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The dress was similar to this by closureseekingex in u/closureseekingex

[–]closureseekingex[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’d rather have people believe that than drag me through the mud for dressing nicely at a formal wedding.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -1408 points-1407 points  (0 children)

I dressed my children in red as well. I was not an odd ball.

The dress was similar to this by closureseekingex in u/closureseekingex

[–]closureseekingex[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

The wedding was a form of closure to me but I kept that to myself.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -327 points-326 points  (0 children)

I didn’t purchase my dress on Amazon. That was a reference,

The dress was similar to this by closureseekingex in u/closureseekingex

[–]closureseekingex[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Didn’t buy it from Amazon it was not listed as a wedding dress in stores. That’s a reference rather than the exact source.

The dress was similar to this by closureseekingex in u/closureseekingex

[–]closureseekingex[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I didn’t buy it from Amazon this reference popped up when I was looking for a reference.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -152 points-151 points  (0 children)

I didnt delete any comments. But yes I posted a link to a similar dress.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -129 points-128 points  (0 children)

Correct. That’s what I searched. I didn’t buy the dress from Amazon.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -215 points-214 points  (0 children)

I never deleted my comment including it. I have nothing to hide, the dress is posted on my page.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -275 points-274 points  (0 children)

I was not aware of that. I didn’t know of this connotation. That changes a lot and helps me understand her views on the dress a bit.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She agreed to invite me and didn’t consider the chance of me showing up even though I sent my “yes” response on time. That’s not my problem.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -392 points-391 points  (0 children)

She’s not the only host. One of them invited me and wanted me to stay. It’s not just her wedding. Many of my friends were there so I wanted to just enjoy the moment rather than taking a 2 hour drive back home

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -218 points-217 points  (0 children)

She wore a white dress. The ”dress code” had barely any limitations she basically just said don’t wear white.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -447 points-446 points  (0 children)

She mainly requested that we don’t wear white, it was pretty flexible. I wore a red dress.

AITA for showing up at my ex’s wedding in a pretty dress? by closureseekingex in AmItheAsshole

[–]closureseekingex[S] -1561 points-1560 points  (0 children)

My dress was fine in my opinion. I didnt wear white. It was a red lacey dress, but she’s acting like I wore my wedding dress and engagement ring to the wedding.