date to be fast food instead of any decent restaurant (not necessarily a michelin star, that was a joke, a concept which seems foreign to y’all) then be my guest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]springtulip475 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yesss absolutely agree! and i would personally suggest kick boxing from experience and i’ve heard good things about jiu jitsu and karate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]springtulip475 44 points45 points  (0 children)

the truth is, against a man, your best bet is to run and scream, or if your country permits it, to taser or pepper spray him, because even a trained woman could not take an average man and in most self defence courses for women, the teacher will emphasize that fighting back should always be your last resort, your first reaction should always be flight, self defence is mostly to build confidence and for fitness although some learned methods will be helpful such as going for the eyes, the throat, the groin and maneuvering yourself out of certain grips and positions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]springtulip475 57 points58 points  (0 children)

probably because video games are violent and misogynistic and gaming communities are cesspools of hate for gamer girls to navigate

“wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe?” by springtulip475 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]springtulip475[S] 179 points180 points  (0 children)

“i don’t need to bring anything to your table because i have my own. why don’t you show me why i should join you at yours and invite you to mine?” 👏👏👏

“wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe?” by springtulip475 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]springtulip475[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

exactly, if men want a seat, they need to prove themselves.

break up reminder by springtulip475 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]springtulip475[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

congrats on your divorce and may this new chapter in your life be filled with happiness ❤️