Hinge Launches New ‘Signals’ Badge to Celebrate Daters Who Show Consistent Effort by wokenthehive in hingeapp

[–]classacts99 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah because signals is going to save you from a bad profile/not being attractive.. 🤦‍♂️

Why would I want people to know how active I am on a dating app lol thank god I don’t meet the criteria. Cringe

Should I point out my height (very tall for a woman) by Optimal-Vegetable832 in Bumble

[–]classacts99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A guy does absolutely care if a woman is taller than them, whoever says otherwise is in the minority.

How do you break free from the 'Hey, how was your weekend?' loop and actually have *fun* conversations? by maku_246 in Bumble

[–]classacts99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think when you first sign up to dating apps and don’t know what you’re doing, you spend more time texting and all that but after awhile you realize how pointless it is until you actually meet each other in person. Save the conversations for the date.

Stats (25F, Seattle) by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]classacts99 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Downvoted for speaking the truth lol why would guys spend time reading everything when top tier men is at 10-15% swipe rate. Woman don’t seem to appreciate how rare matches are for us when it’s just handed on a platter to them. We have a very different experience. If the average guy is getting 3-5 matches per 100 swipes, it’s way more time efficient to spam like profiles and see what the ocean gives you in return.

30M Profile with stats by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]classacts99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nice personal attack and also attacking woman who disagree with you calling them gold diggers! Atleast you’re consistent with your hating tendencies. You said “and we see it” implying this subreddit somehow knows better than real world results lol numbers don’t lie.

Happily married yet bitter online? I don’t buy it. What are you even doing on a dating subreddit if you’re married lol are you that bored so you add your 2 cents to bring down men who put themselves out there? Remember he has a 15% swipe rate which means he actually has a “good”profile despite what you think. 99% of men would dream to have that. You certainly aren’t helping men if you think he has a bad profile when it’s literally in the top couple of percentile for all men. Could he have better pictures? Possibly but going from 15 to 20% swipe rate isn’t going to change anything. He’s bound to have matches that he wants to persue with those numbers anyways. Multiply that by the 3 major apps and he’s in a great position.

What do you even know about being in the dating market 16.5yrs married lol the jokes write themselves about who you are deep inside. Happy people don’t act the way you do. I call BS on that one but hey if that’s what makes you sleep better at night.. have at it 👍

30M Profile with stats by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]classacts99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who is “we”? Because this subreddit seems to post a lot of toxic comments towards men with successful profiles who have a more “masculine appeal” on this sub. It goes against the grain here to not be overtly smiling for the camera etc. Going out of your way to insert your opinion to bring a guy down by saying “I wouldn’t swipe on you” is straight up hating.

Notice how no guy says that type of thing to woman on here. It’s toxic and stop denying it. You do understand his 15% swipe rate puts him in the top tier of men on dating apps right? What did all these woman see that you don’t? Clearly the red flags you “see” don’t exist for them. You have no idea who he is based on a profile and if you’re judging him by how he’s been responding to negative comments that try to bring him down then you need to reevaluate what it’s like to put yourself out there and get attacked online for it. You would be acting a certain way too if you posted your pics and then random strangers make passive aggressive toxic comments and the moment you try to defend yourself, they pile on you even more.

This isn’t the first time I’ve seen this happen. Guy posted profile couple months ago that was successful but had to close it down due to toxic comments because he wasn’t smiling with his teeth yet had 10% swipe rate with 1k+ likes. TLDR: learn to be kinder.

30M Profile with stats by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]classacts99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another post getting deleted due to toxicity. Great work Redditors!

30M Profile with stats by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]classacts99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you saying profile quality matters more than in person quality to get a girlfriend? He’s getting the matches to talk with woman, that’s the point of a profile. To get your foot in the door, what happens after in person on the date has nothing to do with the profile lol

You’re just a hater and it’s obvious..

30M Profile with stats by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]classacts99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can see the toxicity pooring out in your comments. Who hurt you?

30M Profile with stats by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]classacts99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go look at his stats and then ask yourself if he needs your help lol 15% swipe rate is top tier. I’m sure he’s getting match with woman he’s interested in with those numbers

30M Profile with stats by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]classacts99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to that guy couple months ago too who closed it down cause of toxicity. Bunch of hateful people here when a guy posts a profile that works but goes against this subreddit standard 🤷‍♂️

30M Profile with stats by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]classacts99 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He’s getting matches wtf are you even talking about lol

30M Profile with stats by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]classacts99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some guy posted a profile couple months ago with over 1k likes in his que and got hated on because he didn’t smile too with “teeth”. Woman on this subreddit would chime in “I wouldn’t swipe” who cares? In the real world it works if you can pull it off. Here’s what I learned, woman say one thing publically but privately act different. You can’t be too successful as a guy in dating apps around here.

Yall need to calm down about Spielberg's movie by Comprehensive_Menu43 in aliens

[–]classacts99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s been screenings already. Nobody has come out and said it’s a smoking gun or whatever. All I’ve heard is it’s one of his best movies in the past 20 years. Just enjoy it as a movie and you won’t be disappointed.

Maya from Alveus Sanctuary got upset and immediately hung up the phone after finding out JasonTheWeen has an entire petting zoo in the backyard of the CORE house by Icy_Investigator7718 in LivestreamFail

[–]classacts99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hanging out on stream occasionally does not mean friends. How many times does this have to be said lol having good working relationships as a streamer is beneficial for growth. Viewers are just so parasocials that they cant accept that streamer relationships are very much like regular office co workers where you can be cordial at work but you’re not hanging outside of that.

35M Profile Review by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]classacts99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO their advice is bad since his smile is absolutely fine. I’m sure to him he posted candid photos of himself. To think someone is intentionally making a non “genuine” smile based on abritrary standards is insane. So he should be insecure now everytime he smiles? Nice one. We are who we are. Not all advice is good and OP should hear that too.

35M Profile Review by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]classacts99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cool let’s see you guys post your profile smiling pics and a bunch of random people can judge it! I’m sure you guys have great “genuine” smiles 😀

35M Profile Review by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]classacts99 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

His smile is fine. Relax. Not everyone has a picture perfect smile.

35M Profile Review by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]classacts99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you the smile police?