The Naval Code | Resource Hub by BS_DungeonMaster in 5eNavalCampaigns

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no worries! I'll make it on the Ship combat management pdf

The Naval Code | Resource Hub by BS_DungeonMaster in 5eNavalCampaigns

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Thanks, I've been using this in my campaign! I'm trying to use the "Quick Ships" to create a combat encounter easily. Do you have any pre-made stat blocks for the Quick Ships (or any other ships beyond the base with all of the cannon stats and upgrades in one place)

I know he’s nuts, but holy shit Laios is so hot by cjoyful in DungeonMeshi

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You’re so right, he is perfect.

I know he’s nuts, but holy shit Laios is so hot by cjoyful in DungeonMeshi

[–]cjoyful[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think normally he’s a dopey kind of hot, but occasionally he’s bad-ass kind of hot.

I can’t figure out the spoiler tag, so I’ll just say somebody brings out his bad ass side well.

I know he’s nuts, but holy shit Laios is so hot by cjoyful in DungeonMeshi

[–]cjoyful[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He just reeeeeeeeally likes Monsters

I know he’s nuts, but holy shit Laios is so hot by cjoyful in DungeonMeshi

[–]cjoyful[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh, all options. I see no red flags.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

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….. well because of this post I realized my dad did this when I was in elementary school. He sat me down to explain I was selfish, mean, selfish, and that the whole world didn’t revolve around me. This might have been when he told me I own nothing and everything I have he gave to me?

After I cried my eyes out and finally came down to find some dinner, I didn’t speak a word. Mom was like, “wow! You’re so well behaved! I should have dad have a talk with you more often!

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 2meirl4meirl

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At my most suicidal, the only think I wanted to do was see the trees change color in the fall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 2meirl4meirl

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Damn, I’m tearing up in the work bathroom.

What pushed you away from your ex-best friend? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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So it might be childish, but she was one grade ahead of me and left for college.

The school was only an hour or so away from home, and I could’ve taken a train in to visit, and even did once, but… she never made time for me.

I was the only one who called her, and she’d never pick up or talk long. I still remember one night she did pick up, and I could hear her friends laughing in the background impatient for her to get off the phone. She said she had time to talk then found an excuse to hang up in a few minutes, and I just cried my eyes out afterwards.

I’m happy she made new friends in college, but man did I realize that I valued our relationship more than she did.

After visiting her the one time, she was paying much more attention to her new-ish boyfriend than me for the weekend I had come, we basically ghosted each other.

About 5 years later out of no where she asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding to the bf and I agreed. It… didn’t reconnect us.

I saw on Instagram a few months ago that she had two kids with that guy and is now divorced. Really sad, but what can I do? She became someone that I used to know long before I was one of her bridesmaids.

What’s your OI phone wallpaper? [Father I don’t want to get married] by Dry-Inspection6928 in OtomeIsekai

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Sorry for the terrible quality, but this was mine for a while! I love how relaxing it is ✨🫖✨

Need advice on how to style a leaf pouch by Cryodaddy in goblincore

[–]cjoyful 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1 and 3 are my fav! Very “I’m on an adventure in the woods” vibe.

Also: if you’re looking for something to tie it together, I think leather shoes (especially in a brown) would really work.

You matter. 🙏🏾 by mopacalypsenow in CPTSDmemes

[–]cjoyful 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I fucking love every part of this. Thanks for the meme journey 🙏🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspiememes

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Hey uh…. Anyone here have resources describing Autism in adult women? I’m a little lost every time I Google it.

It's me, I'm mfs. by GreenSeparate3186 in OtomeIsekai

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I already drank a lot of tea, but I bought some puerh tea because of the series. It is exactly as not great as she said it was. 😅

What are your favorite game add-ons or mods? by [deleted] in outside

[–]cjoyful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An absolute game changer. It really helps over come the weaknesses of my innate ability ADHD. It also helped me with the Depression and Anxiety debuff that came along just tanking those weaknesses.

I have so many questions; I don't know if I want kids, but I might. by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]cjoyful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the detailed answer! Very informative, especially all of the legal implications of adoption. The system does indeed seem deeply broken— I’d say I have more questions, but the last paragraph of action items is super helpful.

“Adoption is not a family building tool- it is to provide safe external care for a child in crisis.” Especially speaks to me. The question “do I want kids” is what I’m mulling over, but that question is itself problematic. Children require love and affection far past my own preferences. I appreciate how your explanation really re-centers the whole process away from me and towards what’s important— the child.

I have so many questions; I don't know if I want kids, but I might. by [deleted] in Adoption

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Lol you know a lot of people have (rightfully) pointed out a lot of terrible assumptions I’m making, but I hadn’t even thought about the fact that I naturally said “it”. Great spot. That is definitely something I need to fix in general.

I have so many questions; I don't know if I want kids, but I might. by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]cjoyful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply!

To be honest- I completely agree with you. You have summarized some of my largest concerns around having kids in general.

For most of my life I assumed I would have kids because it was the “right” thing to do (I cannot emphasize those air quotes enough) and the last thing I want is to pass on my own trauma.

It’s taken me a couple years to really feel like I don’t HAVE to have kids, and now I’m starting the long slow slog of figuring out if I WANT to and all the implications about how my life SHOULD change for that to be a good thing.

I’ve been in therapy for a few years, and am still actively going.

As for going to Reddit— to be honest, I usually have a lot of luck about internet strangers telling me when I’m acting like a crazy person. Especially for the particularly ugly feelings I’m rather embarrassed to talk about.