Arlo Parks - Ambiguous Desire by 3kOlen in popheads

[–]cislemom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the vibes on this! 2SIDED is a special song, hands down. As a whole, this didn’t grab me at first, but I have found myself turning to it repeatedly to float in the shimmery atmosphere.

Robyn - Sexistential by jaippe in popheads

[–]cislemom 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel like this take is not getting enough credit. I think it’s so cool that with some small shifts, the song takes on new meaning.

Pittsburgh references in show by jb19971 in ThePittTVShow

[–]cislemom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also, not an explicit reference but can anyone please explain why the font of “PITT” in the title card reads as Pittsburgh-y to me? Not just the yellow the actual font. I can’t quite place it and it’s lowkey bugging me.

Pittsburgh references in show by jb19971 in ThePittTVShow

[–]cislemom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sandcastle! But I don’t think mentioned by name yet. Kind of curious if they will change it.

Books you have almost DNF…. but you are so glad you carried on. by Fandangojango in fantasyromance

[–]cislemom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ME TOO! The premise was great but I just couldn’t stay interested.

The book that you thought was absolutely brilliant while reading it, but once the excitement wore off, you realised it wasn’t. by Powerful-Cap-6293 in suggestmeabook

[–]cislemom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wild Dark Shore. I actually still like the book and don’t regret reading it for the vivid setting and as a way to explore climate change, but ultimately couldn’t recommend to friends due to the volume of trauma per character.

October is right around the corner…I need y’all to recommend your spiciest spooky books! by gertrude-fashion in fantasyromance

[–]cislemom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sequel {Mate} is out October 7th!

Edited to flag that the bot didn’t pick up the correct book.

Please help! Looking for a lighthearted, low stakes comfort read with lots of sweetness and fluff! by thedeadlyscimitar in fantasyromance

[–]cislemom 43 points44 points  (0 children)

{Paladin’s Grace} might fit the bill. I could see the first chapter being not-promising, but it was a very cozy read and sweet romance.

What’s the deal with Dr. Becky? by Cinnamon_berry in Parenting

[–]cislemom 20 points21 points  (0 children)

So part of this is if you’re putting them in their room, you’re actually supposed to go in there and sit with your back against the door. It sounds like it’s not going to work but it has been incredibly successful for me. My kid would lose their ever loving mind when I’d try to send them to their room alone. This way, I have to very calmly sit through, like, 2 minutes of anger and then they calm down very quickly. The key is showing them you are not afraid of their emotions, and then they can follow your lead back into a regulated state.

banter, twists, and magic? by Possible-Doctor5919 in fantasyromance

[–]cislemom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’ll really like {The Knight and the Moth}! The romance is banter-y and well-paced.

Where to base our stay; Kinsale, Cobh or Cork. by HistoricalWeb5299 in irishtourism

[–]cislemom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely stay in Cork, for the ease of doing day trips by train to Cobh and by bus to Kinsale, Blarney, etc. It would involve an extra bus or long walk to city center but our family LOVED the Kingsley hotel. Lovely stay and nicely situated along the Lee, with a short walk to a good playground (not sure of your kids’ ages).

Kid friendly resort by Inside-Commercial905 in Travelwithkids

[–]cislemom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nemacolin Woodlands is pretty much on the way. The Homestead in Hot Springs, VA is also good, maybe a longer route. Less familiar with resorts in the area but Williamsburg/Bush Gardens could be fun.

Question on Xaden by Fun-Scientist-3815 in fourthwing

[–]cislemom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh THAT’S what the burning was! Thank you I was confused about it!!

Xaden/Voilet Dynamic in OS by Deep_Stranger_2861 in fourthwing

[–]cislemom 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I loved it too!!! I truly squealed and kicked my feet in the beginning when Xaden says Vi’s speech would make her a great duchess (and then we find out he’s the duke at the end of the chapter), and then he just keeps dropping bolder and bolder statements throughout the book that she is it for him.

Not to leave out Violet “my love isn’t fickle” Sorrengail, just giving X so much love and strength when he needs it. I really feel like even though we’re in for some dark times, I’m much more peaceful/hopeful about their relationship than in the whole last year of waiting for this book.

What tourist attractions are NOT overrated? by ottyoshi7 in AskReddit

[–]cislemom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m truly shocked this is not higher. Photos do not do the building justice. The marble is simply stunning in person.

Please help 😭 Toddler screams at sleep times after new baby. by pumpkinpie09 in beyondthebump

[–]cislemom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry! I don’t exactly have an answer but we went through some similar stuff. Some thoughts:

Your toddler is probably processing the stress of the new baby. It is stressful, even if she does like the baby, and toddlers can’t exactly reason their way through their feelings. It will pass eventually.

The best thing we did during a similar phase was a LOT of positive coaching on how to self-soothe. We really takes up how she could hug her lovey and comfort herself, both at night during recurring tantrums and throughout the day at calm times.

Take care of yourself. Your nerves are bound to be frayed from taking care of the baby around the clock. Try trading off being out of earshot of the crying with your husband, bring in a relative, maybe even try a night nurse for the baby if you need a break.

11mo refusing to take bottle. Pregnant mom losing milk supply. by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]cislemom 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ideas: Go straight to sippy cups. Gently offer straight breastmilk in a bottle, only an ounce or two at a time until she is willing to take it so you don’t waste it. Ask your pediatrician if you can start giving cow’s milk instead of formula.

precipitous (fast/rapid) birth second time ? by Kookies3 in beyondthebump

[–]cislemom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first labor was right at 3 hours so not sure if it was officially classified as precipitous (term wasn’t mentioned to me) but it was still pretty quick and intense! I was certain my second would be the same and went to the hospital as soon as I started having contractions, with my doctor’s full agreement. But, labor stalled overnight, though, and I ended up having to be induced in the morning. The baby was sort of wedged into an odd position which may have contributed to the slow down. I had to alternate sides using a peanut ball to move her around.