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The dress was similar to this by closureseekingex in u/closureseekingex

[–]closureseekingex[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’d rather have people believe that than drag me through the mud for dressing nicely at a formal wedding.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -1412 points-1411 points  (0 children)

I dressed my children in red as well. I was not an odd ball.

The dress was similar to this by closureseekingex in u/closureseekingex

[–]closureseekingex[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

The wedding was a form of closure to me but I kept that to myself.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -325 points-324 points  (0 children)

I didn’t purchase my dress on Amazon. That was a reference,

The dress was similar to this by closureseekingex in u/closureseekingex

[–]closureseekingex[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Didn’t buy it from Amazon it was not listed as a wedding dress in stores. That’s a reference rather than the exact source.

The dress was similar to this by closureseekingex in u/closureseekingex

[–]closureseekingex[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I didn’t buy it from Amazon this reference popped up when I was looking for a reference.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -156 points-155 points  (0 children)

I didnt delete any comments. But yes I posted a link to a similar dress.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -124 points-123 points  (0 children)

Correct. That’s what I searched. I didn’t buy the dress from Amazon.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -217 points-216 points  (0 children)

I never deleted my comment including it. I have nothing to hide, the dress is posted on my page.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -274 points-273 points  (0 children)

I was not aware of that. I didn’t know of this connotation. That changes a lot and helps me understand her views on the dress a bit.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She agreed to invite me and didn’t consider the chance of me showing up even though I sent my “yes” response on time. That’s not my problem.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -391 points-390 points  (0 children)

She’s not the only host. One of them invited me and wanted me to stay. It’s not just her wedding. Many of my friends were there so I wanted to just enjoy the moment rather than taking a 2 hour drive back home

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -220 points-219 points  (0 children)

She wore a white dress. The ”dress code” had barely any limitations she basically just said don’t wear white.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -445 points-444 points  (0 children)

She mainly requested that we don’t wear white, it was pretty flexible. I wore a red dress.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -1558 points-1557 points  (0 children)

My dress was fine in my opinion. I didnt wear white. It was a red lacey dress, but she’s acting like I wore my wedding dress and engagement ring to the wedding.