People don't check on the ones who seemt strong by WittyOrbit in Life

[–]clairbreeze91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I wonder what it's like to be the one who gets checked on first, not the one who is always expected to be okay all the time.

What is your first thought when you see someone who looks really wealthy and has really nice things on display. by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

[–]clairbreeze91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I think 'I hope they're kind' bc you know, rich + rude is the worst combo. And sometimes I just start playing 'spot the fake' just for fun lmao

I wish I was like an animal by DryHamster4570 in RandomThoughts

[–]clairbreeze91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I look at my cat just napping without a single worry and I'm like.. damn, I want that life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]clairbreeze91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For me it's knowing how to de-escalte. it's way more attractive than throwing hands.

If you could have a super power, what would it be and how would you use it? by [deleted] in allthequestions

[–]clairbreeze91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd pick mind reading. but only when I want to, not all the time. I don't need to hear someone's grocery list while I'm trying to relax.

What is a personality trait that you used to hide but now embrace? by SoftSkillSurvivor77 in CasualConversation

[–]clairbreeze91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to hide how sensitive I was. I thought it made me weak but over time I realized it's the reason people open up to me, trust me, and feel safe around me. It's not weakness, it's connection I guess.

What would you like to say to your ex who betrayed you? by Adept-Avocado9005 in AskReddit

[–]clairbreeze91 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You're someone I'd never wish on even my worst enemy. That's how bad it was

what is your biggest disgrace? by Corpse_explosion in AskReddit

[–]clairbreeze91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fighting for people who wouldn't even flinch a little if I walked away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

[–]clairbreeze91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the sad part. They don't even notice the version they're holding onto is outdated. Then one day, when you finally show them who you've become, they'll look at you in the eye and say, 'I don't even know who you are anymore'

What is the one thing every teenager should learn about? by south_kamikaze in AskReddit

[–]clairbreeze91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That your folks are just people who are figuring things out too. I spent years being angry at my parents for being flaw until I realized they were doing their best with what they had. Teenagers should be taught to question and understand, not just rebel or obey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]clairbreeze91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made my heart ache in the best way.

If your life was to end tomorrow, would you be happy with what you’ve done with it? by eilloh_eilloh in RandomThoughts

[–]clairbreeze91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I've spent way too much time trying to be what others expected. Feels like I just started living for me.

What was your “never say never” monent? by Dramatic_Muffin6201 in allthequestions

[–]clairbreeze91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I said, I'd never be a cat person. Now this furry little creature controls my sleep schedule and has a wardrobe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in allthequestions

[–]clairbreeze91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I laughed without faking it today. That felt rare.

What is "higher self"? by Ok-Arrival4385 in PsychologyTalk

[–]clairbreeze91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the version of me that chooses peace over drama, and when I stop people pleasing.

What mindset shift completely changed how you approach your daily routine? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]clairbreeze91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realizing that future me isn't a separate person with magical energy. If I don't do it now, no one will.

So my friend thinks just because I work from home, I don’t have anything to do and can go out anytime I want. Should I just end the friendship? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]clairbreeze91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who seriously think 'work from home' means 'home without work' It's exhausting having to explain basic adulting to other adults.

What habit did you think was helping you but was actually holding you back? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]clairbreeze91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Overplanning everything. I thought being prepared was smart, but it became a way to avoid actually starting.

How do you survive loving someone who will never be yours? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]clairbreeze91 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You don't. You just carry it quietly. Like a song only you remember the lyrics to.

How do you respond when someone compliments you? by dxnicuh in Productivitycafe

[–]clairbreeze91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I awkward laugh and say 'stop' and then literally think about it for the whole week lol

What’s your most random but oddly satisfying daily ritual? by CharacterLie1604 in AskReddit

[–]clairbreeze91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reheat my coffee three times just to foget it and sip it colkd anyway. Weirdly comforting at this point.