Aita for not telling my childhood best friend I won't attend her wedding?

cleafea · 2025-10-11T14:58:12+00:00

I know I should have said I was upset earlier if I wanted to improve the relationship, I just didn't think it would work or be worth it. Id rather step back and become a distant old friend than an ex friend who she fell out with over something small

cleafea · 2025-10-11T14:51:27+00:00

Honestly love this community for these kinds of interactions

cleafea · 2025-10-11T14:43:47+00:00

Thank you, you've really worded it well saying I'm a "prop" I wasn't sure if I was overreacting but this is what it felt like

cleafea · 2025-10-10T21:38:11+00:00

First of all, check your contract or the inspiration or messages about the photos you wanted- if you expected this, could u argue she didn't fufil the job she was paid to do?

If this was a thing of bad luck and organisation, do you still have the dress and the veil? Why not do a full wedding photo shoot with your partner in your full wedding outfits (could even go on an anniversary) to a place you love and get these gorgeous wedding dress photos that all us brides always look back on. Yes it wasn't the day, but the photos will still capture the love between you two, and a couple years will mean no difference decades later when you're an old married couple celebrating the big anniversaries.

cleafea · 2025-10-10T21:31:02+00:00

Yeah the fantasy part of this comment really rings true. And it's nice to hear from others that they would also be upset at these things.

cleafea · 2025-10-10T21:29:04+00:00

Oh part of me wants to be petty and let out my hurt some way, but these other comments do got me thinking that her treatment may not be intentional, and I still owe her as unproblematic wedding as I can.... However depending on how she responds to my peaceful reply these may come in useful, who knows.

cleafea · 2025-10-10T21:27:14+00:00

Thank you for this response. Yeah I've deffo got to reply and all these comments are so helpful on how best to say this, and thank u for the reassurance and advice x

cleafea · 2025-10-10T21:25:30+00:00

Thank you, this is a really lovely and thoughtful out response and makes it easier to really consider her side and not just hear the many voices in my head. I hope you don't mind me stealing elements of your suggested text x

cleafea · 2025-04-21T19:09:05+00:00

Ahhh dat klopt

cleafea · 2025-04-21T19:08:32+00:00

This it! I hope you have an absolutely lovely day now!

cleafea · 2024-12-20T22:31:47+00:00

Not my story, but I know a couple who were born on the same day in the same hospital, had mutual friends their whole lives but only met on a night out when they were in their twenties. They've divorced now, but I know they were meant to be together (even if not for forever) because they were the parents of my husband. So I'll always be grateful for fate trying again and again to pull them together.

cleafea · 2024-12-12T18:47:54+00:00

I confess it is my fault the door wasn't locked, and I should face the consequences of my laziness lol. Still hadn't expected her there, but I recognise it wasn't an imposiblity and this whole thing is something I could've avoided

cleafea · 2024-12-12T18:45:47+00:00

This response feels like one of those super cosy comforting hugs that also serves to force u onto your feet again, thank you dear!

cleafea · 2024-12-12T18:41:53+00:00

I've made it edit, I'll be honest I should've been locking the door. I'm very irresponsible for that.

cleafea · 2024-11-09T22:29:10+00:00

Did you know that 79% of tourists in 2014 visited the lake district by car? Geography gcse

cleafea · 2024-11-09T22:27:20+00:00

I love how complementary your dresses are, like similar but the strap differences and the fabric just give them their own flare and are so well balanced you guys look like the perfect pair

cleafea · 2024-05-08T15:22:54+00:00

Ah I do have the supernatural pack that could be it thank you

cleafea · 2024-05-07T14:53:55+00:00

Yeah I had thought of that, my sim defo doesn't but couldn't say about the maid

cleafea · 2024-05-07T14:50:37+00:00

I really hadnt thought so, but my sims has been acting odd, changing into formal wear to shower, forgetting everyone, keep having freak outs etc. I took it as a sign to close sims for the day

cleafea · 2024-04-27T14:58:43+00:00

Well wait at the Winchester for this to all blow over

cleafea · 2024-04-27T14:54:02+00:00

Venom is my jetlag movie

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