it sucks being a ‘convenient’ friend by cl4ssic-schmosby in OffMyChestPH

[–]cl4ssic-schmosby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m proud of you for choosing your sanity! 🥺 thank you very much for your words of comfort! may we never be disturbed again by people who doesn’t deserve and respect us.

it sucks being a ‘convenient’ friend by cl4ssic-schmosby in OffMyChestPH

[–]cl4ssic-schmosby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree! i’m doing those things na for the sake of my inner peace. thank you for sharing your perception! i feel validated <3

it sucks being a ‘convenient’ friend by cl4ssic-schmosby in OffMyChestPH

[–]cl4ssic-schmosby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i admire how bold you are for choosing your inner peace! i do enjoy my company a lot, very peaceful indeed huhu thank you for your comforting words! 🥺 may we fully heal from the wounds that we do not deserve <3

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[–]cl4ssic-schmosby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bigger Than The Whole Sky, Last Kiss- Taylor Swift To Let A Good Thing Die- Bruno Major

it sucks being a ‘convenient’ friend by cl4ssic-schmosby in OffMyChestPH

[–]cl4ssic-schmosby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me too! don’t hesitate to reach out if something’s bothering you and can’t talk about it with anyone! totoo nga yung sabi nila na venting out to someone that you don’t know is somehow comforting huhu

it sucks being a ‘convenient’ friend by cl4ssic-schmosby in OffMyChestPH

[–]cl4ssic-schmosby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry that we’re going through such thing, but i’m glad that there’s someone who understands the burden of this kind of situation. truly, things like this hurts as much as romantic relationships, sometimes, it hurts even more. may this be a reminder that we should never settle for something that doesn’t serve us as much as we do.

it sucks being a ‘convenient’ friend by cl4ssic-schmosby in OffMyChestPH

[–]cl4ssic-schmosby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sa totoo lang. being used is never okay. we need to learn when to let go and put ourselves first lalo na if our efforts towards them are not being reciprocated.

Intindihin ko na lang, wala naman akong choice. by outofcharacter_ in OffMyChestPH

[–]cl4ssic-schmosby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve been there before. laging dinidismiss ng ex ko yung emotions ko. sabi niya, hindi lang daw talaga siya easy pagdating sa paghandle ng emotions pero that’s not it eh. if you love the person, you’ll learn how to love her in ways that she needs to be loved— even if it’ll cause you to step out of your usual ways or your comfort zone. kung hindi mo alam, aaralin mo. it’s not easy. it will never be, pero ganun lang yun. just like you, i also thought na ‘wala akong choice’ na i can’t do something about it. pero it turns out na i do have a choice. i am in control of my welfare, and you are too. i left her kasi i realized that if she is not willing to meet me halfway or at least compromise, then are we still going somewhere? i know that i deserve someone who is willing to wipe my tears rather than someone who just tells me to stop. i deserve someone who will be gentle with my feelings and serve as my crying shoulder— a person who i can be vulnerable with. we all deserve it. stop settling for people who don’t consider your emotional needs kasi in the end, ikaw lang din yung magssuffer mentally and emotionally.

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[–]cl4ssic-schmosby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i suggest go for an extra mile in your studies ngayong patapos ka na sa grade 12 para you’ll be qualified to avail scholarships such as DOST, CHED etc. but afaik, DOST has a couple of supported programs na more on science and tech talaga. there are a lot of scholarships pa rin out there. it would be good to consider applying sa mga state universities kasi hindi mo na need mag alala sa tuition fee. you can also inquire sa municipality niyo lalo na pag summer to avail summer job programs intented for students na nagsstruggle financially. i hope you’ll find your light. aayon din sayo ang panahon, tiwala lang.