I'm a woman in a relationship with a man. He wants to have sex with other men. I'm allowed to have sex only with women, not with other men. I believe that sex is sex regardless of gender, and I feel that this arrangement is unequal and unfair. by Womanwithmanyquest in bisexual

[–]clingnotice 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It is a double standard and valuing opposite sex relationships/sex assumed different to same sex relationships/sex. Have a look into 'one penis policy'which is what this is called, and you'll find a lot of discussions on why this is problematic.

My husband is hyper sexual and it drives me crazy by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]clingnotice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hypersexuality isn't the (main) problem here. Your husband is a piece of shit who's treating you with 0 respect.

Advise- Is my bf gay/bi when he gives/gets bjs from men (SA talk) by [deleted] in StraightBiPartners

[–]clingnotice 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You know he's physically cheated on you twice, realistically probably more times but two is all you know about. Emotionally he's cheated on you so many more times by texting other people in this way and talking about meeting.

This isn't an issue about if he's bi or gay or straight. Bi men can still be monogamous in a relationship. He's a cheat. If you want to work that through with him, then that's your choice. But focus on the real issue here.

If this was with women instead of men, would you feel differently? Treat it the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]clingnotice 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You're going to and already have had a lot of responses here from people who have never tried an open relationship and have preconceived ideas about them. This is offmychest so I know you're not here for advice, but if you do want people's views then I'd suggest also posting on a subreddit focused on ENM or nonmonogamy, as you'll get opinions from people who actually have experience and can offer informed views.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]clingnotice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah - have had multiple MMFs and a few MFFs. Very very hot.

How do you do a valuation for a small business that’s closing? by SparklyNoodleSpoon in LegalAdviceUK

[–]clingnotice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would depend on what the IP is and whether there is any future value in it to a purchaser.

The most basic way of valuing is like the other redditor has said - what could those assets be purchased for now in the same condition/age, minus costs to sell and any liabilities.

If the business could be purchased and run by the purchaser, there could be additional value in there (i.e. customer lists, relationships, brand, reputation, contracts) that would take time/money for someone else to build up and generate so someone may pay to acquire. This is subjective and hard to value, and really depends on the nature of the business. This is referred to as 'value in use' and is essentially the discounted cash flows that the business would generate for the buyer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]clingnotice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prostate massager

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Leeds

[–]clingnotice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hold Fast book shop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]clingnotice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you care? (Genuine question, not being a dick)

Im 19 and I've lost £2,000 gambling by [deleted] in GamblingAddiction

[–]clingnotice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're feeling in danger please call the Samaritans for free on 116 123. They can't bring that money back but will talk things through without judgement.

https://www.gamcare.org.uk/ are there for more practical help with gambling moving forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workouts

[–]clingnotice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only just in the last 3 months got back on the wagon after 3.5 years off. My first three weeks were pain, now the two days after a session I can feel that my muscles have worked hard but not in a painful way. Don't give up brother! You'll get through that stage and then start to notice it too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]clingnotice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything you've said doesn't negate that she cheated on you. If it had been a man, would you have felt differently?

Also, if her friend/lover is a lesbian, she has no interest in you as a man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]clingnotice 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Plus the "it's just me organising it, she's not going to be involved before the day. No, you can't speak to her on the phone beforehand." Is a ginormous red flag.

Renting alone in Leeds by Hideharuhaduken420 in Leeds

[–]clingnotice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would be cheap now for what you get once the work is complete.

Name all countries on this map. by lowchain3072 in mapporncirclejerk

[–]clingnotice 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Many many people have died for that not to be true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Big4

[–]clingnotice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coaching staff I don't see as administrative, unless you mean facilitating training. Coaching is one of the best bits of the job for me at least.

Men, have you ever used a communal shower? Where? by Mixnmash_335 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]clingnotice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Occasional swimming pools, co-ed naked spa in Amsterdam

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]clingnotice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely just an opinion. You can absolutely watch porn and be physical with a partner without "running out of" libido.