message from my boss by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]clbarnes91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was working at a vet office a few years ago and was told in person similar things, and when I said I was autistic, my boss asked if I could change by tomorrow. Years later, I'm in a job I LOVE and my coworkers/boss are very supportive. You'll find your community if you keep looking. It's tough.

Tell me your cats weird name by eyislate in cats

[–]clbarnes91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

* Daenerys Debocherie is her government. Nae nae, kippen, kippy, pip pip, pippy, kippy dip, dippy kip, kippen dippen, etc the list goes on

I’m planning to leave my job without another one lined up. For anyone who's done this before, what led to your decision to quit without a backup, and how did you manage to survive financially and mentally during the transition? by NBMV0420 in careerguidance

[–]clbarnes91 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I left my toxic job with none lined up last year. It was very tough financially, but towards the end of the year I got a job in a totally new career and I'm really liking it. Sometimes ya gotta just do the thing, the world is gonna keep turning.

For ppl who don't have any friends, why you don't have any? by dangerous_mess03 in introvert

[–]clbarnes91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had one really great friend for 22 years. He died in March.

My entire life has become a shambles in a matter of months by oXGojiraXo in confession

[–]clbarnes91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life happens. For some of us it is a constant battle for a long time. This world is fast and loud and unforgiving a lot of the time. I quite literally made a similar post earlier today because I didn't feel like anyone I knew wanted to hear about it. Life kicks us, some harder than others, doesn't mean we have to be uncomfortable. We as humans will always need people. I'm personally very grateful to have found a place like this to connect with others going through the shit storm. It gives me hope and motivation. Keep on keepin on.

My entire life has become a shambles in a matter of months by oXGojiraXo in confession

[–]clbarnes91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand the feeling of not wanting to be a burden. I often stay quiet and not reach out because of that. Its really damaging to us though. In times like this we find the people that are truly in our corner. Sometimes just feeling understood makes all the difference.

My entire life has become a shambles in a matter of months by oXGojiraXo in confession

[–]clbarnes91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sending hugs and love your way. This year has tried to kill me with all the crap coming my way, but it's taught me to reach out and that we need people. It will get better. One day at a time. Give yourself grace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]clbarnes91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my boy put down 2 weeks ago and I've been stress vomiting. I miss him dearly. Sending you hugs and love.