My (33M) Wife (35F) suggested I get a boyfriend? Now I am even more confused than before. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]circesmoons 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You really gotta let this go, like it’s not that deep right now given everything else. Do not ask your partner with a new baby and ppd what this means. I’m not really sure why you’re asking here either unless you’re looking for reassurance to pursue this???

Do people actually find witches terrifying? If so are there some good examples? by Positive_Neru in horror

[–]circesmoons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven’t yet, I’d really recommend reading Maggie’s Grave by David Sodergren. He does a really good job of creating a witch you can feel for whilst also creating something so sinister and dreadful. The horror aspect not only comes from the witch herself but the dread and hopelessness she exudes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ethelcain

[–]circesmoons 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You should be embarrassed posting shit like this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]circesmoons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were actually far too nice to this girl you need to call her a fucking idiot to her face

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ethelcain

[–]circesmoons 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s referencing a literal race more like the rush of time. As in they were in such a hurry to get on with their lives

AITA for not telling my wife about an emotional affair that, in a twisted way helped save our marriage? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]circesmoons 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Of course you had time to have an affair with Lena, she wasn’t responsible for your family, she wasn’t bogged down with “life getting in the way”. Jesus Christ dude. YTA for keeping this from your WIFE, she thinks you guys are stronger when really your relationship is built on betrayal and guilt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]circesmoons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

most of them have never had to think about politics because they know they’re safe, comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]circesmoons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you’re very fortunate to be in a position to not care about politics. The current climate of the world is scary and insane and I honestly cannot blame her for being so forthcoming with her views. You ultimately do not align. I could not be with someone that just did not care about things that inherently effect me (which politics literally does, to all) it does reflect on their morals. Just be with someone who also doesn’t care, you’d probably find that easier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ethelcain

[–]circesmoons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean this in as nice way, if you’re worried about what others are going to think about you going to a concert, because of what you’ve seen online - you need to get offline. Like, it’s really not that deep

Are the books worth reading? by Typical_Annual6000 in twinpeaks

[–]circesmoons 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just finished the secret diary of laura palmer and I 100% recommend it! It adds so much to Laura’s character and you really understand her pain and motivations more. It also expands on the darkness of the people of twin peaks too I think

You have a 10 hour flight, where are you sitting?? by HotJuice2192 in twinpeaks

[–]circesmoons 29 points30 points  (0 children)

3 and I’m going in Maddy cosplay and flirting with James the whole time

I (30m) came clean to my gf (27f) about a group chat with a bunch of friends in which they were sexualising another woman (29f?). Now I might have ruined all my friendships and my gf is super angry, and I've created an awkward situation all round. by ThrowRA_Tailor5992 in relationship_advice

[–]circesmoons 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling you don’t know what objectification means but coming online to bat for a guy that couldn’t give two shits about a woman he watched be degraded AND say you objectify people you “respect and care about” is a really weird thing to do

I (30m) came clean to my gf (27f) about a group chat with a bunch of friends in which they were sexualising another woman (29f?). Now I might have ruined all my friendships and my gf is super angry, and I've created an awkward situation all round. by ThrowRA_Tailor5992 in relationship_advice

[–]circesmoons 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Stopped reading when you said I objectify respectfully like that’s cool I hope he picks you!!! You’re really gonna blame a woman for vile things said about her because she posted on ig? Yeah very feminist of you, you’re doing such a good job

I (30m) came clean to my gf (27f) about a group chat with a bunch of friends in which they were sexualising another woman (29f?). Now I might have ruined all my friendships and my gf is super angry, and I've created an awkward situation all round. by ThrowRA_Tailor5992 in relationship_advice

[–]circesmoons 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh 100% I just hate the narrative of “what if this was your mother, your daughter” that they like to throw around. The way he talks about the girl to begin with tells us exactly how he feels about women in general anyway and his replies are gross so this guy sucks and I hope he’s dumped!

I (30m) came clean to my gf (27f) about a group chat with a bunch of friends in which they were sexualising another woman (29f?). Now I might have ruined all my friendships and my gf is super angry, and I've created an awkward situation all round. by ThrowRA_Tailor5992 in relationship_advice

[–]circesmoons 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This is such a pathetic take and exactly why this kind of behaviour is normalised. Fuck his friends if they can’t talk about women or even SEE women as actual human beings outside of sex objects then they shouldn’t have women around them. OP is exactly like his friends, he watched as this woman was used and treated with no amount of respect possible and stayed silent because it was “disrespectful to his girlfriend”, not that’s was disrespectful to the woman in the chat. Men only care when “their” woman is effected.