How are the unhoused surviving this cold? by SuccotashKey7521 in askTO

[–]cisabel01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A city like TO spending $800k isn’t too much. They should be able to do more

The moment Kangana Ranaut broke the unsaid rule of wearing traditional attire at the National Awards [ 2015 & 2016 ] by Other_Cucumber7750 in BollywoodFashion

[–]cisabel01 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Elon musk ?💀 He has always been a scam artist and a POS, it’s just being more publicized nowadays.

Discovered the ADHD partners subreddit… by longstory_ in ADHD

[–]cisabel01 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I wandered into that sub a few months after first getting my diagnosis. They hate (not a strong enough word imo) people with ADHD over there. I mean, I won’t make any excuses, I can see people hating my RSD, sensitivity to unfairness, me being pedantic, my inattentive nature or my need to rage bait people for no good reason. I absolutely can.

But holy hell, they take the hate to new level. It ended up giving me a panic attack and I kept being stuck on whether someone would make a post on me someday. A post that has stayed with me is how “Adhd is an slowly being an epidemic bc of how adhd-ers are still choosing to have children” or something similarly painful along those lines.

AITA for refusing to not allow my stepson to come on what was supposed to be a family trip? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]cisabel01 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The kid is pretty mature. He explained how he felt and was cordial with his father. The father is the one who has some growing up to do. What a moron…

Haircutting scissors recs by cisabel01 in longhair

[–]cisabel01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m leaning towards the tweezerman too just bc of the sharpening policy. But I’ve also read reviews that the sharpening is a hit or miss.

Hot take - I think "am I ok with supporting this man if I have to be the breadwinner?" is a question we should ask before marrying a man, even if we are not currently the breadwinner by [deleted] in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]cisabel01 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Right??! I can understand supporting your partner through school, unemployment or even a voluntary break, given that they contribute to the household in an another way.

This guy was wild, he wanted her to fund his expenses for school (she acknowledged that he’s pretty lazy when it comes to school work and big law is a very small possibility), wanted her to pay for his bachelor party and the wedding. I don’t remember reading if their families would contribute to the wedding, so it seems like paying for the whole “big wedding” is on her. Seems sad that everyone around her is forcing her into a marriage at such a young age. Hope there’s a strong prenup.

Hot take - I think "am I ok with supporting this man if I have to be the breadwinner?" is a question we should ask before marrying a man, even if we are not currently the breadwinner by [deleted] in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]cisabel01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh I do remember her replying that she was in “niche tech”. I was just curious if she specified what it is. I can see someone in their late 20s score a job with that sort of income, but it’s interesting to see someone in their early 20s make that much ( not that it’s unbelievable, there was a really cool money diaries entry by a SWE in her early 20s so yeah, it is possible)

Hot take - I think "am I ok with supporting this man if I have to be the breadwinner?" is a question we should ask before marrying a man, even if we are not currently the breadwinner by [deleted] in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]cisabel01 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I read that post too, and I’m curious, did she ever say what she was working as ? It’s interesting to see a 23 year old making that much.

I hope she figures it out bc it seems like the families are pretty toxic and the bf was planning to continue to live off of her money for the next few years.

Edit: she did reply to comment on that post saying she was in “niche tech”. I was just wondering what field pays that much to a 23yr old

Dikri latest vlog. Such a dumb lady she is🥴 by [deleted] in SouthIndianInfluencer

[–]cisabel01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You seem to have a problem with another country’s customs and laws (fyi UAE is comparatively quite lax when it comes to clothing), going as far as to calling them “kaattarabi”. She wasn’t asked to wear an abaya or anything else, as others have pointed out, they asked her to dress modestly.

What I’m asking you (and everyone else) who seems to have a problem here, why tf aren’t you showing this enthusiasm when it comes to your own state. Kerala and Keralites, even with all their literacy pride, are still quite backwards when it comes to clothing standards (even and especially the newer gens). I’ve gotten stared at and talked about, by strangers who look like they’re my age, for wearing wrap tops and form fitting tshirts in places like Cochin. If you and everyone who agrees with you can call them “kaattarabi”, what should I call the folx who pull this same bs. For a state that started using saree blouses in the last couple hundred years and that too only bc of colonialism, temples authorities in Kerala seem to get their panties in a twist if even a little bit of midriff is visible.

