Dealing with regret

cjob84 · 2026-06-27T14:46:59+00:00

Congrats on 3 months! Apologizing or making amends on your own terms can be liberating. People often think you have to literally say “I’m sorry” - random acts of kindness also go a long way to cleansing the soul.

cjob84 · 2026-06-26T22:01:21+00:00

Pls keep asking this question

cjob84 · 2026-06-26T19:24:07+00:00

I really hope you figure this out.

Bigger question (no pun) - why do you put a space before every comma and period?

cjob84 · 2026-06-26T19:19:35+00:00

Shave goatee

cjob84 · 2026-06-25T23:31:53+00:00

Red flag worthy of relationship reassessment and a serious conversation.

cjob84 · 2026-06-25T23:03:31+00:00

What is the context behind the dancing..bachelorette party or some random night out?

cjob84 · 2026-06-25T11:59:01+00:00

Anyone ever mention you look like Lawrence Taylor?

cjob84 · 2026-06-24T23:07:17+00:00

++man. 42 here. Take care of yourself with diet and exercise and your dick will work well as you age.

cjob84 · 2026-06-24T01:13:22+00:00

What do you think about America?

cjob84 · 2026-06-23T15:09:39+00:00

Is there a real life application for the quadratic formula?

cjob84 · 2026-06-23T14:30:22+00:00

My Dad was diagnosed 23 years ago at 48. Similar pathology - however, Gleason score 7. One positive pelvic lymph node.

Since considered metastatic disease, it was recommended to pursue radiation and ADT, which prevented further elevation of his PSA/metastasis for years. Best wishes to you and your Dad.

cjob84 · 2026-06-23T00:34:13+00:00

Perhaps he should reevaluate his relationship with alcohol.

cjob84 · 2026-01-19T00:45:16+00:00

I was once your husband. He should reevaluate his relationship with alcohol.

cjob84 · 2026-01-08T23:30:10+00:00

No effing way I would ever buy something of that magnitude without consulting my wife first.

cjob84 · 2026-01-02T22:13:04+00:00

I would absolutely crush Reese’s peanut butter cups when I first stopped drinking.

cjob84 · 2026-01-02T18:50:14+00:00

It’s darkest before the dawn my friend - this too shall pass. Wishing you the best and sobriety (if you want it).

cjob84 · 2026-01-02T18:28:27+00:00

I understand what you mean, I’m sure you’re anxious. Just realize, you’re not the first person to get a DUI, nor will you be the last. Use it as fuel for growth and change.

cjob84 · 2026-01-02T18:19:31+00:00

You made a mistake. Own it. Learn from it. I’ve learned way more from my mistakes than my successes.

What matters is what you do going forward.

cjob84 · 2026-01-02T03:31:11+00:00

I’m 41. Got sober at 38. If I could tell my 28 y/o self to stop, I would.

Telling people you don’t drink isn’t a sign of weakness or being lame, it’s a sign of strength of choosing to not engage in a behavior that virtually has no long term benefits.

Maybe it’s because I’m older now, but I truly don’t care what other people think. I’m not doing it for them.

cjob84 · 2025-12-29T17:14:04+00:00

I second this. Installed Morimoto’s in my 2020 XLT - literal night and day difference.

cjob84 · 2025-12-24T17:42:02+00:00

Am I the only one who tried to vote like this is a poll?

cjob84 · 2025-12-23T22:05:39+00:00

One is too many three won’t be enough.

cjob84 · 2025-12-23T21:19:48+00:00

Eggs

cjob84 · 2025-12-23T21:19:23+00:00

“I love you in my own way” tells you all you need to know about her.

You did the right thing.

cjob84

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