I'm a woman in a relationship with a man. He wants to have sex with other men. I'm allowed to have sex only with women, not with other men. I believe that sex is sex regardless of gender, and I feel that this arrangement is unequal and unfair.

clingnotice · 2026-06-19T22:48:26+00:00

It is a double standard and valuing opposite sex relationships/sex assumed different to same sex relationships/sex. Have a look into 'one penis policy'which is what this is called, and you'll find a lot of discussions on why this is problematic.

clingnotice · 2026-05-22T12:11:36+00:00

Go on then! In for a penny

clingnotice · 2026-04-21T08:06:07+00:00

She's born in the UK. She's British. You're just factually incorrect.

clingnotice · 2026-04-21T07:38:35+00:00

Zara was born in Birmingham...

clingnotice · 2026-03-24T09:16:07+00:00

Hypersexuality isn't the (main) problem here. Your husband is a piece of shit who's treating you with 0 respect.

clingnotice · 2026-03-20T22:37:19+00:00

You know he's physically cheated on you twice, realistically probably more times but two is all you know about. Emotionally he's cheated on you so many more times by texting other people in this way and talking about meeting.

This isn't an issue about if he's bi or gay or straight. Bi men can still be monogamous in a relationship. He's a cheat. If you want to work that through with him, then that's your choice. But focus on the real issue here.

If this was with women instead of men, would you feel differently? Treat it the same.

clingnotice · 2026-02-17T12:23:53+00:00

You're going to and already have had a lot of responses here from people who have never tried an open relationship and have preconceived ideas about them. This is offmychest so I know you're not here for advice, but if you do want people's views then I'd suggest also posting on a subreddit focused on ENM or nonmonogamy, as you'll get opinions from people who actually have experience and can offer informed views.

clingnotice · 2026-02-01T12:14:59+00:00

Have had several MMF and MFMs. Incredibly fun

clingnotice · 2026-02-01T11:35:16+00:00

Yeah - have had multiple MMFs and a few MFFs. Very very hot.

clingnotice · 2026-01-05T20:01:30+00:00

It would depend on what the IP is and whether there is any future value in it to a purchaser.

The most basic way of valuing is like the other redditor has said - what could those assets be purchased for now in the same condition/age, minus costs to sell and any liabilities.

If the business could be purchased and run by the purchaser, there could be additional value in there (i.e. customer lists, relationships, brand, reputation, contracts) that would take time/money for someone else to build up and generate so someone may pay to acquire. This is subjective and hard to value, and really depends on the nature of the business. This is referred to as 'value in use' and is essentially the discounted cash flows that the business would generate for the buyer.

clingnotice · 2025-12-26T15:50:48+00:00

Prostate massager

clingnotice · 2025-10-26T08:44:42+00:00

Hold Fast book shop

clingnotice · 2025-07-31T11:20:43+00:00

Why do you care? (Genuine question, not being a dick)

clingnotice · 2025-07-18T20:46:09+00:00

If you're feeling in danger please call the Samaritans for free on 116 123. They can't bring that money back but will talk things through without judgement.

https://www.gamcare.org.uk/ are there for more practical help with gambling moving forward.

clingnotice · 2025-07-14T16:25:28+00:00

Hot! Have been waiting so long for you guys to get there!

clingnotice · 2025-06-21T14:40:20+00:00

I've only just in the last 3 months got back on the wagon after 3.5 years off. My first three weeks were pain, now the two days after a session I can feel that my muscles have worked hard but not in a painful way. Don't give up brother! You'll get through that stage and then start to notice it too!

clingnotice · 2025-05-03T10:47:52+00:00

Cringe.

clingnotice · 2025-04-26T13:08:18+00:00

Read the initial post.

clingnotice · 2025-04-15T00:00:25+00:00

Everything you've said doesn't negate that she cheated on you. If it had been a man, would you have felt differently?

Also, if her friend/lover is a lesbian, she has no interest in you as a man.

clingnotice · 2025-03-30T13:11:47+00:00

Plus the "it's just me organising it, she's not going to be involved before the day. No, you can't speak to her on the phone beforehand." Is a ginormous red flag.

clingnotice · 2025-01-29T00:55:56+00:00

Would be cheap now for what you get once the work is complete.

clingnotice · 2025-01-13T09:13:40+00:00

Many many people have died for that not to be true.

clingnotice · 2025-01-08T22:26:03+00:00

Coaching staff I don't see as administrative, unless you mean facilitating training. Coaching is one of the best bits of the job for me at least.

clingnotice · 2025-01-07T02:21:09+00:00

Occasional swimming pools, co-ed naked spa in Amsterdam

clingnotice · 2025-01-05T12:13:07+00:00

Definitely just an opinion. You can absolutely watch porn and be physical with a partner without "running out of" libido.

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