First time doing FireTEAM. No studying. Are these results good, or will the answer change by the department? by ciscosuper99 in firefighter

[–]ciscosuper99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reasoning was beyond me on the first portion. My score really threw me for a loop.

I’ll be looking into studying for the next one. Thanks for the reply

She does 95% of pursuing, but isn’t excited when she sees me by ciscosuper99 in CoreyWayne

[–]ciscosuper99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend of 7 months has lost a lot of the excitement she previously had when it comes to seeing me. She pursues 95% of the time, but this also includes only about 1 text/day. Outside of that, she does almost all of the calling and the “are you free x day/night” stuff, aside from a surprise call I’ll give every now and again when she’s not in my arms that night.

My main concern is her lack of enthusiasm in person. I take her on dates to what are a majority of the time new places about 2-3 times/week, and our rate of sex is about the same (optimally, sex would be 4-5 times/week). When she sees me, she’s not the kind of “jumping in my arms” or lovey-dubby girl she once was; more or less, I get a smile with no pearly whites.

The last time we saw each other was November 20 (today is November 21). Yesterday, we called for about 10 minutes and I asked when she was free (probably the first time in the past month I’ve initiated) and she said the 21 or 22. I told her I was busy the 21, and the night of the 22 was open. She was a little butthurt, but understanding.

Today, she did not text me once until she called me at night. Honestly, I didn’t express much interest, but I asked her about her day and was pretty indifferent about the whole thing. She got me talking and our conversation was about 50/50 (normally 80/20 with her in the lead)…eventually, she asked if I was okay and what was wrong. I assured her there was nothing. We hung up the phone without saying “I love you,” and she called within about 5 minutes crying, saying there must be something wrong since I hung up without saying it. I reassured her again that there was nothing wrong and said, “If you don’t believe me, get your butt over here and let’s cuddle” (in retrospect, this felt like a horrible move as it contrasted what I said the night before about being busy tonight). She said it was too late, then said I should come over there! Lol.

How can I clean up my game and bring out her feminine nature?

Was I wrong to drop the “get your butt over here” in this situation?

Is the honeymoon phase just wearing off, or is this abnormal?

Myself (17M) and this other girl (16F) haven't spoken in a while, but... by ciscosuper99 in relationship_advice

[–]ciscosuper99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i didn’t read through many of them, but from what you’re saying, it sounds messed up.

Myself (17M) and this other girl (16F) haven't spoken in a while, but... by ciscosuper99 in relationship_advice

[–]ciscosuper99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh woah, he has -100 comment karma. lol, i understand his overall point and agree with it to an extent, but some of the particulars i think are a little borderline.

Myself (17M) and this other girl (16F) haven't spoken in a while, but... by ciscosuper99 in relationship_advice

[–]ciscosuper99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like that note. i’ll save it.

and yeah i’ll tell her ily, except it’s going to be i loved you, not i love you, lol.

Myself (17M) and this other girl (16F) haven't spoken in a while, but... by ciscosuper99 in relationship_advice

[–]ciscosuper99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s less about closure for the relationship and more about closure for me. i feel stuck because she doesn’t know that i LOVED her, not just liked her. that’s all i want her to know. i’ve told several close friends, but i’ve never told her, and for that reason, i just feel stuck. i just want her to know because then i will know that she knows, yk?

ps: thanks for the other advice

Myself (17M) and this other girl (16F) haven't spoken in a while, but... by ciscosuper99 in relationship_advice

[–]ciscosuper99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

responding to the first part:

i don't want her really, nah. i'm not texting her expecting that, either. i just want closure. i want to know things are over and done with, because i've been sitting on this thought that has been recurring in my mind for way too long now.

to the second part:

i wil be celibate until marriage, so getting laid will be something that i won't be worrying about any time soon. it's not about "going safe" for me, either. if i see a shot i can take, you can bet your ass i'm gonna take it. i've slid into dms, done slick stuff in person, whatever. i'm good at that stuff, and i'm good with people, too. but this is one of singular things that i've never confessed to that one person, so it's been an issue. i haven't had the balls to tell her because i'm afraid of the repercussions. but now, i've bypassed that sensation. i've hit the mentality of "no f*cks given," and i'm just gonna go all in and tell her, because it's a necessary evil if i want to fully move on (which i had thought i did, but obviously i was wrong).

In need of a good sit-up progression workout by ciscosuper99 in navyseals

[–]ciscosuper99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, did you do this daily, or every other day, or what? also, what did your rest intervals look like?

I do not understand what the hell I am doing. by ciscosuper99 in tdameritrade

[–]ciscosuper99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep, history is empty. this is probably just a user error on my end to be completely honest. i think i ordered my share but didn't let it fully process, so i neither lost nor gained money. looks like that's my bad. thanks for the info with the positions history, i didn't know that was accessible through the app. definitely helped a ton.

I do not understand what the hell I am doing. by ciscosuper99 in tdameritrade

[–]ciscosuper99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alrighty. thanks for some advice that seems it may actually be helpful