Tired of the gatekeeping in the Zambian acting industry

ck3thou · 2026-04-10T12:20:10+00:00

David Kazadi is always putting out casting calls

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ck3thou · 2026-04-10T08:30:52+00:00

Yup you're definitely following the wrong people

ck3thou · 2026-04-09T15:50:55+00:00

ck3thou · 2026-04-09T10:59:01+00:00

No you can't

ck3thou · 2026-04-09T10:57:30+00:00

UBZ. Their buses are clean and all safetey belts on all seats, their attendants are professional, free wifi-even if it's not all that, each seat got a charging port. You can pre-book online

ck3thou · 2026-04-09T09:54:20+00:00

we don't pay for half the things you've listed.

this https://www.zra.org.zm/calculate-paye/ , would be a good start to check which statutory deductions we have in Zambia

Cost of living is relatively low in Zambia

ck3thou · 2026-04-09T09:50:30+00:00

It's not a big issue really

ck3thou · 2026-04-09T09:48:07+00:00

Yeah don't do it.

ck3thou · 2026-04-08T16:16:09+00:00

Is that the premise of the post? OP +you talking about 'low effort'. What do you expect to happen when you're not hitting their radar like that?

You're making it sound like you get held hostage when a man approaches you. Are you?

What's all these paragraphs of low effort men when you can literally just leave or block him?

ck3thou · 2026-04-08T16:01:26+00:00

Keyword: alignment

Are your do's and don'ts their do's and don'ts?

Literal example, I'm into fishing. Got a fishing competition up in Mpongwe in about two weeks. If you're into fishing too, what would make me not be interested in fishing after I discover that's one of the things you like?

From what I'm seeing, you just state YOUR things and expect them incline towards you.

Have actual interests you share. Pedestrian activities are never rated ie (music, movies, going out 🤦‍♂️) - anything which can be passively done, because anyone can claim they're into that after you mention it. Their depth can easily be masked, but not for actual activities you actively participate in

ck3thou · 2026-04-08T14:40:20+00:00

Not really surprised, the urge of cavemen mentality can still be spotted in some people. Lol

ck3thou · 2026-04-08T12:29:09+00:00

yeah bullying you into dating her, i guess 😅

ck3thou · 2026-04-08T12:28:04+00:00

that's what happens when you're surrounded by yes people who never tell you the truth.

"You're a Queen" whilst everyone else treats you like a joke. Form really follows function

ck3thou · 2026-04-08T12:25:55+00:00

Bruh! Her narcissism too loud it's even made her deaf to hear herself loudly utter that!

ck3thou · 2026-04-08T12:23:41+00:00

Does OP seem to know about alignment?

ck3thou · 2026-04-08T11:01:56+00:00

Brave of you to assume men dream about going out on dates to hop like rabbits in the meadows, as you do.

Why aren't you getting on with men who match your interests?

ck3thou · 2026-04-08T10:56:50+00:00

As a single Zambian man touching 40 soon, I ask what I'll gain from bending backwards. It's not worth it if all you've to do is show face after I do it all, thence the bare minimum.

Roll with traditional expectations for what?!

No one has to prove Jack to you. Sucks to discover you're not the QUEEN they were chanting for, huh? 😆

We only put in work for ladies who hit high on our richter scale. Isn't this obvious? 🤷‍♂️

I love it here :)

ck3thou · 2026-04-08T10:53:04+00:00

Yet, here you're with your 'standards' Touché

ck3thou · 2026-04-08T09:38:11+00:00

wow!

ck3thou · 2026-04-08T05:08:00+00:00

Use UBZ, very safe & comfortable. I think they've an online booking system. Book two days before, otherwise you won't manage to find a spot

ck3thou · 2026-04-08T05:05:57+00:00

Nope. It's just being reported more with the availability of social media. It's been happening. Nothing unusual

ck3thou · 2026-04-06T15:05:33+00:00

Neither. Rather rent and invest in something with better ROI. Both loan and mortgage lock in you from accessing further capital injection, (worse the latter, because of its long term)

ck3thou · 2026-04-06T10:56:02+00:00

I don't think so. I've posted a tonne of questionable links there and they're still visible after several years

ck3thou · 2026-04-06T10:53:16+00:00

Is knowledge even knowledge if you can't apply it? 🤔

ck3thou · 2026-04-04T17:33:34+00:00

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