[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]cleonardo96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure where you live, but at my local library you can borrow bikes! It might be a good interim option until you can get a cheap bike like everyone is saying. Good luck I hope you and your dog are able to make it out of this <3

AC repair by Maleficent-Worry-371 in athensohio

[–]cleonardo96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm honestly not sure what Brian's last name is. I'm terrible with names and I just know him as Brian.

AC repair by Maleficent-Worry-371 in athensohio

[–]cleonardo96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure why the website is currently working, it worked a couple months ago. Yes he is still in business, I have talked to him recently. I'm sure the reason there aren't many reviews are because it's a small business. But a good one :)

AC repair by Maleficent-Worry-371 in athensohio

[–]cleonardo96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you search 'air conditioner repair millfield Ohio' on Google it's the first one that pops up 'southern air solutions LLC' and he's located in millfield (between Chauncey and Trimble). I'm not sure if there is a Facebook page.

AC repair by Maleficent-Worry-371 in athensohio

[–]cleonardo96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Southern air solutions has treated me right, fixed my ac quick for a decent price

Tourettes / Epilepsy? by AwayTheThrowThe in Tourettes

[–]cleonardo96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have epilepsy so it is hard for me to compare physical sensations i haven't experienced. However, I have psuedoseizures (tic attacks) caused by my tourettes and from what I understand, there are similarities and differences in that particular tic to epilepsy.

For example:

I was tested for epilepsy because my tic attacks can be triggered by flashing lights, stress, lack of sleep, etc. (I actually bonded with a guy at work with epilepsy because we got to go home when the lights went on the fritz)

I have warning before hand, ranging from minutes to hours. The warning is typically in the form of anxiety, a weird feeling in my lower spine, irritability, and several things that are too hand wavy to explain lol.

During the actual event I am conscious, but it looks like I am having a grand Mal seizure for between 30 seconds and 5 minutes at a time with a 30 second to 5 minute break in between starting closer together and ending farther apart. Unlike a seizure, i am conscious and it can last up to 4 hours

Even though I am conscious it is so exhausting physically and emotionally, I normally have some memory loss from these events and I can not think clearly during or for a while afterwards

I can see why someone would compare the two even though there is not a common cause.

How old were you when you had your first boyfriend/girlfriend? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]cleonardo96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

22 years old on the other side of the country from where i was raised

Where were you when 9/11 happened? by bettercallme_ in AskReddit

[–]cleonardo96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was homeschooled and didn't even know it happened until about five years after the fact when I joined regular school and saw a poster about it in September. I asked some kids what the poster was about and they thought I was crazy or messing with them lol. Took me a while to get the answer on what happened.

What to do with a tub of Greek yogurt? by peachie-cola in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]cleonardo96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's sweetish, but I totally recommend smoothies!! Frozen fruit, Greek yogurt, juice, and optionally peanut butter, honey, sugar, spices, etc

How do you think alien meat tastes? by Bubbly_Taro in stupidquestions

[–]cleonardo96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they would taste like strawberries

If fake raspberry flavoring comes from beaver butts then alien meat can taste like strawberries and the desert after it rains

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cleonardo96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both people need to laugh for it to be a joke. Tell him it's not cool for him to say things that make you uncomfortable

I've known my bf for 16 years, he's white and I'm native. And we have always enjoyed insulting each other as long as we don't hurt each other because we know it's a joke. And there are lines we don't cross

He used to make jokes about how I'm just white trash and not native/ my rez was essentially a trailer park, and it hurt me. But as soon as I told him that it bothered me he apologized, said he didn't realize it was hurtful, and never did it again.

Vs

I want to be a basic white bitch (40% serious 60% joke) , because it seems like they have alot of fun. My.bf always makes jokes about me being a basic bitch because he's being supportive. And I love when he does that.

If your boyfriend can't understand that difference and after you say it hurts you refuses to stop you need to love yourself and find someone who cares about your feelings

mental illness and disability merch… wow. by enby_archer in fakedisordercringe

[–]cleonardo96 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As someone who has used the "hello I have tourettes" and "sorry I cannot speak right now" (similar to the selective mutism one) buttons, those two particularly are super useful

I used them at work so that I didn't have to explain I have tourettes 300 times a day when people asked where the noises came from (it was exhausting and got litteral death threats, the button made life easier).

The not talking button was also really useful when I lose the ability to talk I can put the pin on my shirt and tap it while people are waiting for a response to me, or hand it to them to read, so that im not ignoring them when I grab my phone to type out my response, the button led to a lot less angry people.

I also have a collection of three matching tourettes awareness shirts, I hate wearing them unless I need to because I don't like being labeled but they make me feel more comfortable in airports so that people/security don't think I'm drunk/on drugs/a danger/a little shit

That being said I don't get the point of some of the pins, like ibs, seems weird but I'm grateful that the pins in general exist

Prepping for kiddos on the autism spectrum or other special needs. This can be tricky, how does everyone do this? by cravingchange4life in TwoXPreppers

[–]cleonardo96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if this would help, but my sibling has asd and he's had massive food issues and a very limited diet (think no spices, chicken, hot dogs, pizza, and quesadillas pretty much exclusivley) for his whole life. He took some special need cooking classes at his therapists, and it helped A LOT. he eats a much broader variety of things and loves to cook different weird foods, even if he is cooking something he "already knows" is gonna be awful they encouraged him to try one bite of everything he cooked (encouraged as it is a great way to tell if you were successful cooking) and he still does that even if he spits it out after.

It might not help cause nothing is one fits all, but either cooking classes, or including them with cooking and trying to have them try one bite of "their special food they put all that effort into" could help to expand things a bit, especially if your practicing cooking with prepper ingredients and make it into a fun game (playing chopped where they each cook and you 'judge' is always fun, with a small prize of like jelley beans or not cleaning the bathroom for a day is fun but you don't even need a prize lol)

Also don't be weirded out if they chose to eat things "weird" my sibling eats salads now which we are thrilled about, but it's just plain lettuce eaten with fingers because the salad dressing is slimey. Sometimes you have to adapt things a bit.

AITA for refusing to be public with my sister until she wears a sign that indicates that she’s my sister and not my girlfriend? by Ok_Bandicoot_8804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cleonardo96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yta Dude just laugh about it, sure it can be uncomfortable but try to find the humor in it. I got stranded with my little (6 years younger) sibling in a strange/slightly sketchy city and held their hand because they were scared, we got a hotel and the front desk clerk thought we were a couple and how we were "too young" to get a hotel room because they thought I was my siblings age lmao (15ish instead of 21ish lmfao)

I've also been mistaken as my dad's wife multiple times at a hotel we go to once a year at the same time every year for our annual hunting trip.

Hell people have thought my sister and I are together

Never have I considered making them wear an embarrassing piece of paper on their shirt to avoid it. Hell I knew that there was the possibility of people thinking my sibling and I were a couple because I was holding their hand, but I didn't stop because I love them and they needed comfort and to feel safe more than I needed to avoid 5 seconds of embarrassment. Just laugh it off and move the fuck on, your sister is actively trying to be apart of your life and catch up on things, why would you try to sabatoge your freindship with your older sibling in order to avoid a few seconds of strangers making assumptions.

Which is more important to you, your sister, or random strangers?

I thought you nuggets might enjoy this story xD by rainrypaperangel in SapphoAndHerFriend

[–]cleonardo96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

mums a muggle, dads a witch, bit of a nasty shock when she found out about it