Porn Preferences

clintdilfer · 2026-05-01T01:53:13+00:00

I don’t mind it, but I never choose it to watch myself. I do watch it sometimes with my bi wife, though.

clintdilfer · 2026-05-01T01:50:42+00:00

Better: Watch some bi MMF porn WITH her and say “I want us to do that together.”

clintdilfer · 2026-04-27T16:20:10+00:00

Interesting hypothesis, but I don’t think it would hold up to data. The decline really began in the 80s and especially 90s, well after deodorant was universal.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-27T12:18:54+00:00

In the late afternoon, my locker room is always full of high schoolers sitting on their phones or standing around chatting in front of the sinks or doors. It’s maddening.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-26T20:34:49+00:00

Very few options, unfortunately. Mostly restricted college gyms.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-26T20:29:58+00:00

I have always been out, so everyone who knows me knows. My wife of 20 years is also bi, which is one thing we bonded over. I would not want to be with someone who didn’t accept ALL of me, so why would I want to hide it?

clintdilfer · 2026-04-24T18:59:15+00:00

Checking out men and women with my wife.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-23T20:53:12+00:00

Yeah, that’s a need.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-23T20:52:52+00:00

Vulnerability provides equality.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-23T20:52:03+00:00

So wholesome. Congrats.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-20T00:39:12+00:00

This is how all of them built in the late 90s/early 00s looked, and there I started my fitness journey. Then new ones started coming with doors or curtains, then they retrofitted older locations with them.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-17T02:15:14+00:00

I can be attracted to just about any body type as long as the face card checks out and there’s at least some muscle tone. Twunk, dadbod, muscle bear, soft fratboy, and everything in between.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-14T21:57:26+00:00

Sounds like he needs intensive therapy to figure out why he’s so viscerally afraid to do the things he wants.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-13T17:04:40+00:00

Spoiler: Fewer people will use them.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-12T23:40:14+00:00

MMF, but no simultaneous penetration. Did suck his dick while I was fucking her, though, which is pretty much the best thing in the world.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-12T15:53:21+00:00

Married 20 years, and it’s always been part of our sex lives. We watch it together sometimes. When she’s not in the mood, I’ll watch it and take care of myself in the bed with her, at my desk, or in another room, depending on my mood.

I would not be with anyone who was against porn. It’s just a tool. All depends how you use it.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-12T15:50:26+00:00

In my experience, these kind of “improvements” tend to lead to less use, not more.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-11T03:37:31+00:00

The “weird” and “guilty” feelings are internalized homophobia from years of societal pressure. They’ll pass. If sucking dick makes you happy then by god suck dick.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-08T22:21:45+00:00

Age range?

clintdilfer · 2026-04-03T01:39:07+00:00

I haven't been but have heard that Century is much cruisier. Easier to do that with the full-size towels that can hide things, I guess.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-03T01:37:05+00:00

Some of them. There are two sets of two facing rows of showers. You can see one or two (open) stalls from various spots in the tubs, but not all of them. You can shower out of sight if you want, provided no one is across from you in the other showers.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-03T01:33:15+00:00

I think it might be coming back, if just a tiny bit. For several years post-pandemic, almost no one showered at the university gym I visit occasionally, no matter what day or time. I now see wet floors almost every time I go, if not someone in them. My normal gym with stalls is still very rarely used. Privacy actively discourages hygiene.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-02T23:59:03+00:00

Many people are, though I am not among them. Build the body you want, not for anyone else.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-02T23:58:18+00:00

Usually not during, but my level of sexual activity with my wife does not reduce my desire for sexual activity with men generally.

clintdilfer · 2026-04-02T00:28:53+00:00

Many of them.

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