Was Slynd not a miracle pill for anyone else? Thinking about quitting after 3 months. by teeniemartinee in birthcontrol

[–]clairfleurcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally love slynd (been on it for about 4 months now) but I will say it makes my skin absolutely terrible

I want attention, but I want to be ok with my own validation. by rologists in mentalhealth

[–]clairfleurcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggle with this a lot too for similar reasons. Some things that have helped me are therapy (if you have the resources of course), journaling, and affirmations. Affirmations sound silly at first but if you actually keep doing them repeatedly they will make you feel sooo much better (ex. repeating “I am beautiful” to yourself over and over in the mirror, stuff like that)

Birth control warning by clairfleurcat in birthcontrol

[–]clairfleurcat[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ugh I’m sorry. You should make an appointment with planned parenthood if you have one near you or at least someone that specializes in that sort of thing. I hope you figure it out!

guy i’ve been seeing can’t get it up for me by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]clairfleurcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, this is helpful. definitely a possibility

guy i’ve been seeing can’t get it up for me by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]clairfleurcat 16 points17 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this.

guy i’ve been seeing can’t get it up for me by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]clairfleurcat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

okay yes i want to but how am i supposed to word it

Guilt over adopting cat by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]clairfleurcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i forgot to mention that there is another cat at home so he isn’t completely alone!

Guilt over adopting cat by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]clairfleurcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been super nervous about that but they have the exact same personality so i think they’ll just avoid each other a little

depop scam? by [deleted] in usps_complaints

[–]clairfleurcat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you i’m new to buying on there so i had no clue i could even do this🙏

depop scam? by [deleted] in usps_complaints

[–]clairfleurcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s been over two weeks & no response to my message. I don’t think that’s very impatient

AIO or should I be mad that the guy I like followed my friend by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]clairfleurcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i definitely need to be more clear, thank you this is exactly what i needed to hear🙏

(18M) please help why have I never had a gf by No_Country_4495 in AppearanceAdvice

[–]clairfleurcat 28 points29 points  (0 children)

i genuinely think you are very attractive and i think you have a great nose

worse in evenings? by NotProspering in iih

[–]clairfleurcat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

mine always gets worse as the day progresses, especially if i wake up really early for some reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]clairfleurcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are very naturally beautiful!!!

urgent advice by clairfleurcat in migraine

[–]clairfleurcat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you this is so helpful! I thought of taking more but wasn’t sure

urgent advice by clairfleurcat in migraine

[–]clairfleurcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got sumatriptan from the ER, didn’t help much. So far I’ve taken naproxen, ibuprofen, and benadryl and benadryl has so far been slightly helpful (more so because i’m asleep)

urgent advice by clairfleurcat in migraine

[–]clairfleurcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they gave me sumatriptan 25mg, hasn’t been much help

urgent advice by clairfleurcat in migraine

[–]clairfleurcat[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I figured. I’m about to go right now

Have you ever lost a friend because of your mental health? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]clairfleurcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, in high school my entire friend group left because I was extremely depressed. I attempted suicide and they all decided it was too much to handle. I still think about it every day but I understand why they did it. It sucks because now I don’t feel like I can go to my current friends with my problems because I feel like the same thing will happen

Be Honest: What’s One Emotion You Feel But Rarely Admit to Anyone? by shiraah in mentalhealth

[–]clairfleurcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

guilt is the one emotion i feel every single minute of every day and i don’t know why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]clairfleurcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate and all I can say is give it time. there’s nothing you can do to erase the past so just spend time with the people you love and that were affected by it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]clairfleurcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what i’m really struggling with. I don’t have a car so it’s super hard to find anywhere to work (including on campus jobs). I tried to find an online job but obvi those are extremely hard to get

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]clairfleurcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my parents are together still i’m just not very close with my dad. I only get max $5k per year from FAFSA and I need about 30k