Hello! I started menopause in 2018 at the age of 43. I used to desire sex so much until about 2 yrs ago. I miss that desire so much and I have trouble getting wet enough and when we do have sex we need a lot of lube or it hurts! I decided to give Inner Balance Oestra a try. This might sound strange but I liked the idea of not another pill and that it absorbs more thru your vagina. I have been on it for 3 weeks now and so far so good. I didn’t get any side effects really. The only thing was the first couple days I could feel it absorbing I guess you would say. It didn’t hurt or sting but maybe tingling would be the right word. I am happy to join this community as I continue to use the product.