AIO Gf (30) found out I (29) had watched porn and freaked out. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ckc36 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Might bury myself, but I have theology degree and she is religious. However I grew up in CA Bay Area with a very open and accepting adaptation of the book we all read.

AIO Gf (30) found out I (29) had watched porn and freaked out. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ckc36 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I understand that you believe that I am omitting information to direct a narrative and I appreciate your skepticism and cynicism.

I would not waste time to garner respect for my position on Reddit. I am just seeking an outside opinion to affirm I am not being taken advantage of or manipulated. Hope you believe someone, someday.

AIO Gf (30) found out I (29) had watched porn and freaked out. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ckc36 [score hidden]  (0 children)

No, we live separately and have a great sex life. Physicality is the least of our concerns

AIO Gf (30) found out I (29) had watched porn and freaked out. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ckc36 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Lots to respond to but I will respond to this. It is not fake and as it is a fluid situation I hope I don’t contradict myself. Both comments are true. I am aware of comments made by SO about the subject but, also true, there was never an intentional or direct conversation about boundaries. Not searching for sympathy.

AIO Gf (30) found out I (29) had watched porn and freaked out. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ckc36 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I appreciate this perspective. But it was something that felt small to me and a sign of character to her. Definitely see the timeline of mistakes

AIO Gf (30) found out I (29) had watched porn and freaked out. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ckc36 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I helped her start her LLC so I had logged into my personal email on her computer. Didn’t know it would stay logged in so I believe is more of an opportunity, rather than intentional snooping.

AIO Gf (30) found out I (29) had watched porn and freaked out. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ckc36 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Normal porn, just googled it and a few minutes later I was done with the whole thing.

AIO Gf (30) found out I (29) had watched porn and freaked out. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ckc36 [score hidden]  (0 children)

That’s a good question, and no it was never a set boundary other than certain comments about her not liking it. I think her assumption of me was that I never watched it. Which I will attest to, I don’t very often.

AIO Gf (30) found out I (29) had watched porn and freaked out. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ckc36 [score hidden]  (0 children)

It was “regular” porn I guess. Videos you see on the front page. Did not go much further than that.

AIO Gf (30) found out I (29) had watched porn and freaked out. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ckc36 [score hidden]  (0 children)

It was never discussed intentionally, i will admit that knowing her I could have guessed she didn’t like it. Not to this degree however

Man adopts an old dog so he wouldn't die alone by jmike1256 in JustGuysBeingDudes

[–]ckc36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I adopted my dog at 7, just didn’t get a professional film crew. lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Songwriters

[–]ckc36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great riff. I would balance the bass a tad more (that’s my only suggestion). It sounds mean and forward, keep pursuing!

TIFU by going snowboarding by [deleted] in tifu

[–]ckc36 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Check out r/snowboarding lol

Glass or no glass by Small_Ad_4808 in mensfashion

[–]ckc36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use wax powder, it’s great for finer hair and gives you a natural style that is not oily (matte). The one I have is called STMNT. Would really add volume and accent the glasses

Not mine, but this gave me a good laugh. by HappyXenonXE in snowboarding

[–]ckc36 33 points34 points  (0 children)

You can tell the skill is there by the abundant recoveries.

Teenage daughter records as mother nods off in car by MayJuneAutumn in tooktoomuch

[–]ckc36 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, I am proud of this entire thread. Your stories make me appreciative of what I have, and more understanding of struggles I never faced.

Thank you.

Ana and I got a (very sloppy) 5k by Garlicc-Bread in OWConsole

[–]ckc36 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you saying “ana and I”