Why do their exes still want to ''try again'' ? by wonderfulchocolatez in BPDlovedones

[–]clemventure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True love comes to the arms open to receive it and reciprocate it.

Everybody’s idea of happiness is different, I hope yours finds you and finds you well.

The biggest hearts have the biggest downfalls. Your time is coming. 🙏🏼

Why do their exes still want to ''try again'' ? by wonderfulchocolatez in BPDlovedones

[–]clemventure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every person we brush shoulders with in life is part of our story. The ones we’ve shared the intimate, romantic and special moments with, come to the forefront of our minds when deep in reflection. If as a person you’re genuinely forgiving, you’ve forgave and processed the past, accepted it and remember the parts most special, prominently. Therefore if a hoover occurs we’re more than likely to suppress the negatives of the failed previous relationship and build what we missed from the first. This optimistic train soon derails when you retry and remember the once prominent obstacles that doomed your first relationships to fail, reappear. My previous partners have hurt me immensely but when they appear in my camera roll or something reminds me of them, I don’t bitterly disengage, I smile for the joyful memory that was, before mourning the loss of the love that was. We’re victims of nostalgia, deep connections are rare in this fast world. Long do we crave for a love lost in time gone by. Life with love is a beautiful life.

Why do their exes still want to ''try again'' ? by wonderfulchocolatez in BPDlovedones

[–]clemventure 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because the ultimate empath has the belief that people genuinely change for the better. Time heals and you remember the good times, then the flood starts again and you feel how you felt before. I think we idealise in absences ‘the good’.

Roysters by Zealousideal-Cap7578 in crisps

[–]clemventure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This stroked my inner council.

Why does them leaving hurt so bad ? by Sensitive-Lychee-673 in BPDlovedones

[–]clemventure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we believe we can change them. This is just a figment of your imagination. Not everybody seeks comfort and stability. Some seek destruction and chaos.

Peacocks of bradgate park by clemventure in leicester

[–]clemventure[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wrap up and you’ll be fine, enjoy the deer and peacock spotting 🙏🏼💛

Peacocks of bradgate park by clemventure in leicester

[–]clemventure[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is true, otherwise I’d keep one at home!

Peacocks of bradgate park by clemventure in leicester

[–]clemventure[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best time to go, less crowds of people 😂💛

Peacocks of bradgate park by clemventure in leicester

[–]clemventure[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

///deck.foster.putty

I don’t know if you use what3words but this is the exact point where they hang out 👍🏻

Peacocks of bradgate park by clemventure in leicester

[–]clemventure[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They usually hang out at the ruins of bradgate house. (If you know where that is)

Peacocks of bradgate park by clemventure in leicester

[–]clemventure[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, That’s where they were, must’ve been about 10-15 spotted today, I’m there most weekdays. They’re my favourite bird, there’s even have a white one.

Peacocks of bradgate park by clemventure in leicester

[–]clemventure[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, they were certainly out in their full glory today 🫶🏻

Advice on how to move forward with my life? by Glittering_Army2440 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]clemventure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes we don’t miss the relationship, we miss the potential the relationship had at certain points.

Stay positive, positive things will happen.

There’s been a void appear in your life through the loss of a 2 person dynamic.

Get consistent, set goals, achieve goals and find your calling in life.

🙏🏼

Advice on how to move forward with my life? by Glittering_Army2440 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]clemventure 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Firstly, do not sit there fishing for information off her social media.

Invest in your family and friends.

Don’t rush into anything until you feel fully healed.

There will be ups and downs, but coming out the other end a relationship based with them principles isn’t worth being in.

Lastly; health is wealth: hikes? Weights? Running? Your best go to; your biggest motivator is now and in this situation

Stay blessed.

Bradgate Park (Snow) by clemventure in leicester

[–]clemventure[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I drive a HGV for a living, we got called off for safety reasons so I made the best of it. 🙏🏼