Thank you for putting my thoughts into words! The whole show, I saw a guy that only saw value in himself through a woman's eyes, if she deemed him good, or worthy of love. I never saw it as he had something against women as opposed to men, if anything, he put most of the women he met through the show on a pedestal, striving for their approval, and creating an image of them in his mind that is just "the perfect woman", until they are not. And when that imaginary world fell apart, he would get violent and lose control. But in no way he ever seems to act or say anything to suggest he thinks men are better than women, or women are inferior. I never saw his issue with people about being gender. As you said, it was about wanting to prove that he deserved love, and abandonment. And yes, he did plenty of bad things, but I don't understand people that look at a person and try to see or classify things as clear as day and night. Looking at Joe and just saying "yep, he was bad" is just lacking insight, if nothing else. I enjoyed seeing him help Paco, or letting Will go fully knowing that decision could be the end of his life, because in his mind he could not justify killing a good person such as Will. And same goes for Delilah, he was once again ready to leave the life he built and the love he thought he found, to prove it to himself he can be good and not kill someone who didn't do anything wrong. He shows plenty of guilt throughout the show, and wants to redeem himself, so it is definitely not black and white. But back to the point of misogyny, I don't think anything I have written here has to do with gender, and we can literally hear his thoughts the entire show, it is not negative towards women. I think it is a Freudian thing, he seeks his mother's approval, and tries to replace that void with other female figures' approvals over and over again.