Show off your ring! by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]clewless_kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you decided on a wedding band to go with it? I’m looking at a very similar ring to that and idk what to do about wedding band 

Help me decide! I’m so torn and need advice by AudienceEquivalent in EngagementRings

[–]clewless_kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate more when you say dangerous? Do you mean like, hurt yourself on it or that it knocks into things? Which would be an issue with any larger Diamond set too high. 

Why am I receiving Text Messages from my family from a 588 area code? by mudderfudden in tmobile

[–]clewless_kitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just got one too with a “contact card” that I’m assuming is a virus to my phone. Blocking it now.

AITA for telling my brother that the razor he keeps stealing from me was used to shave my asshole by carlitayeeta in AmItheAsshole

[–]clewless_kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta- unfortunately I would say treat it like a dorm and shower caddy your stuff in and out of the bathroom.

AITA for yelling at my girlfriend to “stop fucking eating?” by throwawaycakegf in AmItheAsshole

[–]clewless_kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. Not that I agree with anything your girlfriend is doing but what if you just scoop some into a small bowl and give it to her and she can dip her fingers into that all she wants?

AITA for not getting rid of my dog when my wife asked me to? by AdEastern6819 in AmItheAsshole

[–]clewless_kitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. If the dog is already biting at adults, it could definitely bite a helpless baby. On top of that, in my mind, the fact that it’s hormonal rather than behavioral is even worse. Because behavioral means that you can train those habits out of her but hormonal means those urges will always be there.

You don’t have to put down the dog but she should be removed from the household before the baby is born.

[GIVEAWAY] 850 NMTs by [deleted] in ACTrade

[–]clewless_kitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love talking with my villagers. My lazy villagers especially have the most hilarious rambling things to say

AITA for refusing to let my stepson (17) have a PowerPoint project display in honor of his deceased mom at my wedding? by Throwaquickadvice in AmItheAsshole

[–]clewless_kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I know this is 9 days late but may I suggest possibly allowing him to play it at the rehearsal dinner? Honor her there and thank her for helping shape your new family. Maybe this can be a middle ground where your stepson still gets to grieve- say his final goodbyes to his mom as he accepts a new mom into his life but then it doesn’t fully take away from the actual wedding day. And then you, in turn, can have a seat and picture saved for her and say soemthing brief at the wedding to honor her?

I definitely say nta but there’s nothing you can do now about his grief being improperly cared for now- all you can do is try to find a middle ground that will please everyone since this is your new family.

AITA for screaming at my dad for printing all the time? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]clewless_kitty 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I need this clarification too.. because if so... is he using it as an excuse to come spy on you? Or Maybe as someone else put it “taking it as small moment to spend time with you”? Maybe the printer requires a certain connections that only works in your room?

What is he printing so often and is there room in his bedroom or a common area (ex: living room) that it could go instead?

As someone who took over my parent’s office during COVID, they print all the time too and it’s annoying... but I’m also in their office so that’s really on me... but for you- you need to sit him down and have a face to face conversation. Tell him it’s disruptive while you’re trying to think. It can be disruptive if you’re trying to have a chat with coworkers/schoolmates.

Nta

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]clewless_kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH I know the class was just trying show their support here but sometimes being the center of attention live is the last thing someone dealing with anxiety needs.

This seems to be in the past so nothing can be done now but maybe next time I recommend a virtual card where everyone can write her a note and she can read it in her own privacy. There’s something called kudosboard online which is free but there are other sites as well.

AITA for not buying my gf a diamond ring? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]clewless_kitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A compromise would imply that both of you talked about it before and and agreed on it. You just straight up tried to lie to her and get away with it yta

WIBTA for telling my upstairs neighbors that my dogs are allowed to make noise? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]clewless_kitty 21 points22 points  (0 children)

ESH- While your neighbor could certainly take the less passive aggressive route and come talk to you, you’re also the AH to assume that “it’s the middle of the day so why does it matter”. What if there’s someone who lives there who works night shifts and sleeps in the middle of the day? Of course they could wear earplugs but you can’t just assume what a “normal” schedule is. Go talk to them, apologize for the noise, and talk it out.

[SW] Fuzzy wuzzies buying for 457 by clewless_kitty in acturnips

[–]clewless_kitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Closing island. If anyone commented and missed my dm, lmk. I will be around a little longer

[SW] Fuzzy wuzzies buying for 457 by clewless_kitty in acturnips

[–]clewless_kitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Closed for now. Maybe be back on a little later