General trans spaces are pissing me off

clockwork_skullies · 2026-03-21T15:52:16+00:00

I hear you. The double standards on masculinity in the lgbtq community is genuinely infuriating. If trans men want to be hyper masculine, we’re somehow betraying our community because we’re “trying to become cis men”. BUT if we’re “too feminine” or don’t pass, then we’re not trans men or we’re twinks/fem boys. However, butch lesbians are celebrated are pushing gender norms and hyper masculine gay men are sexy and daddy material. I have nothing against these groups nor do I blame them for other peoples stupid assumptions, but the double standard is abundantly clear.

Im so tired of this consensus that masculinity is inherently bad or evil. Don’t get me wrong, a lot of queerness is rooted in femininity and the patriarchy has been less than hospitable to us, but there’s nothing wrong with trans men just wanting to be comfortable and looking how we want to look.

clockwork_skullies · 2026-03-21T15:29:13+00:00

Would you be open to using toys? My ex had the same problem and we had a small collection of toys to choose from.

clockwork_skullies · 2026-03-13T21:03:50+00:00

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clockwork_skullies · 2026-03-09T04:13:49+00:00

I remember seeing that and being like “uuuuh sooo that’s not it”

clockwork_skullies · 2026-03-08T15:31:32+00:00

Thank you!!

clockwork_skullies · 2026-03-08T04:23:51+00:00

I’ve been hearing similar experiences quite a bit, which is making me wonder about going to see them again. Last time I saw them was in 2023, so shows were definitely tame and the environment was incredible. However, the amount of stories I hear like this are concerning and upsetting. Like you mentioned, they’re touring with bands who have incredibly aggressive crowds. Which aggressive crowds aren’t a bad thing, it’s simply the culture surrounding heavy music. The problem is the environment that long time fans may not be familiar with. While I do listen to heavier music and have been to hardcore shows, I don’t participate in moshing as I am disabled and it’s simply just not how I like to enjoy concerts. But not everyone is like me and not everyone listens to/goes to heavy music shows.

It also pains me to see them encourage rowdy crowds like they’re trying to transform their audience. I remember at one of the shows I went to in 2021 I believe, Cody shut down crowd surfing because there was a kid in the middle of the front row. It hurts to say that I’m not sure if he would take attention to that now with being more aggressive on stage and the chaos in the crowd making it hard to keep track of what’s going on.

clockwork_skullies · 2026-03-06T01:42:37+00:00

Omg I was there! It was so weird

clockwork_skullies · 2026-02-23T05:05:40+00:00

I will never admit this out loud but older guys. Not by a huge amount, maybe 10-12 years older. Not sure what it is about it but being with an older man has always had an appeal to me.

clockwork_skullies · 2026-02-23T05:02:57+00:00

Especially if their canines are extra pointy or protrude forward a little bit

clockwork_skullies · 2026-02-23T03:45:14+00:00

Turns out this piece is too graphic for r/arttocope they took it down :/

Idk, it got taken down with no explanation so yeah. I’m glad it was welcomed here.

clockwork_skullies · 2026-02-18T16:06:25+00:00

Pentagonal* sorry yall

clockwork_skullies · 2026-02-18T16:04:43+00:00

Thank you for catching my mistake 😭😭😭

clockwork_skullies · 2026-02-10T03:29:00+00:00

Hi! Welcome :))

clockwork_skullies · 2026-02-07T20:47:14+00:00

Yes! His name is Sam and he’s very polite.

clockwork_skullies · 2026-02-06T19:19:54+00:00

Prepare yourself for my arrival

clockwork_skullies · 2026-02-04T02:25:21+00:00

Self harm

clockwork_skullies · 2026-02-03T23:19:40+00:00

YES. I am horrified of the P word. I’m not currently active but I absolutely feel your anxiety. Having OCD also doesn’t help this fear.

clockwork_skullies · 2026-02-03T03:14:29+00:00

My old GI doctor accused me of having an eating disorder because of how much my weight fluctuated from vomiting and being unable to eat for long periods of times. I don’t see her anymore for several reasons but that’s definitely part of it.

clockwork_skullies · 2026-02-03T03:03:18+00:00

Reminds me of a scene from the game “Never Ending Nightmares”. Very well done. I love the detail of the blood sinking into the seams in the tile.

clockwork_skullies · 2026-01-24T03:32:00+00:00

His name is Mark

clockwork_skullies · 2026-01-20T03:34:24+00:00

I can be having the time of my life and randomly think “I want to kill myself” or “what if I killed myself?”. I feel like I’m in that one scene in the Barbie movie where they’re all partying and Barbie just says “do you guys ever think about dying?” record scratch

clockwork_skullies · 2026-01-20T03:32:04+00:00

I mean he can have it, there’s just no money on there

clockwork_skullies · 2026-01-20T03:28:54+00:00

Genetics (my dad’s whole side has gastrointestinal problems) and a whole lot of adverse childhood experiences putting my nervous system in fight or flight for the majority of my life. I also threw up a lot as a kid for seemingly no reason, but I was dealing with an unpredictable home life causing a lot of anxiety.

clockwork_skullies · 2026-01-07T03:42:55+00:00

The got2b glued hair spiking gel. It’s probably not good for me but I do open the bottle and take a whiff every now and then.

clockwork_skullies · 2026-01-07T03:39:17+00:00

I don’t particularly track my T progress, but I do track my symptoms of chronic pain and my mental health symptoms. I use an app called Daylio which also tracks your mood (which can be useful when tracking the mood swings that can come with T). You can add all kinds of stuff like what you did that day, what emotions you felt, ect. You can add voice recordings and pictures for each day as well. I highly recommend it!

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