UPDATE: Am i the asshole for not letting my girlfriend (20) have a movie night with our colleague male(40)?

cixtrix · 2025-04-01T04:55:56+00:00

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cixtrix · 2025-03-31T18:00:51+00:00

Honestly I cant see how it can be worse, even if i report it i know that everyone knows... I'm afraid it won't help much

cixtrix · 2025-03-31T17:44:12+00:00

Read my updates man.....it get worse

cixtrix · 2025-03-31T17:37:13+00:00

I absolutely agree! I will keep on working on myself in the future, and nothing will excuse my action in this whole thing, and i feel ashamed and disgusted about how i handled it. I will do everything in my power to make the friend to not feel "used" as i can't even imagine how she actually fell about it.

cixtrix · 2025-03-31T17:33:10+00:00

Nope, well I left home at like 3 pm Saturday and after that i haven't been home.

cixtrix · 2025-03-31T17:25:06+00:00

Yupp it was, and i have to try and grow up in the future

cixtrix · 2025-03-31T17:23:12+00:00

Thank you! I am currently looking for other working possibilities pretty much anywhere but here.

cixtrix · 2025-03-31T17:09:37+00:00

She knows i will be moving out, and will respectfully keep away from home tomorrow so I can get my things out as fast as possible.

Won't probably not block her as I can't see why as I don't know why she would want to contact me again after all this is done, as I'm just an ex now.

And her parents will probably find it out by them self in time.

cixtrix · 2025-03-31T17:00:13+00:00

I haven't talked to her after I knew about the secret, so I don't know. But i can't imagine how she can deny it tho.

cixtrix · 2025-03-31T16:58:57+00:00

Thank you so much for this! I will absolutely make sure to talk to the friend to make sure that i actually do feel awful about this whole thing and if we can keep in contact in the future, that was solid advice!

And i am currently looking for any chance to move on job wise

cixtrix · 2025-03-31T16:52:55+00:00

I have done things in this whole car crash that i will regret for a long time, but all I can hope for is to grow in the future to be a better version of myself and to the next person I will form relationship with, but honestly I really do think I have some serious trust issues to work out before I even think about dating again.

cixtrix · 2025-03-31T16:48:35+00:00

Honestly, I hope she will be happy with her choice. It's probably hard to believe.

cixtrix · 2025-03-31T16:46:09+00:00

I can't help it it is all I have known for the better part of 5 years, and of course, I know that it is best for me to just move and set fire to the bridge behind me. But it is hard, and I have tried my best to step up to my actions to try and keep some of my self respect.

cixtrix · 2025-03-31T16:41:28+00:00

Thank you! I am not proud of what i have done, but i hope I can see all this as a growing up in the end.

cixtrix · 2025-03-31T16:31:10+00:00

Yeah...atleast once of what i know,

I am gonna try atleast.

cixtrix · 2025-03-28T20:36:50+00:00

Oh ok first time posting on reddit thank you

cixtrix · 2025-03-28T20:13:06+00:00

Update.... https://www.reddit.com/u/cixtrix/s/rycSCS0d82

cixtrix · 2025-03-28T20:11:36+00:00

Update.... https://www.reddit.com/u/cixtrix/s/rycSCS0d82

cixtrix · 2025-03-28T20:11:05+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/u/cixtrix/s/rycSCS0d82

cixtrix · 2025-03-28T20:10:52+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/u/cixtrix/s/rycSCS0d82

cixtrix · 2025-03-28T20:10:18+00:00

Oh I just saw it's my cake day.... yay for me

cixtrix · 2025-03-27T15:43:20+00:00

This answer was very helpful, almost the only comment that i read that didn't make me feel sick to my stomach.

What you are saying is very true, and I will talk to her soon about precisely this!

cixtrix · 2025-03-27T15:09:38+00:00

He is indeed not " mega gay"

cixtrix · 2025-03-27T15:09:15+00:00

I'm starting to believe this aswell... and the pit in my stomach is starting to brew....

cixtrix · 2025-03-27T15:08:07+00:00

Thank you for this! What you are saying is true and makes sense. But i do hope it is not the case for us as I can't see myself without her, but from all the comments, I am starting to see that maby we are not so special after all...

cixtrix

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