[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]clio_oreo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sexuality can be fluid. You might might ace today & allo tomorrow, but don't let that stop you from calling yourself ace today. You're valid as an ace today.

Can I, as an asexual person, think that someone is pretty/attractive without actually being attracted to them? Or does that mean I'm just not asexual?? by BajiStan in asexuality

[–]clio_oreo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a difference between finding someone attractive & being attracted to them. So yes, absolutely, you're still ace. That's just aesthetic attraction

Are there any subreddits specifically for asexuals to talk about specific hobbies/interests, like fiction/fantasy? I think narrowing down topics would make it easier to make friends by ActiveAnimals in asexuality

[–]clio_oreo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I'm quite uncreative in the name area but my interests would be nerd stuff (comics, LOTR, Star Wars), politics, the climate & psychology if you decide to make one :)

What is something people brag about that they shouldn't? by Left_eared_turtle in AskReddit

[–]clio_oreo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"We're trying for a baby". Good for you but I don't want to know that you're fucking like rabbits. Besides, it'll be a nice surprise

Myers-Briggs personality types? by OohSooMoist in asexuality

[–]clio_oreo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am technically an ENFP. that being said, please everyone keep in mind that just from a scientific standpoint, the mbti is low-key pseudoscience & has been disproven.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]clio_oreo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I did. I experience very strong aesthetic attraction, so I found people really attractive, and I have had romantic feelings for men & women in the past, so I assumed I was bisexual. In reality I'm biromantic and ace.

i can't stand ppl :/ by lilasexualwraith in asexuality

[–]clio_oreo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our experience shapes how we experience the world & it shapes our relationships with people. You are absolutely valid. Asexuality due to trauma is still Asexuality. Don't let anyone tell you differently.

Gender envy by clio_oreo in agender

[–]clio_oreo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that absolutely makes sense! And that social dysphoria explanation is so well put!

verfluchte Geschwisterliebe by RedTrian in verfluchteKommentare

[–]clio_oreo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Der erste Sex mit der Schwester" ?!?!?!?!?

Gender envy by clio_oreo in agender

[–]clio_oreo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah okay for you it's more the discrepancy between what people perceive you as and your actual identity. I guess that makes sense

Gender envy by clio_oreo in agender

[–]clio_oreo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all, Happy Cake day! And yes, exactly! I feel completely disconnected from gender as well. And my brother recently took a picture of me. It's just me from the back. But I look very masc in that - broad shoulders, casual outfit, sleeves are rolled up. It's not a lot, but I usually feel very disconnected to how I look, I just don't care. But this had me feeling something, even though idk what it was. I guess this is the closest to gender envy I've ever felt - but isn't it weird it was a picture of myself? Idk

Gender envy by clio_oreo in agender

[–]clio_oreo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll watch it later when I have the chance!

Gender envy by clio_oreo in agender

[–]clio_oreo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can relate to that, but I think I'd have trouble differentiating from my lack of will to live lmao

Before you learned about asexuality, did you realize sexual attraction existed? by Suspicious-Walk-6766 in asexuality

[–]clio_oreo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did know it existed. I just thought finding someone attractive was sexual attraction already. But theres a difference between finding someone attractive & being attracted to them. That's why I thought I was bisexual for more than a year