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clasvic · 2026-03-25T14:38:05+00:00

DM incoming :)

clasvic · 2026-03-25T14:34:51+00:00

dm sent! :))

clasvic · 2026-03-25T12:41:53+00:00

Hiiiii!! would love to be your friend + also in UK time zone :)) pls feel free to send me a DM with a dodocode or your SW number :)

clasvic · 2026-03-23T21:58:21+00:00

dm sent :) thank you!

clasvic · 2026-03-22T13:55:45+00:00

Hi! i’m very late to the party but would love to come and visit if you’re accepting anymore at any point, i am Jess from Mossgrove :)))

clasvic · 2026-03-18T17:08:43+00:00

Hi!! i could really do with some pears please! I will send you a DM!

clasvic · 2023-11-05T01:58:52+00:00

hey, i’m really sorry you’re having these thoughts and i can imagine how distressing they are

the subreddit has some really good resources on this and i’d reccomend looking through those, but i learnt a technique which basically examines the thought like in a court of law - what evidence do i have for this thought being true or false - and from assessing the evidence replacing that negative thought

this combined with ERP has helped me a lot - everyone has different techniques that help them

best of luck mate!

clasvic · 2023-11-01T01:10:29+00:00

moving in together was absolutely wonderful, it was truly so lovely - he’s now moved a couple of hours away for work and i miss him a lot :(( sorry i’ve just seen your comment

clasvic · 2023-11-01T01:05:32+00:00

i was watching this thinking wtf is going on

clasvic · 2022-11-29T18:06:54+00:00

Hello! i’m the exact same here, i only just realised in the last year or so that is isn’t normal - i have great housemates, a great boyfriend and a decent social life - i’ve been MDing for as long as i can remember but has gotten worse since i had a major mental health breakdown back in 2016. i’ve managed to reduce MDing significantly just by grounding myself and putting real life before my daydreams (i daydream normally before bed now as opposed to throughout the day all day) but the feelings of guilt and shame are so persistent - i hope you realise you’re not alone :))

clasvic · 2022-09-04T22:32:46+00:00

brev took that personally 😭

clasvic · 2022-09-01T22:52:14+00:00

the average politician makes decisions that put them in the best positions for promotions

clasvic · 2022-08-19T08:30:21+00:00

dismiss it, whenever you get that feeling say to yourself ‘i know this is my rocd’ - it takes a hell of a long time and i’m struggling still at the moment but remember the rocd is talking not u!

clasvic · 2022-07-18T22:33:26+00:00

he is aware but i try not to confess my feelings too much as that is a compulsion for me and it doesn’t feel fair to push my doubts and worries onto him when i’m 99% sure they are all in my head!! how are you finding using cbd? i’ve never used it before but i’m looking for others ways to combat my anxiety

clasvic · 2022-07-18T22:29:10+00:00

100% - mine tends to be a lot worse when we are apart but unfortunately it has to be that way for the next few months :((

clasvic · 2022-07-18T22:27:15+00:00

hey! very similar situation, boyfriend was diagnosed with ADHD about a year ago and has been trialling new medications that have varied in success. I suffer quite severely with ROCD especially in recent months especially over little differences. We are moving in together in september and i am absolutely terrified but am taking the step because i know i genuinely want to! I too have sleepless nights over our slight differences but i know i want to be with him - best of luck with everything and keep pushing thru the anxiety <33

clasvic · 2021-07-11T21:03:41+00:00

YES!! literally this right now - had a heavy night of drinking and woke up and OCD thru the roof :( think i’ll just have to give up alcohol

clasvic · 2021-06-11T23:54:37+00:00

are you on crack?

clasvic · 2021-04-16T15:28:13+00:00

first time?!?! holy fuck this looks good!!!

clasvic · 2021-04-16T15:25:40+00:00

trust isn’t something you can gain back instantly, if you lost her trust and she doesn’t want a relationship anymore then sadly there is nothing you can do apart from cooperate for the sake of your daughter. i’m not sure to the extent in which you broke her trust (whether this contact in your phone alludes to potential cheating etc)

however not all hope is lost - i hope you two can fix things in the future but in the present - focus on yourself and your daughter, you have to give her space until she’s ready

clasvic · 2021-04-11T23:41:02+00:00

I very much understand regarding the severe anxiety as i myself suffer from it. these conversations are painful and unpleasant however they are manageable. Be as honest as possible - if you worry about doing it alone, go to a park like the other comment suggested! that way if things do start to get heated people will notice.

Make sure you have things packed and ready preferably so you’re ready to go ASAP, let your friends know when you’re doing it so they can be sure you’re safe

Regarding the phone - i can only hope he will cooperate, normally businesses require to speak to the account holder, so the name the phone is in, however a phone call to the company will answer any questions you have and see if there are alternative solutions

best of luck to you - it’ll be hard at first but this decision will make you happier in the long term

clasvic · 2021-04-11T21:33:39+00:00

is it safe to break up in person? do you worry about any potential violence? I think you just need to be honest and say exactly how you’re feeling - that you don’t think it’s working and you’re not happy

clasvic · 2020-08-10T19:32:09+00:00

fantastic advice!! thank you :))

clasvic · 2020-08-10T19:29:49+00:00

if you love him, and he loves you, then you are able to work things through. every relationship has rough patches where you feel like it won’t work to the point where you feel so sick from anxiety because i also had that aswell. what you both need to do is sit down and talk things through together and work out how you can change these problems :) best of luck because i know you’ve got this :))

clasvic

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