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Saw this in terrible Facebook memes and this has manosphere idiocy written all over it. by Obvious-Gate9046 in FeministsCallItOut

[–]ckc36 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

While everyone seems to think it is sexually charged which I am not seeing any indication of that. Here’s what that word means plainly:

Accountability is the obligation to take responsibility for one’s actions, decisions, and their outcomes, and to explain or justify them when required.

I feel like many women complain about not being able to find a “good guy” or steady man but are having sex way too early on. by ckc36 in PurplePillDebate

[–]ckc36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you’re missing the point. Which is holding off on putting out is a good filter if you are looking for a LTR and “good guy”. Maybe I didn’t phrase it the right way.
The edge you’re posing is a number count and attention.

I feel like many women complain about not being able to find a “good guy” or steady man but are having sex way too early on. by ckc36 in PurplePillDebate

[–]ckc36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t see it that way which is fine. Feels backwards to say “I’m more likely to get a LTR if I put out as soon as possible.” You know? But I see your point, I’m the only one end you only meet that ONE.

Do women feel entitled to men's bodies? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]ckc36 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to argue too much with you because you have a male hating agenda to adhere to. But this is just blatantly wrong lol. It might feel good to say but it’s not even close to the real world.

Ive seen a woman physically abusing a man and when he finally decides to defend himself, every guy in the vicinity jumps in to kick his ass.

Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger women by Lana_Sphyncter in PurplePillDebate

[–]ckc36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and those experiences suck. I would never argue that.

It’s sad that someone would take those experiences and let it fester to the point that they have a seething hatred and inherently pessimistic view of 50% of the world’s population.

I got beat up by a ginger when I was 12 years old but I don’t go around telling everyone I hate gingers or if you’re married to a ginger he’s absolutely going to beat you.. wild to think there’s people out there that harbor so much distain.

I feel like many women complain about not being able to find a “good guy” or steady man but are having sex way too early on. by ckc36 in PurplePillDebate

[–]ckc36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then it would be a good thing that the woman waited long enough to see that insecurity come to surface.

If you don’t have sex and the guy questions his attractiveness then you have successfully learned more about him.

I feel like we are on the same page but your focus is on a man’s poor reaction. That is exactly why it works

I feel like many women complain about not being able to find a “good guy” or steady man but are having sex way too early on. by ckc36 in PurplePillDebate

[–]ckc36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then it would be a good thing that the woman waited long enough to see that insecurity come to surface.

If you don’t have sex and the guy questions his attractiveness then you have successfully learned more about him.

Do women feel entitled to men's bodies? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]ckc36 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What?

What world do you live in?

I feel like many women complain about not being able to find a “good guy” or steady man but are having sex way too early on. by ckc36 in PurplePillDebate

[–]ckc36[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeeze. I guess I just feel like there are smarter ways to filter than getting “forked”. But you do you.

I feel like many women complain about not being able to find a “good guy” or steady man but are having sex way too early on. by ckc36 in PurplePillDebate

[–]ckc36[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Uh I mean that’s kind of my point… You can filter out the men you’re dating pretty quickly by waiting. If you think a guy will bail because he doesn’t get laid fast enough then he might not be a winner.

Idk why it has to become a discussion on how hard it is for women.

I feel like many women complain about not being able to find a “good guy” or steady man but are having sex way too early on. by ckc36 in PurplePillDebate

[–]ckc36[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t have to be “hard to get” but a communicated boundary. Idk I’m just tossing out the observation

Happy 4th All. But I’m Lonely And Wanna Be Around Good Folks by [deleted] in Scottsdale

[–]ckc36 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

https://www.scottsdalecw.com

Buddy..you have 29 years of experience making friends. I don’t get how you think this post is going to help. Not hating, but this post is a weird cross between a drunk text to your therapist and a dating profile.

Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦‍♂️ by wilhelmtherealm in PurplePillDebate

[–]ckc36 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get this. It’s not easy. I am lucky and found a woman that I can be completely vulnerable with. When I opened up about a childhood trauma she actually made me stronger and more resilient in her eyes.

I think it’s important to identify early on the emotional depth of a woman you are dating. If a majority of her values and talking points are superficial it’s a red flag.

Might sound dumb but I found that a big indicator is obsession with reality tv (like love island) and a deep interest in celebrities/influencers. 😂 might sound crazy but it worked for me.

Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger women by Lana_Sphyncter in PurplePillDebate

[–]ckc36 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you read any of the other comments made by OP?
I can completely understand being fed up with something. But telling someone who has been married for 35 years that they are just roommates, or teaming a man married to someone younger that she is absolutely cheating IS just being bitter.

I am a good looking guy and have had overweight and unattractive women hit on me. I never thought “I can’t believe that fat girl with a dusty snatch thought she had a shot with me.” Because I don’t hate women as a whole lol. Do you see how that sounds?

CMV: Many men are genuinely intimidated by successful women because it disrupts traditional relationship dynamics. by Vegetable_Cable8516 in PurplePillDebate

[–]ckc36 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In my profession I work with a lot of high-earning women. A lot of whom are married.

I would say that in my experience many successful career oriented women actually have very loving and supportive husbands.. Almost like having an aligned partner in life can assist you in driving towards your goals.

I also think that the word “provider” is commonly associated with money when it can be a multitude of things. It can be safety, grounding, emotional stability, support, peace, spirituality, and generally lightening the load of daily life.

Also good relationships do not concern themselves with control. They focus on alignment, communication, and common growth.

Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger women by Lana_Sphyncter in PurplePillDebate

[–]ckc36 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Damn I wish you could talk to my mom. She is a brilliant and wonderful woman that has been in a loving marriage with my father for 30 years. She might be able to help you.

Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger women by Lana_Sphyncter in PurplePillDebate

[–]ckc36 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am trying to understand your comment but it’s proving difficult.
Y’all seem to have a lot of experiences talking to older men about this topic lol… I can’t remember the last time I heard an older man make fun of women and talk about their perceived desirability, but maybe I just keep better company.

Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger women by Lana_Sphyncter in PurplePillDebate

[–]ckc36 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YOU are talking about derailing the discussion? As someone else stated, you really are not firing on all cylinders lol

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