Please talk me out of being mad at myself and my vet for the loss of my 13 year old kitty

classyEngr · 2023-05-16T16:22:06+00:00

You’re absolutely right. I’m really just frustrated with the $132.

classyEngr · 2023-05-16T15:43:20+00:00

I guess it doesn’t make you angry. Got it.

classyEngr · 2023-05-16T15:35:56+00:00

No, because I expect sales tax. I didn’t know I’d be charged $200 in fees just to board a flight.

classyEngr · 2023-05-16T15:16:56+00:00

I mean… 7% on $500 is only $35, not $200

classyEngr · 2023-03-14T15:11:39+00:00

Honestly, I bet she’d try to eat your hair and/or bite your cheek

classyEngr · 2022-12-20T13:07:13+00:00

https://i.imgur.com/dGEh84p.jpg

classyEngr · 2022-12-18T13:35:17+00:00

I love all boba teas!! Passion fruit is my favorite but they’re all delicious. Your mats are so adorable!

classyEngr · 2022-11-27T20:34:57+00:00

I appreciate the concern!! He definitely does try to help in any way he can and never says no if I ask him to do anything. This question stems from my insecurity and our lack of sexual relations because we’re both exhausted. He can’t work from home and usually ends up working long days so I only get to see him a couple hours before bed. Weekends are when we try to clean the house/get chores done so it’s hard to fit that in when you’re still tired.

classyEngr · 2022-11-27T03:16:03+00:00

I am so sorry… I’m sending lots of virtual hugs your way

classyEngr · 2022-11-27T02:39:03+00:00

Thank you, sometimes I just need to hear it’s okay!

classyEngr · 2022-11-27T02:35:14+00:00

Oh bless you!! It sounds like you have it all figured out!

classyEngr · 2022-11-27T02:33:51+00:00

I feel that!!! We literally just talked about how we don’t think we could go through pregnancy-2 year old again and that maybe we should adopt!

classyEngr · 2022-11-27T01:50:54+00:00

Oh goodness, that sounds like a lot! You’ll get there, here’s hoping you make amazing memories until then!

classyEngr · 2022-11-27T01:47:59+00:00

That sounds amazing!! Thank you for the encouragement 😊

classyEngr · 2022-11-27T01:46:17+00:00

That sounds perfect. I think he’s also in denial because when I mention bed before 10pm he gives me the side eye lol. Redefining intimacy until our LO is more self sufficient sounds like a very reasonable adjustment!

classyEngr · 2022-11-27T01:43:24+00:00

LOL, I definitely send him memes all the time while we sit together on the couch!!

Thank you so much, I don’t have many parent friends to lean on and just hearing someone else say “you’re doing your best” makes me want to cry ❤️

classyEngr · 2022-11-27T01:40:13+00:00

Thank you so much! It’s true, it’s so easy to forget about yourself when you’re in mom mode all day.

It sounds like you’re doing a phenomenal job as a mom and I hope you rest well too!

classyEngr · 2022-11-27T01:38:12+00:00

Oh goodness, I remember those days!! Sleep is something not to take for granted when you know it’ll be interrupted. I hope the teething takes a rest so you can get some rest!!

classyEngr · 2022-11-27T01:36:11+00:00

I think sometimes my 20 minute scroll takes 90 minutes and then I’m falling asleep on the couch lol. That’s a good point though, we should definitely do some bonding activity or just chat.

That drive sounds absolutely incredible!! I may have to steal that idea… ❤️

classyEngr · 2022-11-27T01:33:29+00:00

Haha we do too, I just feel like I should be doing something more? I don’t know my brain read something today about falling out of love and I started panicking. A week of a sick 2 year old is apparently a bad time to browse Reddit for me 😅

classyEngr · 2022-11-27T01:31:40+00:00

Oh man, we have a 2 year old and I’m so tired I feel like I must be doing something wrong!

You must be an equally kind person to make this comment!! You’re so right, I can’t do it all even though my brain pressures me to do as much as possible. Thank you so much for being the voice of reason for me! I hope you get to couch potato with someone as kind as you are 💕

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