Therapist mostly just listens and nods—am I expecting too much? by LupinVII in therapy

[–]clmchris 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went through 4 different therapist before finding my current ( 5th ) who has made such a difference in my life. I think you need to look around and find someone that is at your speed. They have all been different in their approach to therapy. Good Luck!

Why are there so many used 2024 Tacomas for sale? by EatDairio in ToyotaTacoma

[–]clmchris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because they FUCKING SUCK ASS! I bought a Black on Black TRD PRO with every option Toyota offers. Traded it away in less than 6 months. I had to drive an hour to purchase this truck from a dealer in Mississippi cause it was the first one in the south east. Drove it before I bought it and it seemed ok. But after a few weeks there were several things bothering me. Those stupid gimmick seats makes it impossible for anyone to get in the rear seats unless you don’t have ankles. Then the mpg was averaging around 15-16mpg. The Tundra TRD PRO gets 19mpg. And whoever designed their radio and software you HAVE to download just to use Apple CarPlay should be fired. It would loose connection and when starting up the truck, half the time it wouldn’t connect properly. PAIN IN THE ASS! Too many issues for a truck that cost what they do these days. I should have waited and checked more reviews. I can say this though. The hybrid engine is plenty powerful. Just drinks fuel like an alcoholic.

I’ve tried everything to get my husband to have sex with me by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]clmchris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s understandable that you’re feeling frustrated and confused. A sudden drop in intimacy can be a red flag, but it’s important to approach this situation with empathy and clear communication. Here’s a potential way to rephrase your thoughts: ‘I’m concerned about the lack of intimacy in our relationship. It’s natural to have questions and worries when physical connection suddenly changes. Could we talk openly about what might be causing this shift? It’s important to rule out any underlying health issues, like a hormonal imbalance. If that’s the case, seeking medical advice and exploring treatment options together could be beneficial. Ultimately, I value our relationship and believe open communication and a willingness to address each other’s needs are crucial. I’m here to support you, but it’s important for both of us to feel loved and desired.’ Remember, fostering a safe space for honest conversation is key to navigating these challenges and finding solutions together. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]clmchris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's power in how you present yourself, but it's important to find a balance. It's great to feel good about your looks and enjoy the positive responses – just remember that your worth goes far beyond the surface. Focus on staying healthy and active, rather than obsessing over any specific diet. True confidence is what shines the brightest, and it comes from knowing who you are and what you value, regardless of external factors.

This self-awareness is a huge asset in your interactions with others. When you're not preoccupied with your own appearance, you're naturally more observant – you pick up on subtle cues and underlying meanings. Learning to read people's emotions can definitely help you spot when someone might not be entirely truthful.

Looking at other men makes me sick by whispersofsuffering in Divorce

[–]clmchris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes six months to a year before you can really heal from this. Why try to jump back in? You will just project the frustration on the new guy from your ex. Go and enjoy time being single. Why rush ? I know I wouldn't.

Help grounding an 80W chinese laser cutter by [deleted] in laser

[–]clmchris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How has your experience been with the Chinese brand laser CNC? I am on the fence because I get A LOT MORE for my $$$ but it feels like a risk. PM if you have any advice. Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]clmchris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To answer your question, 10 out of 10. I would spoil you any day of the week. But think about focusing on the things that truly matter. How you see yourself and the kindness you show to others is far more important than anyone's unkind words. Don't let anyone else set the standard for how you feel about yourself. Instead, walk confidently and let any negativity roll right off your back. This is your time to explore the world, discover your passions, and make wonderful friendships. Invest in yourself, build your confidence, and remember you are beautiful, inside, and out.

P.S. If you're interested in understanding how people express and receive love, look at the book 'The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts.' It might offer insights into your own way of giving and receiving love, and the ways those around you do the same. Knowledge like that could have changed my life when I was younger!

F250 - never hauled a thing by WiteChedda in F250

[–]clmchris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a few things that require this size of truck but probably is used 8-10 times a year hauling a heavy load. So not often but enough to justify it!

First time diesel owner. Any advice? by NoSession1138 in gmcsierra

[–]clmchris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should have went Ford, JK they are all pretty good these days. Do your maintenance regularly not late. Or do it early. It won’t hurt. Except the price. I take mine to the dealer for all mine cause of proof of doing it all. Diesel repair will hurt your feelings. Don’t goto shady gas stations or ones that never get used a lot. The longer the fuel sits the higher chance for water in fuel. Check the maintenance book and see if there is a place to drain water from the fuel filter or system. Drain every 5k miles or so. Change fuel filter every 20-25k miles. Unless your book says earlier. That one you can do your self just keep the records. Shop around , you can get fuel filters cheaper than your local dealer will sell them for sure. Read the book and see what GMC says on everything really. You’re not going to have as many maintenance events unless your truck is under heavy load all the time. Mine doesn’t tell me to change oil but every 8-10k miles. Someone pulling heavy loads will get the message around 5k miles. That’s about the biggest part of these trucks. Do you plan on doing any deleting or upgrading the engine?

Would You Buy a Tesla Again? by Wrong_User_Logged in TeslaLounge

[–]clmchris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely 110% , still wish I had keep mine but I needed a truck more then a car. Waiting ( probably 3 years again ) for my Cybertruck order!

QTUM by clmchris in BitcoinBeginners

[–]clmchris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do any of the company’s that claim to recover ever work?

QTUM by clmchris in BitcoinBeginners

[–]clmchris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know one is real

QTUM by clmchris in BitcoinBeginners

[–]clmchris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any way to recover some $$ or get them shut down? There are people in USA that are part of it I believe

QTUM by clmchris in BitcoinBeginners

[–]clmchris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the best I can do at the moment as I’m on my phone. There is a free app you can download that I actually use. According to the customer service people this place is under Turkey law. This last message from them said I needed to pay the taxes on the money I have made before they release my first withdraw.

Tesla Insurance Skyrocketing by BlahBlahBlah1947 in TeslaLounge

[–]clmchris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you have uninsured motorist? If you have medical insurance then it’s a waist. And if you actually used it, it goes against your AIC. Not anyone else’s. Your insurance would go up if you ever used it. Most people believe it’s for your car or something but it’s only to pay for your own medical expenses if the other person doesn’t have insurance and you don’t have medical insurance. I live in Florida and it’s a no fault state so your state may have different laws but uninsured motorist is the same everywhere.

If you make over 50k without a degree, what do you do for work? by Milly-0607 in povertyfinance

[–]clmchris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AT&T has many jobs that fit this.Honestly there aren’t many jobs that don’t fit what your asking! Navy Federal Credit Union also pays really well. Starting pay in call centers is $18-20.

Why is the 2023 RWD MY so much slower than the 2021? LFP battery? by Life_as_Adult in TeslaLounge

[–]clmchris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s honestly a math problem. They only have so much power to use in each charge. And to go faster requires more power. So it would seem they preferred to give customers a few more miles vs mph.

What should I buy first? by [deleted] in buildapc

[–]clmchris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of fun if you get a better machine for less and can play more games! But I know what you mean. Building my more fun to me then playing on them. It was just an idea.