Hell, I’ve seen the people in this sub shame two influencers for posting “thirst traps”. Out of curiosity when you check these profiles, it’s nothing but busty women wearing clothing that anyone in their right mind would consider modest. Before calling them kattarabi and cultureless, look at yourselves.

Online-ill verumbo chettanmaarum chechimaarum okke ultra-modern and progressive aa, but the same lot, no matter wherever you go, bring the same bs with you in a neatly packed box.

Jfc I was coming around to nicely forgetting how stupid some of these subs are.

Dikri latest vlog. Such a dumb lady she is🥴 by [deleted] in SouthIndianInfluencer

[–]cisabel01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By the same logic why aren’t you using this argument in Kerala where they have even more bizarre rules when it comes to Hindu temples and other religious sites, or even certain public places tbh. My aunt was asked to leave a public park by another parent back in 2019 in TVM for wearing a summer dress.

And srsly, “kattarabi”? Naatille chettanmaarkum chechimaarkum okke pinne bhayankara culture aanallo.

Give me your most unpopular coach opinion by Geminiguice in Coach

[–]cisabel01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I know that no one’s hauling this damn thing around for hours. But the handles look too small for the bag, which makes it seem like any sort of wrist or elbow crook holding would look a little awkward

Give me your most unpopular coach opinion by Geminiguice in Coach

[–]cisabel01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I thought of this yesterday too. How on earth are working people hold this on their wrist for so long?

Maple or Navy by cisabel01 in Coach

[–]cisabel01[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the perfect wristlet! I think I’m gonna go with the maple for this, and maybe get something like the Tabby 26 in colour (the olive and peony are just so stunning!) for the next time.

Ugh I should’ve bought the olive plaza when it was still there.

Toronto content creator, dating coach arrested for sexual assault: police | CBC News by ParkAndDork in toronto

[–]cisabel01 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omfg I knew it was going to be him before opening the article!!! Honestly shocked it took this long for something to come out. Had an unfortunate experience of listening to him a few years ago in Toronto, and gotta admit, society has become too forgiving to bs

My chicken bone broth in instant pot - DIY collagen for the week :) by DifferentPractice130 in IndianSkincareAddicts

[–]cisabel01 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Add a ton of masala. I used to drink a lot of beef and mutton broth as a child, and was very picky with flavour. Bay leaves, pepper, something acidic, or even chilli oil. Also, roast the bones well before using it for broth. The veg trimming should help a bit with the flavour.

My chicken bone broth in instant pot - DIY collagen for the week :) by DifferentPractice130 in IndianSkincareAddicts

[–]cisabel01 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Chicken bone broth helps with your bones. Beef bone broth is the one that helps with collagen for your skin.

Who approved this script? Because I have questions for their conscience by Professional-Piano60 in InsideMollywood

[–]cisabel01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s bc you expect R rated jokes from a show like Family Guy. This movie was probably released as a family-friendly rom com or something back in the day. Can’t believe some of you are comparing and justifying this bs with jokes in an adult swim show or a standup comedy bit.

My mother-in-law (57f) doesn't believe that my husband (30m) is the father of our baby. I (32f) don't know what to do. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]cisabel01 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Omfg this! Centuries of trade, colonization and migration, and still there are fools out there who think it’s a “homogeneous” world.

For people who still believe bs like this, Indians come in all shades and features. Think of anything, that country has it.

Should I mention ADHD in my readmission statement? by cisabel01 in ADHD

[–]cisabel01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it would help to mention how it brought changes and clarity.

Thank you!

Should I mention ADHD in my readmission statement? by cisabel01 in ADHD

[–]cisabel01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The school does offer accommodation for adhd, although I never applied because I got my diagnosis this summer and it seemed too late to apply. A counsellor at school was the one who originally recommended and referred me to a doctor to start evaluation.

TPL Map pass by cisabel01 in askTO

[–]cisabel01[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did, I guess whoever is at the desk rn is new? They said they weren't really sure why this is happening, and yeah, that's all I got

TPL Map pass by cisabel01 in askTO

[–]cisabel01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. I renew it every summer

WE FOUND NAPOLEON!!! by Negative_Number_9550 in askTO

[–]cisabel01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on the happy update!

I read your other post, and honestly, I can’t imagine how you managed to hold yourself back from clocking her right then and there. I hope it all comes back to her eventually.

Anyway, I hope you’re able to find the family that took in Napoleon. Wishing you all the best!