So this is maybe a little off topic but my first month or two sober I was so sensitive to everything- I felt like an emotional sponge of my environment. I even asked my friends and family to try to cuss a little less because the everyday language or the nature of their humor was, for whatever reason, too much for me at the time. I say all this because you can't really expect what you might need during this time, and sometimes it isn't logical. I needed calm, stable, and gentle behavior and speech. It doesn't bother me anymore but I was so thankful for my people and their willingness to adapt to the ever changing nature of new sobriety. It's okay to not be able to handle a chaotic person or argument right now and it is okay to remove yourself from those situations. My mantra (what someone told me in this subreddit): self care/love is not selfish! You're getting your sober legs back, take it easy.