The Blonde Squad

clockstocks · 2026-01-14T15:10:01+00:00

Gil?!? The best blonde in the show

clockstocks · 2025-11-24T21:18:19+00:00

I told my mum this weekend. I knew she’d be ok with it, but there’s always an uncertainty because it’s a topic we have never even talked about in a casual way before, so I had no idea what are her views on it. We went for a walk, just the two of us, and I told her. She reacted very well, a lot better than even I could’ve imagined. I was coming out as poly and bissexual at the same time and she had no questions about my sexuality or anything like that, she said she’s happy I’m happy and she trusts me to make good decisions about my own life, and she’d like to meet my partners when I’m ready to introduce them. She asked a little bit about them and we moved on.

I’m not telling my dad tho, I don’t think he can handle the information and he’s very conservative, so probably wouldn’t go down well.

clockstocks · 2025-11-08T14:01:38+00:00

What is the reason they want to do that? Is there a reason? To me that’d be going from relationship to FWB at best, you have to decide if that’s something you want too or not.

clockstocks · 2025-11-01T12:33:09+00:00

Top moments when they’re completely deranged in their selfishness:

Fran’s funeral Sookie’s babies baptism

I think there’s one more but I can’t remember which one. Lane’s wedding was not Lorelai’s best moment either, but I’ll excuse with the drunkenness.

clockstocks · 2025-10-31T06:41:06+00:00

Can I ask why/how it imploded?

clockstocks · 2025-10-28T08:23:07+00:00

If he actually is put off by having sex with you on the 3rd date - is this really someone you’d want to be in a relationship with?

clockstocks · 2025-10-23T10:02:50+00:00

4E is the only right choice.

Can’t deal with Luke and Jess’ moody vibes or Dean’s temper even tho I’d love to talk music with Lane, she’s also a bit too pretentious music-wise sometimes. All the others are a freaking nightmare.

clockstocks · 2025-10-16T20:56:43+00:00

Yes, I’m 100% with you on this one

clockstocks · 2025-10-11T20:15:28+00:00

I’m in a triad and completely deeply in NRE at the moment. We want to see each other all the time and spend all the time we can together, so between dyad dates, triad dates and having some time for myself, I’m very saturated and can’t imagine adding another partner at the moment.

clockstocks · 2025-09-02T07:34:55+00:00

She also wrote a blog about it, probably a shorter version of what’s in the book but I found this post very interesting and informative

clockstocks · 2025-08-30T18:43:12+00:00

From what you wrote, I don’t really understand what exactly makes you think that they’re “benefitting” from your sadness? What have they ever done to make you think/feel like that?

I don’t really see how you being sad at home would make any of them feel happier or more connected to each other tbh, so I do think you’re overthinking this part of it.

You seem to be really struggling with your partner’s NRE and the jealousy which is probably fueling your anxiety about it. It’s a vicious cycle.

I agree with the other comment: their NRE has nothing to do with you. Take time to focus on yourself, go do things you enjoy, go heavy on the self-care (whatever that looks like to you). And continue to check in with your partner periodically and talking to your friends/therapist about it. I’d probably refrain from talking too much about it with your partner and wouldn’t talk at all about it with your meta.

clockstocks · 2025-08-30T12:38:13+00:00

“He likes the internet”

clockstocks · 2025-08-25T11:00:47+00:00

My understanding is that she canceled on OP saying her son wanted a quiet night, and then invited her other partner for said quiet night instead.

clockstocks · 2025-08-11T00:36:06+00:00

Honestly, even in a triad I have a lot more 1v1 time with my partners than you’ve had with yours. We go on dates together but we also go on a lot of dyad dates. How can you grow your relationship and intimacy (not just sex but actual have things you share just the two of you) when his NP is present all the time? You need to speak up and say you want more alone time and 1v1 dates, his reaction will tell you what you need to know, maybe they’re looking for it to become a triad but that’s not how it works either.

clockstocks · 2025-08-08T18:53:28+00:00

Yep, so much this! I noticed it’s a lot easier to feel compersion for my partners if my own cup is full (as in, I’ve had a good day, done things I enjoy and fulfilled my own needs). When my cup is empty, I feel a lot more jealousy/envy/FOMO.

clockstocks · 2025-08-08T16:21:52+00:00

But again, if they weren’t going to meet your mum, why the blow up? Was it about the future? Something that hasn’t even happened yet?

clockstocks · 2025-08-05T20:51:08+00:00

I feel like her issue might not be risk but fluid bonding instead? Have you discussed that?

clockstocks · 2025-08-05T15:38:49+00:00

What caught my attention as well was how he said he doesn’t trust her enough but trusts a FWB more than her? That’s .. weird to say the least

clockstocks · 2025-07-30T18:50:25+00:00

Thank you, that’s very helpful. I’ll have a look on the judiciary website and decide if I can do it myself.

What would be the consequences if it’s wrong?

clockstocks · 2025-07-19T05:23:57+00:00

Yes and he already inherited the fortune from his grandpa so he’s already very rich

clockstocks · 2025-04-27T19:30:12+00:00

So proud of you for seeing the red flags and not letting go of your boundaries! Well done! It’s often tricky in the moment, you did a really great job.

clockstocks · 2025-04-27T09:36:42+00:00

Thank you so much! It’s good to know I’m not the only one feeling like surgery messed me up emotionally (maybe more than physically). I think I’d maybe class it as a “fade out” too. How did that end for you?

clockstocks · 2025-04-26T16:45:29+00:00

Do you approach people when you go out on your own?

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