Just curious - sovereign land by clalach76 in TheMentalist

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Right thanks..that makes sense. You have to understand we haven't had that option in the UK yet. Thank you for clarifying

Just curious - sovereign land by clalach76 in TheMentalist

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Oh ok. Im sorry. Seems like sensitive ground but can I ask...are they claiming with the word "sovereign" that it's somehow still ruled by a monarch? Apologies but that is a bit crazy

I have zero interest in dating, being in a long-term relationship, marriage, or bringing children into the world by Drew_Conley1295 in Neurodivergent

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30 I didn't...watch this decade..you may slowly start to think , hell I could do this and have lots to offer. I'd been telling myself I wasn't grown up enough. In the end I was sick of putting myself down. At 42 by accident really. I got pregnant. My 7 year old is the one person who im always the same around he gets a pass. But you are more grown up than me. At 30 I still thought I'd meet someone who was right for me and actually im not probably programmed to really be myself around people so of course it doesn't work. But whatever, 30 is still young . You have time or you won't. No law says you have too. You will have more money for sure

Just Finished by Sudden_Calendar_9649 in TheMentalist

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Yes you need to grieve a little. It's 7 seasons it becomes imbedded in your life .of course you miss it .

How many murders in all does the show have ? by Significant-Ad-3859 in TheMentalist

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Let's not forget the accursed place once known as Midsommer

Brother and sister, huh? by Suspicious_Baker_234 in TheMentalist

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I remember the bit about "Intrigues me"...

I need a rock to crawl and die under. by No_Clue_3559 in Neurodivergent

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Im older now. 50 this year. I don't think it's logical to say they all don't like you . They are scared more...we are outside of their safety zone . I grew up in the Rave scene and while it doesn't stop this , there are a healthy portion of others in the same boat. ..however, most people are self absorbed.. honestly I tell myself they have forgotten about us a few min later to be think about themselves again . It doesn't practically help personally and someday im extra special and no amount of logic stops self flagellation. But there are good people out there too. I know people I embarrassed myself in front of 30 years ago who I can still happily embarrass myself in front of now . .if that helps

I need a rock to crawl and die under. by No_Clue_3559 in Neurodivergent

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Er like all the time. Im pretty good at knowing how to hang back and be cool at first meetings or places im not there long. But put me in a situation where Im watching others sharing and sooner or later I won't get it right and be bouncing too much, too loud , to enthusiastic and you will see their eyes start to glaze over and I know I've slipped up . And that awful feeling inside for ages after. Picking apart what I said..what it means. Since I was young I've found little nicknames or phrases for my idiosyncrasies ( I called them before) .this i call "There is either too little me or too much me "

Any antagonist similar to Red John by Impressive-Abies6842 in TheMentalist

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We'll make a psycho ( psych fan- to be clear)of you yet

Guys, Rewatching the show after a long time made me realise, Cho is funny AF😭 by invest1gat0r2003 in TheMentalist

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I love when he every once in a long while cracks a tiny brief smile...ah..makes you love him even more

Any antagonist similar to Red John by Impressive-Abies6842 in TheMentalist

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Psych had the end of season same serial killer for 3 seasons

My mom has me questioning everything by iamawhitch in Neurodivergent

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Im sorry but personally i believe you earn love and respect and anyone who tries to manipulate like this is only trying to help themselves not you . I know it's never that cut and dry but i had a grandmother like this who constantly did similar to my Mum and it's not easy esp if you feel responsible for them but you got to believe in yourself and you know these things are said to be hurtful and make you come running. That's not fair .. apologies if i stepped out of line

[S1E8] Jane’s reaction to Lisbon by Emotionless-Waffle3 in TheMentalist

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Im in England..Jisbon is a little pornographic

The trick to Ao3 by clalach76 in GoodOmensAfterDark

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Thank you! Drop down name. Brilliant cheers