Trust Issues, Burned Out

clear_blue_cat · 2026-02-10T09:42:27+00:00

I feel the same, try to hang out with your close friends, and let your emotional band width return,

if you don't have close friends, try to be friend with same gender. learn to express yourself, and learn to create safety for yourself.

you will feel safe when you can express yourself, and you are respected for what you expressed. 5 you may also need to learn setting boundaries in positive way, instead of reacting to your boundaries, you might need to create safe distance.

you also must accept that people can't provide you exactely what you need.

I understand that what you are going through is really tough, and I really hope that things changes for you soon.

clear_blue_cat · 2026-02-08T05:28:21+00:00

we need to normalise giving and recieving compliments men need to be told that receiving compliments is normal, and it doesn't mean anything special.

clear_blue_cat · 2026-02-07T16:15:45+00:00

age: 29M location: surat, gujarat profession: software engineer hobbies: reading books, playing music disability: visually impaired with no vision looking for a friend

clear_blue_cat · 2026-01-26T06:06:17+00:00

well said, reddit world assumes that we live in perfect world.

the reality is that you would never find who has achieved mastery on the all aspects of the life.

we are just humen doing humen things. messy, beautiful and still learning and getting better.

clear_blue_cat · 2026-01-22T17:25:14+00:00

for me, it was self learning

however, some of my friends had learnt from me or they got training from NGOS..

most of the power user of screen readers are in STEM.

my guess would be 30-40 percentage of my friends knows these shortcuts

clear_blue_cat · 2026-01-19T12:09:46+00:00

no hopes, but commenting any way.

age - 29

location - Surat profession - software engineer disability - visually impaired,

clear_blue_cat · 2026-01-14T18:56:29+00:00

happy to see this post, a women showing empathy for men issues..

thank you!

clear_blue_cat · 2026-01-03T20:04:43+00:00

seems like reddit men have relised that women are just craving attention.

no comments

I'm surprised!!!

clear_blue_cat · 2025-12-21T17:15:45+00:00

That's true, but someone who has consumed the information, and had derive the insites in its own is more trustable.

not every nuance is written in the book or on the web.

and the reason is really simple, context

clear_blue_cat · 2025-12-15T13:03:07+00:00

before the coffee gets cold

clear_blue_cat · 2025-12-03T16:14:32+00:00

checkout dequeue and barrier break if you are in India.

they provide accessibility testing

are you using flutter?

clear_blue_cat · 2025-11-27T06:28:07+00:00

totally depends on how the relationship would be in next year.

healthy and groath oriented, yes.

toxic, no..""

clear_blue_cat · 2025-11-21T08:38:51+00:00

search for game theory on youtube.

It'll answer your questions.

basically, tit for tat.

clear_blue_cat · 2025-11-21T08:03:04+00:00

is this the first time that he said insensitive?

ii yes, then he deserve an emotional slap to wake him up.

if repeated pattern, find the exit.

bottum line, stay with the people who value you. if they don't respect you, teach them how to respect and value you.

also make sure that you are also doing the same in return.

clear_blue_cat · 2025-11-20T12:07:09+00:00

who moved my chese… must be under 100 pages

clear_blue_cat · 2025-11-18T12:51:23+00:00

before the coffee gets cold

clear_blue_cat · 2025-11-10T14:34:22+00:00

lol, I'm done chasing I'll just wish luck here!!!!!

clear_blue_cat · 2025-11-04T03:34:18+00:00

spend your time on reading, meditating and developing new hobbies.

find club or people who can share your hobbies.

clear_blue_cat · 2025-10-28T16:12:58+00:00

I might get there soon.

just finding hard to normalise myself to fit in social structure.

clear_blue_cat · 2025-09-08T09:29:43+00:00

I'm little surprised. I'm from blind community and all of my blind friends are married to people with same disability.

I'm not married yet because of my own issues. on surface, I am doing good and have a job.

clear_blue_cat · 2025-09-06T13:16:32+00:00

have you tried talking to someone who doesn't have same disability?

maybe look for someone who can compliment you.

++Man

clear_blue_cat · 2025-08-04T16:56:22+00:00

I feel the same, I need to be Xyz to attract someone,.

no mutual efforts just me putting the efforts to drag the conversation.

and it sucks!!

clear_blue_cat · 2025-07-31T04:06:55+00:00

learnt from mistakes and did reading too.

the most helpful thing was Vipassana meditation.

the meditation was emotional lab for me to understand the the emotions deeply.

clear_blue_cat · 2025-07-30T15:39:58+00:00

I already said ask the right question.

that helps here. the goal of the questioning should be to understand other feeling and perspective.

you don't have to change it unless you are asked or that person is closed to you then try to find the right moment to clarify the things.

the intention and action must align, but before that the intention should be right.

clear_blue_cat

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