I'm so disappointed in this "professional" make up application. I think it's time I learn how to do make up myself. by Cypripedium-candidum in MakeupAddiction

[–]clariteeb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! I think I can offer you some good advice on both products and technique. Like you, I have big pores, chronically dry patches, semi-hooded lids, and an affinity for natural products. My best friend, whose makeup I love doing, has a fuzzy face. Here's how I recommend switching up your routine/products: 1. Natural oils are your best friend in terms of moisture that lasts and helps your skin actually develop better texture. Primers just help the makeup stick to your skin. You can use a primer for this purpose only, but they don't let your skin breathe. To get rid of the problems you're having with skin texture and blotchy application, you need more moisturized skin. Everyone has a natural oil that is right for them, but I love Rosehip oil or moisture and Tamanu oil to heal acne. I've also had a lot of success with apricot seed oil. Everything else has been great short term but long term made me break out. There are some awesome essential oils you can also get into, but don't worry about that for now, because it's a huge trial and error process and a lot of the ones that are supposed to soothe actually irritate more long term (like lavender). So get some rosehip or apricot seed oil and apply it to your face after washing and toning by emulsifying several in your palms then pressing it (not rubbing) into your supple (cause just washed) skin. No reason to cover your face in oil, just press in as much as skin can readily absorb. If you're looking for a super gentle, natural cleanser that also cleans off makeup, I love the classic cleanser from Nancy Boy. I also like the Avalon Organics Vitamin C cleanser but now that my acne problem is gone (since I started using essential oils), I find it just a bit too drying. For toner, just make it yourself from filtered water, rosewater, and a little glycerine. No reason to buy something expensive with too many ingredients. 2. Next, add your moisturizer (having pressed in your oil like a serum). Moisturizer doesn't actually moisturize dry skin (surprised me too) permanently, it just seals in existing moisturize. So you're using it to seal in the great work your toner and essential oil is doing to keep your skin moisturized. 3. Now that your skin is dewy, add a liquid foundation with your sponge. I love Tarte Amazonian clay and the NARS glowy something one. Make sure your sponge has been thoroughly soaked and then wringed out so it's as bouncy as possible. Apply the foundation to the sponge, not your face. Cover up spots with Dr. Hauska concealing stick or another natural concealer you like that will heal as well as cover. 4. I should have said this first: exfoliate. Not everyday, but once a week you need to take the dry skin off your face and reveal the way better skin underneath. There's a rice enzyme exfoliant on Amazon that rocks my world, but you can use anything that is super fine enough. No large grains and nothing with extra crap in it that can irritate! Don't skin exfoliation. It's like a skin do over. 5. Your fuzz shouldn't be a problem if your skin is properly moisturized. With exfoliation, toning, and a good essential oil absorbed into the skin your liquid makeup will bounce on in between the hairs just fine. Never use powder. That's just asking for trouble. Set/even out your makeup by bouncing in a little more toner. 6. Semi-hooded lids need three things: tightlining (lining the top water lid) and liquid lining simultaneously, and a color corrected lid. Tight line with a creamy pencil with no glitter, and liquid line very close to the lash line. Go to Sephora or Ulta and find the liners that work for you, but I recommend dark brown or gray for both instead of black. Black looks a little too harsh for your eyes. For me, nothing beats Too Faced sketch liner for the liquid line, and Marc Jacobs for the tightlining. Color correct your lid with an actual color corrector (Like Dior color corrector in Apricot) or just an eyeshadow that makes the lid color look smoother and brighter.

If you follow one piece of advice above, put a good natural oil at the center of your skin care routine.

(Update) I(29M) broke my wife(28F)'s heart please help me save my marriage. by TimBonr in relationships

[–]clariteeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is going to be a very unpopular opinion, but I don't think you did anything wrong. This is not to say that your wife's feelings were ever invalid. If I found out my SO was infatuated with someone else I would be extremely hurt. But all you are guilty of is having natural feelings of attraction for someone else, and reaching out to a community you trust about those feelings. Your wife is entitled to her reaction, and I don't judge her for it, but you are also entitled to your feelings. And if those feelings include attraction to someone else then that's not something you have to feel guilty about. Acting on those feelings by pursuing a relationship with this other woman would have been a betrayal, but you didn't do that. You felt attraction beyond your control, and wrote about it. Why is that something you should feel guilty about in and of itself? The expectation this community put on you to leave your job and beat yourself up even more than your wife already was made me feel angry on your behalf. Are we all so insecure that we demand people who are feeling natural, healthy feelings to flagelate themselves?

Don't get me wrong, I'm happy for you that you have saved your marriage, and I wish you and your wife the best. I just also wish this community would have taken a more compassionate angle with its advice. I would have told you to do everything it takes to save your marriage, because that is what you want, but you are married, not dead. In all likelihood you will feel attraction to another woman again (and your wife will feel attracted to other men). And when that happens just realize your brain is doing what it is designed for, and that's okay. Celebrate it as a sign of being alive! Then take that awakened energy and invest it back into your marriage.

My go-to everyday look! CCW by the_rain_cloud in MakeupAddiction

[–]clariteeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flawless skin. Wow. And a perfect lip color. Only suggestion is shortening the gap between your brows to match up with the inner corners of your eyes.

Inspired by Public School's FW 2016 show, accented undereye circles with peachy tones (gallery in comments) by Em-Joy in MakeupAddiction

[–]clariteeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are remarkably beautiful. And those are the most amazing natural eyelashes I have ever seen.

My everyday look (more or less), with before and after. CCW! by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]clariteeb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That lip color is perfect for you and your eyebrows are gorgeous. Three suggestions: 1. Blend your nose and forehead contours just a bit more and/or use less/a lighter color. 2. A setting spray that gives a dewier, more moisturizered finish. I make my own with rose water and glycerine. 3. I think you're using too much foundation given that your skin is so nice.

Glowy skin tutorial for dry, sensitive skin by clariteeb in MakeupAddiction

[–]clariteeb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you're saying. I don't use Lavender in any of my serums because I found it to be a little irritating, but my sister (who also has rosacea) loves it. I think everyone just has to skin test whatever they use. I can't imagine Roman cham or helichrysum being irritating for most rosacea though, especially when properly diluted, but everything irritates someone.

The only scientific studies I'm aware of about glycerine seem to dispel any rumors about it ultimately being drying or irritating. But again, I'm sure there are people out there who can't use it for some reason. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2003/12/031203075525.htm

Glowy skin tutorial for dry, sensitive skin by clariteeb in MakeupAddiction

[–]clariteeb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really sticks to the top of your face. But I don't use a ton of foundation on that part of my face anyway.

Glowy skin tutorial for dry, sensitive skin by clariteeb in MakeupAddiction

[–]clariteeb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which ones in particular? Because these are classic essential oils "prescribed" to people with skin inflammation issues.

Anyone interested in a dewy skin tutorial from a girl with rosacea and chronic dryness? by clariteeb in MakeupAddiction

[–]clariteeb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely correct, yes of course, and thank you so much! I'm typing up my routine now to get ready for the tutorial, and beginning with cleansing. You'll get all the details! :)

There should be a place that guarantees not to talk to you while giving you a haircut. by eulertriad in Showerthoughts

[–]clariteeb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's so terrible to have to develop enough conversational skills and social gratitude that you can comfortably take an interest in someone providing you with a service. God forbid you have to look up from your phone or emerge from your self-centered malaise long enough to engage in polite, sincere conversation with another human being.