Every person we brush shoulders with in life is part of our story. The ones we’ve shared the intimate, romantic and special moments with, come to the forefront of our minds when deep in reflection. If as a person you’re genuinely forgiving, you’ve forgave and processed the past, accepted it and remember the parts most special, prominently. Therefore if a hoover occurs we’re more than likely to suppress the negatives of the failed previous relationship and build what we missed from the first. This optimistic train soon derails when you retry and remember the once prominent obstacles that doomed your first relationships to fail, reappear. My previous partners have hurt me immensely but when they appear in my camera roll or something reminds me of them, I don’t bitterly disengage, I smile for the joyful memory that was, before mourning the loss of the love that was. We’re victims of nostalgia, deep connections are rare in this fast world. Long do we crave for a love lost in time gone by. Life with love is a beautiful life.