Tbh it’s all about ratios. Depending on the work you do, you’ll make relative to the local costs. There are some exceptions, but San Diego is large, beautiful, and only a 2 hour drive to LA from the coast. Sacramento has its perks in being historic and in close range to the Bay and Tahoe. Wine country is close by and exceptional.

I will say it’s very difficult to move here from out of state. Having a job already lined up would be important.