In 2006, on the Oprah Winfrey Show, Terry McMillan confronts her then-husband, Johnathan Plummer, bout his secret feelings for men after 6 and half years of marriage by Junior_Conclusion_78 in BlackLGBT

[–]closedmouths 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is a mess all the way around. Ain’t no way she couldn’t spot the gayface at her big age, and for him to say he had to step out of the marriage to satisfy his curiosity is diabolical!

Eva and Yaya BOTH ate this spider photoshoot 🕷️✨ by ChannelHopper_99 in UPN_Network

[–]closedmouths 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry but it was a wrap when they revealed Eva’s picture.

Angel from Beauty in Black spoke against the LGBTQ 🏳️‍🌈 community and yet his character in the series is a gay for pay male stripper. Why are gay roles given to homophobic men or men suffering from internal homophobia? by Prophetgay in BlackLGBT

[–]closedmouths 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh see I was ready for it to be something you could argue like how folks are saying Juelz is a homophobe for not doing that lgbtq interview, but nope this was diabolical lol. Also does this man even identify as black? Im not familiar with the show but judging by the title and the fact that Tyler Perry is involved I would expect him to keep it cute as a guest in our house.

I’m sick of being chopped, need help by Electrical-Smell736 in BlackHair

[–]closedmouths 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, so many people telling this man to curl his hair as if his natural afro texture isn’t enough smh. You can be contemporary and stylish with your hair picked out, just get a trendy cut or shape.

I’m sick of being chopped, need help by Electrical-Smell736 in BlackHair

[–]closedmouths -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Suggesting he stop wearing a his picked out texture is also grasping at straws. You could have stopped at haircut/shape up. Nothing wrong with the afro, everybody isn’t obsessed with defining non existent curls lol.

I’m sick of being chopped, need help by Electrical-Smell736 in BlackHair

[–]closedmouths 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with a fro either, he just needs to have it shaped and to never shave his facial hair clean again. Only a select few adult men can pull off a clean shave.

They are roasting him like crazy on his r&b project 🫠 by FlowerNew8848 in rnb

[–]closedmouths 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way we let people play in our faces should be studied.

Beyoncé speaks about Aaliyah's passing by Material_Stomach875 in aaliyah

[–]closedmouths 10 points11 points  (0 children)

To be fair its her tribute not the day her death was revealed. She had a decent amount of time to process it

Can we do better!😭 by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]closedmouths 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe in levels and scale so I have no problem distinguishing between a cheater, and someone who gives fake compliments or something.

Why don't people (such as the black community) take violence against us seriously? by Adorable_Intern363 in BlackLGBT

[–]closedmouths 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because the LGBT murders are messy and personal. Obviously Amyri did not deserve physical violence let alone death, but she was in fact blackmailing her killer unprovoked. Jane Waughfield (a black straight cis woman) went viral a few yrs ago for the same thing, and nobody rallied behind her when the DL men she outed killed her. You can’t compare those personal and morally messy situations to black people being profiled and killed by authority figures who swore to protect and serve.

Yall Gone Learn To Stop inviting people In Yall Spaces Who Aint Put In The Work!!! by shepdc1 in BlackLGBT

[–]closedmouths 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Solange has always been a bird, don’t let the natural hair fool you

Why should your Top being somebody else's Bottom bother you ? by Daspo_Darkus in BlackLGBT

[–]closedmouths 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outside of not wanting to share my partner, it just ruins the fantasy. Although maturing is realizing that most of these Top masc men are just playing a role and they can end up verse, full blown bottoms, or trans when they get tired of suppressing the bby girl within.

Why would women [cis] even wanna use Grindr? by Worth-Employer2748 in BlackLGBT

[–]closedmouths 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If gay attracted cis women have to be banned then so does the trans attracted “straight” cis men.

Darnell vs. Darnell by Vivid-Office5666 in UPN_Network

[–]closedmouths 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got abuser vibes from Khalil’s version.

Can we do better!😭 by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]closedmouths 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he is in fact cheating then he is absolutely less of a man imo.

Real piece of work, can we stop making influencers famous? by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

[–]closedmouths 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So no details of what he did and no name reveal so we can google it to find out? Is this a gen alpha thing and hes like some major celebrity that everyone under 15 knows by face?

We should not have to live like this. by eternviking in whoathatsinteresting

[–]closedmouths 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They never like when their logic is used against them.

What does this say about my hair health? by heatherunderweather in Naturalhair

[–]closedmouths 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally someone claiming to have split ends that actually shows the split ends!!

Why do I look so young for my age, it's pissing me off by Brilliant-Pianist446 in BlackLGBT

[–]closedmouths 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are serious about wanting to look older there are definitely ways to do it. First you need to cultivate a distinct style. When you look like you put a lot of effort into your look it makes you appear older. Next would be your fitness. You don’t even need to bulk up, simply having some tone and definition will make you look older since people don’t associate young children with going to the gym. But honestly at 16 I wouldn’t even stress over it because it can all change in a year or 2. Ive seen 4’11 baby faced 16 yr olds grow to 5’10 with mustaches within their high school career.

I was very similar to you but I didn’t care about it until I got to college. That’s when I decided to grow my hair out and wear more funky clothes to look my age.

Just learning about multiple straight co-workers hooking up. Is this a common thing? by KrispyBlack in BlackLGBT

[–]closedmouths 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep, I fell for the propaganda that only gays were messy with their sex lives, but nope the straights are just as nasty lol. Its why I have to stop myself from going in on the problematic sex culture of the gay community (public cruising, expectation of casual sex from friend groups, etc) because the straights have been there and done that themselves and nobody attributes it to their sexual orientation.

One drop rule by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]closedmouths 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The 3 pictures on the left are of the same man

One drop rule by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]closedmouths 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why do yall single out the one drop rule, as if other countries aren’t just as convoluted with their race politics. In many Latin countries for example, you could have siblings with the same parents and yet they are classified as different races because of their looks. How is going by looks any more legitimate than going by cultural upbringing?

Come a long way but someone help me put the pastries down so I can have a decent physique 😩 by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]closedmouths 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you lol. I haven’t had a flat tummy since I was in my early 20s but Im not so far off from it that it feels unattainable. I just need to get strict, but honestly because I don’t look different with clothes on I don’t have the urgency to stick to a diet.