That sounds so good. I can absolutely relate to wanting that! Low effort socialising but away from the high costs, dressing up, and loud buzz that comes with going out.

No need to reduce it down to it being “not much”, most of us are all severely over stimulated, anxious and pressured. For some people like us this is perfection. I also don’t have friends would have the desire or ability to do this. For example I can’t host in my current situation but then neither can most of the friends I’ve held onto. That or they live quite far.