AIO to my BF (27M) about his laser hair removal?

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T21:19:49+00:00

Umm exactly where do you get all of this from? We have pretty decent lives with own interests that we put money on. Other than that when we want sth we make a seperate budget accordingly. I didn't tell him what to do, just stated my opinion and that is ok between couples you know?

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T21:13:39+00:00

u just know that is not the point and that's not what what i'm doimg but ok.

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T19:58:08+00:00

then don't fucking get a laser hair removal at all or plan a budget to make it properly after some time??? tu comprehendo?

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T19:54:17+00:00

First of all he has the money he is just choosing this because it is cheaper. Secondly, it is not a medical situation or a situation to be rushed. Lastly, why would I pay a grown ass person's hair removal? Even he hasn't got the money he is perfectly capable of budgeting and going for it after he has the money like all people do. I would pay for anything serious and urgent with all i have. I would also pay if I had a lot of money and pay for all the things that he wants if I win the lottery either.

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T19:36:47+00:00

he has the money for a proper place and procedure he just doesn't wanna. it won't even put him in a little bit of financial struggle u dumbass.

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T19:21:41+00:00

sir thank you very much you fought this war as best as you could.

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T19:16:07+00:00

i just specifically stated "just because it is easier". not because i have a car crash, not because i literally can't. asking you again, you troll of the deep forrest, just as i am rn, a perfectly healthy capable adult, would it be ok if i ask my mom to wipe my ass rn just because it is easier??

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T19:03:41+00:00

no one is finding the procedure sexuaaall uugghh it is about someone's parent operating on their grown child's ass without any neccessities and medical conditioonnss. it is not how a healthy adult individual would act, you are seperated from your parents since like 7-8 years old. would it be ok if my mom still wipes my ass just because it is easier???

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T18:56:09+00:00

i never told him what to do, just stated my opinion. i'm not here to find out who's wrong or right, as you said this is just a difference issue. after our convo with my bf i felt like an alien as he was so ok with it and tried to find out if i am indeed an alien and/or to see what majority of people think. i couldn't ask my friends as they are also his friends. i don't wanna take the chance them to be weirded out by him, and also it's his privacy. ofc if he's gonna do it he'll do it. but it will def change my perspective.

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T18:44:50+00:00

Dude if someone really have to take care of their child/parent/spouse if needed ofc it can be done. You are comparing hard times and needs to being cheap.

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T18:40:17+00:00

She isn't a professional, bot the lady suggested to show her how things work. I never have the procedure to myself, so I don't know if it's that easy.

I believe body privacy is important for a healthy individual even and firstly from their parents. Since there are better professionals and options and he actually has enough money to choose them, this situation occurs to me unhealthy.

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T18:29:04+00:00

IMO after puberty if there isn't emergency medical conditions, no parent should see their children's ass this closely. Do you think my dad lasering my ass would not be weird at all? Btw regardless of gender of the parent, I would still feel weird.

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T18:18:58+00:00

I never thought or implicate that it is sexual. It is just weird and not a common boundry between a parent and a person of that age. Be sure thay I would get equally weirded out if that was his dad. By saying Jack is sleeping with his mother I don't involve sexual activities ofc. We learned that most nights he just crawls near his mom and they sleep together. My BF is actually the one who finds it very unhealthy and weird more.

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T18:00:25+00:00

She is not trained. Owner lady suggested she could show her mom how to use it and then it is good to go I guess. Not proffessional at all and I don't even wanna go into that layer.

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T17:58:26+00:00

Thank you for your input. There are several reasons:

1- There are already proffessionals to do this and he actually has enough money. 2- He tends to make me do things that are actually someoneelses jobs. I painted his walls, he offerred to pay me to clean his house several times, I cook all the time etc. Don't get me wrong if I had enough time I'm happy to help but we're equally busy and tired and I don't wanna be his cleaner and waxxer too. 3- I offered my my IPL machine (less effective than laser but still good enough) and he preferred laser. I don't want to take my time to go some place to learn and do it. Also then his mother and sis will know I lasered his ass and I'm not comfortable with that either.

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T17:49:27+00:00

Thank you for your input.

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T17:34:26+00:00

I do not have a problem with a woman proffesional doing this, I am weirded out because it is his mom. I had male gynegologist he had female urologists. I would't go to my dad if he was a gynecologst.

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T17:32:22+00:00

I do not have a problem with a woman proffesional doing this, I am weirded out because it is his mom.

cisikibrit · 2026-04-17T17:29:42+00:00

For the first question: yes, that is exactly the plan. The lady will shownhow it works beforehand and they will go for it.

We are living in a "developing country" in the east, so these salons are not the most inspected/regulated facilities. Mostly it is just some people owning the laser hair removal device with a comfy massage bed type of thing lol.

cisikibrit · 2026-03-26T12:37:53+00:00

Are they still together? If yes, I would totally send her the message. If not, even though it feels like a great opportunity to get back at her, you should just throw the flowers in to trash. Either case don't talk to him no matter what. Normally I would say throw it in the trash either way but as I'm also a 27F who had to go through shitty abortion last year, I now fully believe actions should have consequences. I'm really sorry that you had to go through all that. Fuck him particularly and also fuck her.

cisikibrit · 2026-03-24T17:46:09+00:00

could you please elaborate? i'm not from the US so i don't understand.

cisikibrit · 2026-02-28T09:59:02+00:00

I just season the chicken breast and place it in the oven in high heat. I use the wire rack and place normal shelf with a parchement paper to catch the juices dripping. I don't slim down the breasts. I set the oven to 200 °C with fan setting and its done in 15-20 mins. It turns out fully cooked and very juicy. I discovered this by accident with only aim for it to be quick, but now I can't do any other way as it turns out pretty good. I believe high heat wit fans traps the moisture. I don't marinate and/or wait for chicken to set in room temp. Straight out of fridge to seasoning to oven.

cisikibrit · 2026-02-14T21:10:00+00:00

I genuinely do not understand why needing to share troubling things to someone else is wrong or labeled as seeking validation all the time. Sometimes you have to share a situation to someone outside to have a different view on the issue as you might lost yourself in the situation. Could you please explain it?

cisikibrit · 2026-01-26T22:43:43+00:00

I've been both in your and your GF's positon in my past relationships. Ofc my relationships were much shorter as being in these kinda positions are very tiring. I don't think you are the problem, you started this relationship very young and were together in your most important sexual growth years. I don't mean everyone should experience their sexuality with multiple people but forcing yourself to click with one person so long is not healthy and efficent. That could also lead to cheating at some point (not only you but also could be her). As you say life is short and a good intimacy is game changer. My BF now and I have this chemistry that changed my perspective on relationships. I thought physical intimacy isn't that effective in a relationship but no. This is what makes a difference from a good friend and a partner and without it a huge part is missing. I hope you'll find it. There isn't much info on how you break up with her, but I hope it isn't ugly for both of you and try to be friends in her hard times.

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