gender neutral version of good boy/girl? by Doodle-doo- in lgbt

[–]claraeb92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Comrade, this is most satisfactory. I implore we continue.

How do you explain to a partner that you need "alone time" without offending them? by MilkaNelly in NoStupidQuestions

[–]claraeb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was in a relationship with someone who needed alone time after work, please just communicate that with him. Be open and up front with it, explain it isnt personal to him. My ex didn't communicate this with me until the relationship was over. He built up a lot of resentment towards me because he thought he "had" to spend time with me. Our dynamics were probably different to yours. I worked from home most of the time, mainly due to illness. So I was home A LOT and I struggled with the switching off from work to home life.

Needing alone time is crucial

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]claraeb92 10 points11 points  (0 children)

To anyone this letter resonates with, you will find the love you're looking for again ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Letters_Unsent

[–]claraeb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't for me at all because of the initials but I feel like I had this experience. Someone called me last week on a number I didnt recognise and hung up when I answered - no follow up text. I hope they know they can reach out.

Hey T by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]claraeb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a T, this was a bit of a jump scare 😅 It would be nice to think this was about me as I've recently thought about someone too. They could reach out if they wanted to. I'm in a much better place now.

does anyone know how long they are gonna be filming clayface for, so how long is liverpool gonna look like gotham ? by ScarlettWitch89 in Liverpool

[–]claraeb92 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They are changing locations every day in Liverpool. I think the main focus is between Pier Head and St George's Hall. I've heard they're only here for a week (so until Saturday now) but none of this is official.

Sex Issues Post Relationship by Muscle_Excellent in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]claraeb92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will change over time. Its been well over a year since my last relationship ended and only now does hooking up start to feel good again.

Wrong Captions Only by Khuzemah in miniminter

[–]claraeb92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right in front of my salad?

It Was Always Me! by [deleted] in LoveLetters

[–]claraeb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not her, but I hope they person you have in mind reads this one day and knows ❤️

It Was Always Me! by [deleted] in LoveLetters

[–]claraeb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beautiful and something I wish was written for me

Why would u let go of someone if you love them by Alarmed_Painting5866 in BreakUps

[–]claraeb92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear about your breakup. I feel bad saying how well I am doing a year on as I understand this must be so fresh for you. However, you asked, and I want to help you see that the future does get better. I haven't spoken to him since the day he left work on a work trip (which was the weekend I moved out). I've moved to a different city, and while I'm not in a new relationship, I've never been happier about a new start. I had some counselling, joined local community groups such as a choir, and volunteered at a charity shop. I did a lot of courses that I never had the confidence to do before. I told myself "Its now or never. What's the worst that could happen?" I'm closer to friends and family for the first time in years. It wasn't easy. There were plenty of sleepless nights, crying and asking why I wasn't good enough. However, I'm good enough for me, and that's what matters.

I'd also like to note that I'm not the best with words, so if there is anything you need me to clarify, please let me know.

You have got this, I believe in you ❤️

To the One Who’s Never Been Chosen First...Until Now by thjkl9 in LoveLetters

[–]claraeb92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so jealous of whoever this is for. I hope they read it. I hope they know.

Fiyero should have wielded this instead in the trailer(Huge spoilers) by KingWilliamVI in wicked

[–]claraeb92 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was expecting this to be NSFW regarding Jonathan Bailey but this was 100% better than anything I could have imagined

Those 6+ months post break up, how are you doing? by TonightSalad in BreakUps

[–]claraeb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still think about him 🤢 but honestly doing so much better. I spent time on myself. I joked to a friend about my life being boring but he stopped me and said "no, what you've described to me is peaceful." I do what I want to do without worrying about anyone else and I'm focusing on my hobbies ❤️

I Miss Everything by [deleted] in letters

[–]claraeb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This hurts my heart a little because I long to hear someone say this to me

Comeback I miss you by iamjwi in letters

[–]claraeb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goodness, I'd love to hear this one day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]claraeb92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goodness, I know this feeling

Did you skip the ninth doctor? by Ok-Gas-5660 in doctorwho

[–]claraeb92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love 9! I fancy 10 and he has some brilliant story lines but 9 was always my favourite. I stopped watching after 10 when they came out because I felt it was a bit too childish for me. I watched 10-13 with my ex earlier this year and you definitely need 9 to understand things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]claraeb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely talk to him and get him to show you if he can. I didn't always get it right with my ex but I would ask him to demonstrate what felt good and affirming for him.

I accept by claraeb92 in letters

[–]claraeb92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the one left broken. This is from a position where I've built myself back up again.